The pressure of middle-aged men, I don't know when it started, the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and it is difficult to suffocate.
Once a man could support a family, now the family works together, and it is not necessarily possible to maintain normal household expenses.
Why are ordinary Chinese families getting busier and busier, but the economy is getting tighter and tighter, and what is the problem?
In Beijing, a 38-year-old middle-aged man who graduated from 211 was laid off by the company and ran takeaway without telling his wife, and was accused by his full-time wife
In the picture, a slightly greasy middle-aged man, who used to be a product manager of a company, was laid off by the company due to the bad economic environment in recent years.
The eldest brother, as the pillar of the family, did not go home to tell his wife about this pain, for fear of causing his wife's dissatisfaction and exacerbating his wife's anxiety.
The eldest brother silently endured all this, and ran his own takeaway to solve the temporary economic crisis.
Who knows, in the end, his wife found out about it. The wife angrily took the layoff notice and questioned the eldest brother.
In the picture, it can be seen that the excited wife asks: "I am the last one". also beat the eldest brother: "Can you bear it"?
Then the eldest brother also said the words that had been pressed in his heart for a long time: "The New Year is coming soon, and it was a good day that the family was looking forward to." I'm unemployed, what do you want me to tell you"?
The stern reprimand of the full-time wife turned out to be that her husband, who felt sorry for herself, carried everything alone.
She said that we have been married for 15 years, and how many ups and downs have we experienced, is this still a thing?
And said that after the year, she will also work with her husband to maintain the family. The eldest brother also said that he would continue to deliver food and earn a little more.
Then the two hugged each other, and the eldest brother was suppressed in the bottom of his heart, lonely and painful, and was completely released, crying and hugging his wife.
At this time, his wife also gave the eldest brother the most simple warmth. Family is your haven when you're tired.
The average family seems to be busy every day, why is the pressure increasing
In the 80s and 90s, although everyone was poorer, they didn't feel as tired every day as they do now.
Now when I open my eyes, I am working, I am earning money, and I am facing unemployment and economic troubles every day.
Marriage requires a house, a car, and a bride price.
After giving birth to a child, you need to invest in education, interest classes, extracurricular tutoring, and even take your child out to travel to increase your knowledge.
On the other hand, do children from ordinary families really like to play with mobile phones? Maybe the cost of playing with mobile phones is cheaper, after all, it costs all kinds of money to go out.
Middle-aged people are faced with the old and the young, and they are no longer teenagers who once fed the whole family without hunger.
Fierce competition at work, low salaries, high working hours, etc., make the current migrant workers tired.
Even middle-aged men are reluctant to go to the hospital for an examination even when they are sick, just to save hundreds of yuan in examination costs.
Starting at the age of 35, middle-aged people are becoming more and more anxious about job hunting
Nowadays, many companies are directly limited to 35 years old, which makes it even worse for many middle-aged men who are now facing career changes and employment.
Why is it already difficult to find a job over the age of 35, isn't there a shortage of labor in the mainland?
It is equivalent to young people in their 20s, they have more vitality, or have lower labor costs.
At present, there is no shortage of ordinary labor force on the mainland, but high-end talents.
For the growing society, all walks of life are moving towards intelligent and technological development, and the demand for ordinary personnel is replaced by machines.
In the absence of a comprehensive security mechanism, it is not so simple for ordinary people to live a stable life.
On the contrary, various pressures have made the general public more and more involuted, the salary level is getting lower and lower, and the working hours are getting higher and higher.
What are the constant doubts of netizens about the 38-year-old unemployed and running takeaways?
Negative comment: It can be seen from the comments that many netizens questioned who shot the video and could upload it to the Internet.
Now that online sales are becoming more and more popular, and the benefits are very considerable, creating all institutions or individuals, relying on fake personas, attracting traffic, and gaining fans, they start live broadcasting.
This phenomenon has become commonplace, making netizens have to wonder why the video was exposed, and the shooting angle is also extremely professional.
Positive comments: There are also netizens who expressed their opinions, regardless of whether the video is true or not.
However, this phenomenon is common in ordinary families, for the sake of livelihood, for the sake of wives and children, men's loneliness and forbearance make people feel heartache
Some netizens said that they like this family atmosphere very much, and they can get through the difficulties by having things together and sharing family responsibilities.
Some netizens expressed that the employment situation is becoming more and more severe.
As for why many undergraduates and graduate students now choose to run takeaways and become their own careers.
Why would you rather run takeaway than go into the factory to make screws?
Maybe for young and middle-aged people in many times, it is more free to run takeaways.
Nor is it like other jobs, in addition to a lot of work every day, you also have to face intrigue between colleagues, resulting in exhaustion.
Compared with entering the factory to make screws, the delivery time is free.
And the salary level is still relatively high, and how much you earn depends entirely on your own efforts, which is a relatively fair way of working.
The sourness of a middle-aged man, perhaps only we know what it is like: loneliness, no matter how good or bad things can no longer cause the slightest ripple in the heart, moving forward with a heavy load, and the future is confused and there is a glimmer of hope.