#I'm here to talk about homely cooking#Yesterday weekend, I hurriedly took the children back to my parents' house for a few days.
I suddenly remembered that one of the more interesting questions I saw recently was "After getting married, do you dare to take your children back to your parents' house for the New Year?"
Actually, I didn't really think about this question at first. For our family, we can go back to our parents' house whenever we want, and my brother and daughter-in-law can also go back to her parents' house at any time, and we have always been very comfortable.
At first, I thought that maybe I was getting married, which was very casual, and I thought it should be no problem to celebrate the New Year at my mother's house, and my family likes to be lively, how could I oppose it?
Yes, I didn't know after a long time, it turned out that my family had no opinion, but my in-law may have an opinion!
I finally understood why some netizens would say, "In the future, my daughter can go back to her parents' house at any time, and she can live as much as she wants!"
This idea should have been constrained by all kinds of rules and regulations for too long!
She has a good relationship with her sister-in-law at her mother-in-law's house, but she rarely comes back to live after a quarrel, preferring to live outside. I didn't understand it at first, why didn't I come back to live when I had a room.
Shouldn't my mother's home be a safe haven?
I thought maybe she was afraid that her family would worry, but later found out that she was hurt by a sentence!
"Go back to your parents' house as soon as you quarrel, it's not good!"
The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional!
Over time, the sister-in-law who felt that she was rejected outside the door never came back to live! Every time I heard her say that she quarreled, she would come back slowly, but every time she would be rejected.
Is it true that only those whose parents are backers can go back to their parents' homes at will?