The 23-year-old is still a graduate student and lives on campus. Her parents were very strict with her and did not let her make male friends at will, for fear that her early love would affect her studies.
Xiaohong can only secretly admire Xiao Wang in the dormitory next door. Xiao Wang is a graduate student majoring in computer science, with deep facial features and excellent grades, and is deeply concerned and loved by female students.
Every morning, Xiaohong would get up early in the morning, dress herself up seriously - comb her long hair, put on light makeup, spray fresh body fragrance, and then sneak out of the dormitory and tiptoe downstairs.
She would pretend to pace back and forth in the doorway of the building, looking up at her watch from time to time, and her face would look like someone else.
After a while, Xiao Wang appeared on time. He walked in a hurry, carrying a schoolbag, looking like he was going to morning training. Xiaohong hurriedly stepped forward, greeted Xiao Wang with a smile, and invited him to go for a walk in the playground together.
Xiao Wang readily agreed. The two walked side by side on the campus path, the morning sun gilding the leaves with a layer of gold, and the air was filled with the fragrance of grass.
Xiao Hong secretly looked at Xiao Wang's handsome side face, looked at the corners of his slightly raised mouth, saw his dark eyes shining in the sun, and hummed an unknown tune in his mouth.
She could feel her heart beating faster, and her face flushed with shyness. Every second she spent alone with Xiao Wang made Xiao Hong feel extremely excited and excited.
In the blink of an eye, they were on the edge of the playground. Xiaohong was reluctant to talk to Xiao Wang for a while and look at him a few more times. But there was a crisp whistle from the playground, and Xiao Wang had to rush to assemble.
Xiao Wang waved goodbye to Xiao Hong, turned around and ran towards the playground. Xiaohong stood in place, staring intently at Xiao Wang's back, with a sweet smile on her face.
She will reminisce about the short ten minutes of getting along, and then look forward to the future with Xiao Wang - the two can study together, eat and watch movies together, and even enter the palace of marriage.
For Xiaohong, these times spent with Xiao Wang have become the best memories of her campus life. Xiaohong is also more sure that Xiao Wang is the ideal other half in her heart.
Although the two are still just ordinary friends, Xiaohong believes that one day, she and Xiao Wang will live happily together like the prince and princess in fairy tales.
This beautiful vision and expectation dispelled all the loneliness and sadness in Xiaohong's heart.
31-year-old Xiaohong is already a mature and beautiful professional woman. She got her feet on her feet and found a satisfying job at a well-known foreign company.
One day, the company organized outdoor development training for employees, and Xiaohong met Manager Zhang of the mountaineering club. Manager Zhang is 35 years old and has been successfully starting a business for several years, with a successful career, giving people a calm and introverted feeling.
The two fell in love at first sight, and Xiaohong took the initiative to invite Manager Zhang to climb the mountain together on the weekend. Early Saturday morning, they drove to the outskirts and came to a hill.
"Our goal today is to climb to the top of the mountain to watch the sunrise, it will be a very romantic experience. Xiaohong said to Manager Zhang with a smile.
Manager Zhang smiled and nodded, and the two began to hike up the mountain road. Xiaohong pretended to be clumsy, and asked Manager Zhang to support her from time to time.
Manager Zhang patiently met Xiaohong's request and supported her all the way to move forward slowly. The two were very close, and Xiaohong could feel Manager Zhang's generous palm and body full of hearty atmosphere.
This made Xiaohong's heart swell with an inexplicable excitement and throbbing. She secretly looked at Manager Zhang's handsome side face, and her gaze lingered.
"We need to speed up, or we won't be able to catch the sunrise." After a while, Manager Zhang reminded.
Xiaohong nodded, and the two of them sped up the mountain. After a long time, they finally climbed to the top of the mountain. The dazzling morning sun rises slowly in the east, and the morning sun paints the sky pink.
"It's so beautiful!" Xiaohong was sincerely amazed. She plucked up her courage, took a deep breath, and said to Manager Zhang what she had hidden in her heart for a long time: "I like you and want to be with you."
Manager Zhang was stunned for a moment, and then a smile bloomed on his face. "I want to be with you too. He said softly.
The two hugged each other at the top of the mountain, the sun shining on their hair and faces. Little Red felt sweeter and happier than ever.
From that day on, Xiaohong and Manager Zhang established a romantic relationship. Xiaohong becomes enthusiastic and unrestrained, she will actively plan the date between the two, let down her guard, and devote herself to this passionate relationship.
She would invite Manager Zhang to her apartment for the night and cook him a sumptuous dinner. In the dead of night, Xiaohong will boldly express her inner desire to Manager Zhang.
The two spent a number of memorable nights. Xiaohong is also happy to share the bits and pieces of her and Manager Zhang's time together with her best friends.
It can be said that Manager Zhang ignited the long-lost passion in Xiaohong's heart. The days with him are as energetic and happy as if they were 20 years old again.
Xiaohong enjoys the unrestrained and enthusiasm unique to mature women, exploring every aspect of love. This may have been the most glorious time of her life.
Now 38-year-old Xiaohong is a wife and mother. She is married to Xiao Ming, a pediatrician, and the two have a daughter and live a happy life.
One day, Xiaohong's doctor colleague, Dr. Zhang, drove her home. Dr. Cheung is the same age as Xiao Ming, but his relationship with his wife is no longer harmonious.
When they arrived at the gate of the community, Dr. Zhang stopped the car, and the two talked and laughed. Somehow, Dr. Zhang suddenly kissed Xiaohong.
Xiaohong was startled at first, but quickly calmed down. She found that she didn't feel the slightest excitement or throbbing, which was very different from the feeling she felt when she met Manager Zhang.
Back home, Xiaohong fell into deep thought. She realized that she was no longer the little girl who pursued love passionately.
Today, she has a beloved husband, a growing daughter, and a small family of her own.
Even if the married life of more than ten years is not satisfactory, Xiaohong has experienced too many twists and turns and has learned to be tolerant and understanding.
She knows that changing the status quo easily because of a moment of novelty will only hurt her family and daughter. This is not a choice for a responsible mother.
Therefore, Xiaohong decisively cut off contact with Dr. Zhang. She will no longer explore her passions as she did when she was younger.
Because she is no longer the self she used to be. As a mother, she has more important responsibilities and obligations.
Passion may pass away with the years, but family and children are eternal. Xiaohong no longer expects the excitement that love can bring, and she can live a normal life well.
This is like wheat, only after the tempering of time, can it become the nutrients that life really needs.
Xiaohong's life is so complete that she no longer needs other men to add new surprises or changes. The important thing is to protect and cherish what you already have.
This may be the most appropriate understanding of feelings for mature women.
The hour hand is coming to 2027, Xiaohong has entered old age, her sideburns have long been replaced by gray hair, and her children have started a family one after another.
After retiring, Xiaohong met her college classmate Xiaogang in the park by chance. For 50 years, Xiao Gang has been single, retired and enjoying leisure time at home.
The two chatted about the bits and pieces of the school back then, and couldn't help but shed tears of nostalgia. Since then, Xiaohong and Xiaogang have been coming and going frequently, climbing mountains together, watching exhibitions together, and going for walks in the park together.
Xiaohong found that what she needed most was such a soulmate who could be with her for the rest of her life.
Xiao Gang also happened to fill the missing piece in Xiaohong's heart. He no longer has the vigor of a middle-aged man, but instead has the calmness and calmness characteristic of the elderly.
Xiaogang will take care of the sick Xiaohong, and Xiaohong will also cook porridge and beat his legs for Xiaogang when he has a low-grade fever.
The time the two spent together was simple but fulfilling. After dinner, they would walk slowly along the park path and watch the sunset.
Sometimes they would play chess, drink tea, and talk about each other's daughters and sons at home. Needless to say, just quietly accompany each other.
Occasionally, Xiaohong will invite Xiaogang to go on a trip together. They went to Changbai Mountain, Yellow Mountain, and also to Xiaohong's dream trip to Hada.
Along the way, Xiaohong's face was full of family happiness, and Xiao Gang was also happy to see her joy.
Perhaps this is what the hearts of the elderly really desire, not passion or excitement, but through the glitz and glamour of the world, to find a sense of tranquility and comfort.
So, Xiaohong and Xiaogang relied on each other and accompanied each other and entered the last stage of their lives together.
In this bland and lasting bosom friend, Xiaohong found a long-lost sense of ease.
She knows that the sunset is infinitely better, as long as she can hold a warm hand at the end.
From Xiaohong's life story, we can clearly see that a woman's understanding and pursuit of love and marriage at different ages are very different.
When Xiaohong was a 23-year-old college student, she had incomparably beautiful and hazy fantasies about love. In her opinion, the ideal lover must be a gentle and considerate boy, and the love between the two will be as romantic and touching as a fairy tale.
This kind of blind fantasy is a common problem of adolescent girls. They aspire to satisfy their inner spiritual needs through love stories that become the most touching part of their campus life.
When a woman enters society and gradually matures and becomes independent, her views on love and marriage will also change. For example, 31-year-old Xiaohong, she began to take the initiative to pursue excitement and passion.
After meeting Manager Zhang, Xiaohong opened her heart and enthusiastically explored the love-hate entanglement between adult men and women. She boldly pursues passion and tastes every aspect of love.
This kind of unrestrained and open-mindedness reflects the other side of mature women that are different from simple girls. They begin to find their own happiness and fulfillment in their relationships.
When a woman becomes a wife and mother, her view of marriage and family changes again. The 38-year-old chooses to guard everything she has and no longer easily seek outside stimulation.
She realized the importance of her family, husband and children, and learned to run the home with an inclusive mindset. The passion will fade, but the warmth of home is eternal.
Finally, when a woman enters her twilight years, what she really desires in her heart is to find a soulmate with whom she will spend the rest of her life. 60-year-old Xiaohong chooses to accompany Xiaogang, who has a similar experience.
Take a walk, play chess, watch the sunset...... A simple and comfortable time that brings a sense of satisfaction to older women.
So, from the age of 23 to 60, we see that Xiaohong's attitude towards love and marriage has undergone a huge change. But women have one thing in common, that is, the expectation and waiting for life.
They are all exploring the meaning of love and life in their own way. The longing of youth, the unrestrainedness of middle age, and the indifference of old age, these complex mental journeys have created a rich and colorful inner world for women.
Love should not be the only criterion by which a woman is judged to be mature or not. On the contrary, it shows that she is actively living and growing at different stages of her life.
Each state is an indispensable scenery on the road to women's growth. They are all using their own ways to understand and express love, and get motivation from it to grow.
Throughout her life, a woman's inner world will continue to transform, enrich and sublimate. Love is just a key to open their hearts, and eventually they will all find a life state suitable for their age.
So, don't judge a woman for her choices at a certain time. It is necessary to use a positive perspective to understand the inherent inevitability of women's growth. This is perhaps the best way for us to understand women.
In Xiaohong's life, we see the change and growth of a woman's understanding of love and marriage.
From the shyness and expectation of first acquaintance with love, to the unrestrained happiness of enjoying passion, to the calm and calm of seeing the world, Xiaohong's choices at each stage of life show a different face of women's hearts.
Maybe Xiaohong at that time would not have foreseen the future, but as time passed, her inner world was constantly changing.
We should not stick to Xiaohong in one period, but see the whole picture of her growth process. That's what a woman's life really looks like.
Love experience enriches women's inner world and brings them more diverse and three-dimensional life colors.
I hope that every woman can use her own rhythm to explore and understand the true meaning of love, and live a wonderful life of her own.