Narrator: Ma Zhenguo
My name is Ma Zhenguo, I am 63 years old this year, I am a retired officer of a bureau in the county, when I was 38 years old, my wife died of illness, for a pair of children, I have always insisted on not getting married.
When my wife died, my two children were only in their teens, and many people introduced me to someone, but I didn't agree, for fear that my stepmother would not treat her children well, so I worked hard to bring up the two children.
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The daughter got married in her early 20s, and gave birth to a daughter and a son.
My son is also in the clothing business, and he got married two years ago, and after less than a year of marriage, my daughter-in-law gave birth to a white and chubby granddaughter, and I was very happy.
Looking at my chubby granddaughter, I was also worried, I was a big man, but I had never taken care of such a young child, there was no way, my daughter-in-law invited her mother-in-law to my house.
After my mother came to my house, our house was originally three bedrooms, my son and daughter-in-law lived in one bedroom, my mother and granddaughter lived in one bedroom, and there was a bedroom facing north that I could live in.
But I'm a little weird-tempered, I'm in my 60s, and my mother is in her 50s.
After thinking about it, I moved to live in the single dormitory of my original unit, which was on the second floor, the first floor was the façade room facing the street, and below the dormitory building was a big hotel.
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After moving to the single dormitory, I can adapt to everything else, living in a room alone, I can simply cook a meal, the only inconvenient thing is that the restaurant is very lively at night, sometimes it can be noisy until more than 12 o'clock.
I used to be a soldier, and I was used to working and resting on time, and I couldn't stand them being so noisy every day.
Originally, I wanted to go out and rent a room to live, but my daughter knew about this situation, so she persuaded me: You are old, and you have high blood pressure, you live alone outside at night, in case something happens, we don't know, we have three bedrooms, and one bedroom is empty, you come here every night to sleep, it is better than you go out to rent a house alone, we are more relieved.
In this way, I lived in the dormitory of the unit during the day, and I came to my daughter's house at ten o'clock in the evening, rested until five o'clock in the morning, and began to go out to exercise.
After I had breakfast outside, I went back to my daughter's house and took my little grandson out to play.
The little grandson is also more than two years old and has not yet gone to kindergarten, but the boy is naughty and does not like to stay in the house, and the daughter is not in good health and cannot take him out to play.
I now live at my daughter's house at night, and I can help my daughter take her grandson during the day, and I go back to the dormitory during dinner, cook and eat by myself every day, and only spend the night at their house at night.
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I am also a more self-disciplined person, every time I go back to sleep, I am light-hearted, I don't want to alarm my son-in-law them, when I go out in the morning, most of the days are not yet bright, my daughter and son-in-law have not gotten up, so I can avoid taking a picture of my son-in-law, after all, my father-in-law lives in my son-in-law's house, and I always feel uncomfortable.
Many people laugh at me for running to my daughter's house to live in when I don't live in my own house, and I don't think I'm wrong at all.
Because I have no experience with small babies and can't take my granddaughter, if I live with my son, daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, it may cause some unnecessary family conflicts.
Now I live alone in the unit, and when I go back to my daughter's house at night to get a good night's sleep, it doesn't affect anyone, and my son-in-law won't see me and feel awkward, I don't think it's inappropriate.
A family has a special situation, like me, let my own house live in my own mother, but I live in my daughter's house instead, do you think there is anything inappropriate?