After breaking up with Wang Ziwen, Wu Yongen used dating software to make friends?
In the blink of an eye, Wang Ziwen and his rich and handsome boyfriend Wu Yongen have been separated for a year.
The romance began quickly and ended abruptly. Wang Ziwen said lightly in last year's variety show, "Although there is no lover", completely declaring that the two are no longer possible.
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After the breakup, Wang Ziwen's career is directly soaring, film and television variety shows, no one is left behind, starring in "The Three-Body Problem" Ye Wenjie in 2023, and he has received wide acclaim, and his popularity has risen many points.
Female stars live like her, super stylish, with countless masterpieces in acting, don't worry about word-of-mouth and resources, in life, you don't have to get married, raise your own baby, is there a winner in life?
Wu Yongen's side, there is not much news, until not long ago, a blogger shared his recent situation, and after taking care of other affairs, Wu has now returned to work at Google. Reading between the lines, the blogger is full of praise for Wu.
Someone in Los Angeles happened to meet him going to the supermarket, looking quite low-key and simple, but still handsome. There seems to be no new progress in his love life, but some netizens have swiped that he is playing dating software.
Google's job and graduate school all correspond to the known statements, and the photos with these photos are quite consistent with other real-name dating apps, and they also mention the reality show experience in China, so it's probably me.
Looking at the photos and introductions, it is indeed excellent. Because Wang Ziwen was too obvious and involved in love at that time, and the man's conditions were really good, most netizens thought that the two broke up because the man took the initiative, and Wang Ziwen belonged to the party that was "looked down upon".
This is not necessary, to talk about academic qualifications, first of all, the diploma can not prove too much, and secondly, Wang Ziwen, who has produced so many works, is impossible to have no ink on his chest, and the two of them are elites in their respective industries.
What is the height, Sister Wang's aura is 1.8 meters. On appearance? Male amateurs compare their appearance with female celebrities, will they be a little self-conscious.
Someone mentioned that Wang Ziwen had a son and gave birth to a baby. This is worth talking about, because from this point it is extended, and the truth of the breakup of the two people is hidden.
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The relationship between the two has been the envy of countless people. The man is a standard ABC, a solid family, family friendship, a high-achieving student at the University of California, Tsinghua has studied Chinese, has Google experience, the software is quite able to play, the hardware does not pull the crotch, 183cm tall, strong body, superior body shape.
And he is a gentleman, well-educated, and the whole person looks sunny and stretched, in the words of netizens, "I have a face that has not been bullied." ”
When Lian Zong first met, Wang Ziwen was captured by his appearance and temperament, smiling, and focusing on love at first sight.
On the first date, the man's gentle, meticulous and proper performance also greatly added points. The two looked at each other, and the follow-up progress was smooth and fast, and "Piano Kiss" became a classic scene.
Generally speaking, everyone is in love and playing, but Wang Ziwen is obviously serious, and when the show ended, the two were directly officially announced together.
Wang Ziwen's English name "Ava" was given to her by Wu Yongen.
Wang Ziwen's original family was not happy, her parents divorced when she was young, she lived with her mother, she was sensible and worked odd jobs to earn pocket money since she was a child, and she entered the entertainment industry for many years before she came out, and she had children out of wedlock.
Wang Ziwen is very insecure in her heart, and she has been in love constantly, trying to make up for the lack of love from the relationship, so it is difficult for her to resist a person like Wu Yongen with a simple background and a strong heart.
However, before the official announcement, there was an intriguing episode, which was about children. Wang Ziwen took the initiative to confess to Wu Yongen, saying that she had a child of her own, and she took the initiative to disclose her privacy in the show, which was her giving the man the right to know and respect, highlighting her seriousness and importance.
However, after hearing this, Wu Yongen was silent at first, then went to the bathroom, where there was no camera, to digest the information, and when he came back, the two embraced, and then skipped the topic tacitly.
Most netizens think that Wang Ziwen has a child, which is a threshold that the man can't pass, even if he didn't care at the time, it is impossible not to take it to heart. Wu Yongen was born Chinese and received an American-style education since he was a child, but the family's ideological tradition is imprinted in his bones. And this may be the reason for the two to fall apart, the two are too different.
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Female celebrities and amateur rich second generations, family backgrounds, educational backgrounds, and lifestyles are very different, and there may be novelty at first, but after the first sight, the concerns of reality fall to the ground, and the hidden differences will explode.
But this is not the main problem, the fundamental thing is that the core of the two is too far apart, Wang Ziwen once lacked love, so he especially needs to pin his sense of security on his partner, his heart is not as strong as it seems, and the little girl who needs shade in the intimate relationship.
She unconsciously puts in a lot, and she also asks for a lot. The man grew up pampered and in his thirties, but he was just a sunny and cheerful boy. Asking a boy to take care of a girl who is 5 years older than him seems to be an ideal combination.
The performance of the two in the second variety show is the dull appearance after the passion retreats. Will quarrel over a little thing. Wang Ziwen said "Is it okay to cook a dish for you" when cooking, and the man immediately fried the pot, thinking that what two people eat should not be said to be made for him.
In essence, he just wants to communicate on an equal footing, and he feels that the unilateral love of the other half is so heavy, which makes him feel a lot of pressure. But he only thought about how to make himself comfortable, and didn't think about whether the woman was comfortable or not.
Including when distributing supplies, the man does not consider the woman's feelings, and if he can know how to take care of his partner's emotions, he will not talk like that. The frequent Cold War is also the result of people with two ideologies who are unable to communicate and unwilling to accommodate each other and wronged themselves.
There is also a disagreement written on the face, and boys and girls will not hide their emotions in front of each other.
In the end, it is to break up, delete all the intersections at the public level, and then through the mouth of Wang Ziwen, the romance will officially come to an end. In them, we have witnessed with our own eyes how beautiful love is moving towards the end of mediocrity step by step.
But I don't want to accuse the man of not being good enough and loving enough, because the essence is just not suitable.
Wu Yongen is also very good, he is not short of money, and he doesn't think about using the woman's fame to make money, he just pays more attention to himself and can't be unconditionally tolerant. His ideology determines that he will only regard this relationship as an emotional experience in his life, and after sorting it out, he will say goodbye and start the next journey, such as joining the company and using dating software to make a new girlfriend.
As for Wang Ziwen, it is difficult to say whether she has learned anything from this experience, whether she continues to be in a romantic relationship, seeking a false sense of security, or finally realizing that she relies on everyone to run. The sense of security that women want can only be given by themselves after all.
But it doesn't matter, it's already a winner in both career and life, and it's not a big deal to suffer occasional losses, it's good to wake up at the age of 36, and it's completely okay to wake up at the age of 56. Life is about experience, and having experienced the peak beauty of that moment is no longer in vain.