Text/Tang Nuannuan 66
Liang Xiaosheng said: "In this life, you only need to thank four kinds of people. The people who lend you money when you are poor, the people who support you behind your back when you are in trouble, the people who help you in the same boat when you are in trouble, the people who pour tea and water when you are sick, and the rest are friends who nod their heads and rub shoulders. ”
This sentence is so true!
The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people for a long time; the pine and cypress know the cold in the year, and the truth can be seen in adversity; and without going through a thing, I don't know a person.
When I first arrived in the world, I didn't know the hardship, I was young and inspirational for 3,000 miles, and in the blink of an eye, the high hall was gray-haired, and the children were staggering in the school, and I was already a bitter person when I turned back!
Who hasn't encountered difficulties in life?
Even the Tang Dynasty romantic poet Li Bai.
Li Bai started with a good family background, but later he was also poor and gave up on himself, and had close contacts in Chang'an City.
Once, when he was walking on the road, he met a kind person and lent him money, Li Bai was grateful and wanted to express his gratitude to others, but his body was empty.
I had to use poetry to express my gratitude to this kind man, and he used poetry to praise the ages, so that future generations will remember it.
It is human nature to know how to repay kindness, and others should keep it in mind when others help us, and we must not be ungrateful!
That's what life is. Everyone's story starts with a wonderful start, and the process often doesn't go as expected.
For example, Fan Zhongyan, an outstanding politician and military strategist in the Northern Song Dynasty, also experienced difficulties.
In one war, his army was surrounded by enemies and was in danger.
At this time, a general stepped forward and led the troops to break the siege. Fan Zhongyan was deeply grateful, and he wrote a touching article expressing his gratitude to the general.
This article has been circulated to this day and has become one of Fan Zhongyan's masterpieces.
The person who can support you and help you in the same boat when a person encounters difficulties must be your nobles.
We must remember the good of others and thank them, which is the most basic conscience and criterion of life.
That's what life is. It is full of curiosity, passion, and ruthlessness.
Then full of helplessness, full of abandonment!
In complex interpersonal communication, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. This is a constant piece of advice in relationships throughout the ages!
Life is long, when you are in difficulty, you will always encounter the help of some nobles, and you can't avoid the schadenfreude of ill-intentioned people who gloat you and treat you coldly!
Wang Zhiwen once had a very heart-wrenching sentence that exposed the complexity of human nature:
"Anyone who leaves you behind when you are most helpless, whether they are relatives, friends, or lovers, there is no need to continue dating, they know that you are suffering, but they can do it coldly, or even fall into the trap.
Because when you are strong, they will forget your weaknesses, and when you are weak, they will magnify your shortcomings, and such people will never deserve deep friendship and forgiveness. ”
Not bad!
Whether a person is good or bad to you, true or false to you, it depends on:
When you are weak, when you are helpless, when you are in trouble, when you have a serious illness, as soon as you test, the results will come out.
No matter how beautiful the words are, they can't withstand the verification of facts.
As accurate as the code on the scale, and more accurate than the inspector's results.
Life is a process that allows people to constantly see the truth of the facts, constantly screen the people and things next to them, constantly abandon the people and things that bring you negative energy, and constantly make you sober and transparent.
It allows you to experience the fireworks in the world with curiosity;
Let you use your passion to break through the world;
Let you use your helpless heart to pay for the warmth and coldness of the world;
So that you can use the clairvoyant eye to see through the beauty of people's hearts, and the ugly of an experience process.
We respect the good, love it, cherish it, and we hide it, keep it away, stay away from it, and abandon it if it's bad.
Keep your blessings and thank those who have been kind to you.
Stay away from people who steal your blessings, destroy your emotions, and make you negativity.
Take the essence and discard the dross! Leave the wheat and the weeds away.
Doing yourself well is the best arrangement at the moment!
Finally, I wish you all the best in all your endeavors!
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