Text | The wind stops at night
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In the relationship between men and women, once a woman lowers her value, she will not only lose the feelings that do not belong to her, but also make men look down on her!
In the face of the man she loves deeply and wants to go for the rest of her life, women want to be the only one-of-a-kind preference!
So much so that in the face of a man's flawed acting skills, the sores in his heart can be called the pain covered by self-paralysis.
The purpose is to still want to be together, and the motivation is because there are still expectations and do not want to be separated.
You have already seen through his acting skills, and you have exposed his perfunctory skills many times, but you are still reluctant?
Actually, women you don't know:
What you can't give up is the illusion that your own heart is unwilling to cause! What you can't let go of is your uneasy attachment!
Therefore, you saw through his heart, you debunked him several times, and still with anger, grievances, and unwilling emotions, you went to stay with him!
People, how can there be any real moth to the fire to fall in love with whom? It's just the feeling that falling in love with that person gives you.
When this beautiful feeling has become the past and the relationship has deteriorated, it is worth repairing if it can be repaired, and when it cannot be repaired, stop the loss in time!
Otherwise, the other party has begun to be perfunctory and ruthless, and you are just gathering and entangled, and only your own dignity is damaged!
See through him, expose him and be reluctant to leave him: woman, don't drop the price, okay?
It's not that he doesn't know how to refuse to fall into a cross-border heterosexual relationship, but he has always been intoxicated with temptation:
In the middle of this reality where desires run rampant, you must not use your pure thinking to define a dirty soul!
For a man who is in the midst of temptation, he never thinks of refusing, not that he does not know how to refuse!
A person who is truly worthy of the rest of your life and can bring you a preferred experience will not leave room for temptation to "arise" at all, so how can there be a chance to fall into temptation?
Fundamentally speaking, a man's deep temptation is the result of their subjective curiosity and luck!
In addition, it is because you have passed away for him and the value of existence is not enough, that he goes to the company of "temptation" without consideration!
You know that you are no longer the only man who is no longer the only man, you know the fact that you are not loved, and you have exposed him more than once, but you are still reluctant to leave him, so you have cultivated the biggest hero in the scum world!
Being scumbag, sad at the same time, and not letting go of the pain, is a woman's biggest ignorance and the most priceless behavior!
It's not that he doesn't have the ability to empathize, you just can't be the one he loves the most:
"The Last Lover" says:
You don't have to be the person you love the most, as long as the last one, your last lover in this life, and there will be no one else in the future......
However, the person who identifies you does not need you to say anything, ask for anything, or deliberately ask for anything, he will naturally give it to you from the bottom of his heart!
If a person doesn't identify you in his heart, the minimum empathy ability will be lacking!
Or, if an extremely selfish person only cares about his own gains and losses, how can he have the experience and time to pay attention to your joys and sorrows?
Therefore, you pierced him, you know that behind his unempathy for you, he is not convinced, he is selfish, but you don't admit defeat......
Therefore, you have been trying to change him, but after repeated setbacks, you still don't know how to turn back, and in the eyes of men, you have become a person who "you can't do without me"!
In that case, how can the other party empathize with you?
At all times, you must remember the truth of loving yourself before loving others, and only if you are willing to take your feelings seriously, you don't have to be humble and let people treat you as nothing!
The first person to empathize should be yourself, and the object of the relationship is valuable empathy with you! Don't use your so-called love to bind the relationship.
It's one thing whether you're good or not, it's another thing whether the other person is willing to care about your feelings!
saw through him, and also exposed him, turning around is the right choice:
You know he's uncertain about you, you know he's not everything, and there's nothing wrong with expecting it.
What's wrong is that you know that you don't know how to pretend to be stupid, and you still go to expose him.
The mistake is that after you have pierced him, you have not left him!
So, what is your purpose in exposing him?
It's more useful to play dumb than to show that you know everything when you still want the relationship!
When you decide to poke him, simply turn around and stay by his side, which will make him miss you more!
At least, the moment you turn around, you retain your dignity and decency at the end!
He betrayed you, and you still worked hard to repair the relationship......
He's just playing, but you have to force him to be serious......
He just uses you, but you have to impress him with affection......
Don't let your life be wasted in a fruitless relationship, be brave enough to give yourself a new starting point, a chance to be born again.
Withdrawing the wrong person, even if you go alone for the rest of your life, it is a different kind of wonderful!
You have to be a person who loves yourself first!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
Topic discussion: Are you a person who knows how to give up?