Say these three words to your child more before going to bed, your child will be better, and parents should not be stingy
Text/Ting's mother
In the process of children's growth, parents' words and deeds are undoubtedly important factors affecting the development of children's personality and behavior.
Many parents want to develop their children's self-confidence, positive attitude, and good habits through communication with them.
Bedtime communication with children is a very precious time, a golden moment for parents to communicate with their children. At this moment, the child's heart is like a fertile soil, waiting for the love words and water of wisdom from parents to nourish it.
Saying the following three words to your child before going to bed can make your child better and strengthen the parent-child relationship.
First sentence: You are awesome!
Affirmation and encouragement are indispensable nutrients for children's development
Parental affirmation and encouragement are crucial as children grow up. These positive words not only motivate children to keep trying, but also boost their self-confidence and promote their all-round development.
1. Affirmation and encouragement help children build self-confidence
When a child is making progress or excelling in something, parental affirmation and encouragement can inspire self-confidence for children to feel that their efforts are being recognized.
This self-confidence building can make children more courageous and determined in the face of other challenges.
2. Affirmation and encouragement can stimulate children's enthusiasm
When children are affirmed and encouraged by their parents, this positive feedback can motivate children to be more active in various activities and try new things.
3. Affirmation and encouragement help to cultivate children's good qualities
With the affirmation and encouragement of parents, children will gradually form a positive attitude and develop the good qualities of hard work and perseverance. These qualities will stay with your child throughout their life and become key factors in their success.
When a child excels or makes progress in something, we should give timely affirmation and encouragement.
Positive affirmations can help children build a sense of self-worth, which is an important step towards excellence.
Sentence 2: What dreams do you have?
Dreams are the driving force and source of children's growth
Dream is the star in everyone's heart, illuminating the way forward and giving people the motivation to move forward.
For children, dreams are the catalyst for their growth, and the driving force for them to express themselves and pursue the future.
Before the child goes to bed, parents can ask the child "What are your dreams?", which is not only a simple inquiry, but also an exploration and inspiration of the child's inner world. It can stimulate children's imagination and creativity, and at the same time, it can also make children more clear about their goals and directions.
Every child has their own dreams, which may be as big as an astronaut exploring the stars and a sea, or as small as planting a small seed waiting for it to take root. But no matter how big or small, these dreams are the expectations and yearning of children's hearts, and they are the driving force behind their growth.
As parents, we should pay attention to our children's dreams and support their dreams. Parental support and encouragement are essential for children to achieve their dreams.
The third sentence: "No matter what happens, we will always love you." ”
Unconditional love is a source of inner security for children
There is nothing happier for a child than to be loved unconditionally by their parents.
This unconditional love makes children feel worth and makes them understand that no matter how well they behave, no matter what difficulties they encounter, there is a warm harbor waiting for them to return.
This sense of security is the cornerstone of a child's development, giving them more confidence to face the challenges ahead.
Unconditional love not only gives children a sense of inner security, but also is a catalyst for their inner potential.
When children know that they will receive support and encouragement from their parents no matter what they do, they are more likely to be brave enough to step out of their comfort zone and challenge themselves. this
A positive mindset and self-confidence will stay with children throughout their lives and be the key to their success.
As parents, we must always remind ourselves that unconditional love is the cornerstone of our children's growth.
We need to tell our children with practical actions: "No matter what happens, we will always love you." Let children grow in love and let them face the challenges of the future with confidence.
Bedtime is a precious time for parents to communicate emotionally with their children. By saying "You're awesome!", "What are your dreams?", and "No matter what happens today, we will always love you." These three sentences can not only enhance the child's self-confidence, sense of security and optimism, but also promote the harmonious development of the parent-child relationship.
Parents, don't be stingy with your words of love, let your children thrive under the nourishment of love.
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