My niece Xiaomei is really wonderful, the beautiful graduate student who is like a flower and jade does not take the usual road, does not play cards according to the convention, so that our family's hearts are like a roller coaster, follow her startled, up and down, now young people are so willful, so ideaful, so incomprehensible?
My niece Xiaomei is the façade of our family, she is 1.72 tall, with beautiful facial features, white skin and beautiful appearance, and they all say that she looks like movie star Wang Zuxian
She has been a beautiful student since she was a child, her academic performance has always been among the best in her grade, and after graduating from a key high school, she was admitted to the undergraduate degree of a prestigious school without any suspense, and then successfully admitted to the graduate school of the school
She is versatile, learning to dance, drawing, accordion, and especially dance from an early age, no less than a professional dancer
Because she majored in law, her family hoped that she could take the civil service career exam or become a lawyer
These jobs are stable and decent for girls, and the pay is high
But what I didn't expect was that Xiaomei's job search was not as smooth as she imagined, and she graduated from graduate school for two years, but due to various reasons, she never found a suitable job
At a family gathering, Xiaomei suddenly said that she had thought about it and wanted to change her career to study economics
We are confused, why do we want to change our careers to economics after studying law for so many years? Wouldn't it be vain to have an undergraduate and graduate student?
Xiaomei said lightly: I'm tired of studying professionally and want to change careers
Seeing that she has a firm face, we don't have much to say, because we all know that don't look at Xiaomei's well-behaved appearance, in fact, she has a lot of ideas in her heart, as long as she decides something good, it is useless for others to talk about it
My husband and I both said privately: During this time, maybe Xiaomei is a little rebellious, maybe it will be fine after a while
I privately persuaded the eldest sister to enlighten Xiaomei more, and the eldest sister also looked helpless, saying that now that the girl is older, she can't listen to persuasion, and if she talks too much, she turns her head and leaves, and she doesn't let you have a chance to speak at all
The eldest sister also said that she was afraid that Xiaomei would have a rebellious mentality, and the more she opposed her, the more insistent she became, and it would be more difficult to do it then, no way, wait first, wait and see, maybe she will change her mind in two days
After more than two months, Xiaomei suddenly said that she saw a bank recruiting, and she was going to take the exam
Although we were a little surprised after hearing this, although we muttered a little in our hearts, we didn't say anything anymore, thinking to ourselves, after all, the major is not right, and we may not be able to get in
Today's young people have just stepped into society, and they all feel ambitious and omnipotent, so let her go to the society and hit the wall
Unexpectedly, Xiaomei was admitted, and her exam scores were among the best, which made us all wonder, because we didn't see Xiaomei studying hard, how could she be admitted so easily?
But if you think about it carefully, it can also be explained, because Xiaomei usually likes to read all kinds of books, and she has a wide range of knowledge, which may be the so-called "".
Some people say that you should review more before the exam, and it is not good to sharpen the gun in the future, but whether the exam can be done well is actually more important than the accumulation of knowledge, just like Xiaomei
Ask Xiaomei, what do you do in the bank?
Xiaomei said that she would focus on training first, and then become a counter salesperson after training
We were all surprised, we thought that we could do management in the bank, but we didn't expect to be a counter clerk.
And we all think that his personality is not suitable for being a salesperson, because Xiaomei is more introverted, a little clear, and doesn't like to communicate with people
But seeing Xiaomei's relaxed and indifferent expression, we had to suppress all the doubts in our hearts to comfort ourselves: maybe it's an internship period, maybe we can change jobs in the future, which is not sure
Later, Xiaomei began to work step by step, 9 to 5, just asked her how her work was, she always said concisely that it was okay, we asked about the business, she said, anyway, many colleagues who studied finance also asked me for advice
Seeing that Xiaomei felt good about herself, the family figured it out after a few entanglements: let him go, after all, a certain line of work is stable, the salary is not bad, girls have a stable job is better than anything, and the front desk salesperson may only be temporary, and maybe he will change jobs in the future
After the nephew's daughter was trained, she worked as a salesperson in the front hall
When I first went to work, I went to work early every day, from 9 to 5 every day, very punctual and regular, but I said I was tired when I came back
After less than a month, he began to complain every day: This work is too tiring, the time card is dead, standing all day, back pain and leg cramps, deducting money at every turn and linking it to wages, and the salary is also very low, only three or four thousand yuan
At this point, we had no choice but to persuade him as a passer-by: Although the salary of three or four thousand yuan is not much in our third-tier city, it is already very good, at least the job is stable. Besides, you just went to work, and your salary will definitely not be too much, and your salary will definitely rise in the future
But Xiaomei said that he had already inquired, and the old colleagues who worked with him had worked for half their lives until they were about to retire, and they were still only three or four thousand
Three or four thousand is indeed a bit low, even in our small city, life is very reluctant, but since he has been admitted, we all persuade him to persist for a while longer, and it may be good to adapt
But my niece said: I see my future in the body of the old employee colleagues, maybe I will work for a few more decades, that is, a salary of thousands of yuan per month, I can't die and I can't starve, I work step by step every day, 9 to 5 every day, work overtime every day, I don't want to spend my life in no suspense and no more hope
We all feel that Xiaomei may have too high expectations for life, and repeatedly persuaded him to hold on for a while longer, life is not as perfect as we imagined, don't always look at this mountain and that mountain high
Xiaomei had just been on the job for half a year and proposed to resign
Resign? We were still a little surprised when we heard it, and kept persuading Xiaomei: Work is not as easy as you think, and it is not easy to find a job now. After you quit your job, what should you do if you can't find a suitable job?, it's better to do it first, take it one step at a time, and then decide
Despite our family's hard work, persuasion, and patient persuasion, my niece Xiaomei still resigned very resolutely
After resigning, she read idle books at home every day, and we all advised him to take the civil service or lawyer exam, but he said that he didn't want to be too embarrassed and let himself go with the flow
But we secretly sweated for him, Xiaomei is almost 30 years old, and after a few years, the youth has passed, and it is not easy to find a job, what should I do when the time comes?
After resigning, Xiaomei has been more leisurely at home, and she doesn't see too much anxiety at all, reading books, listening to music, doing whatever she wants, and she doesn't take finding a job too seriously, but our family is worried about him every day, afraid that he won't find a good job, and that he will accidentally become an older leftover girl
After resigning, Xiaomei may also be constantly reflecting on herself, and later she took the initiative to tell her mother that she thought about it and felt that she might still like the law the most, and she would still have to engage in legal work in the future, he said that he finally figured it out, although he also obtained a lawyer's license. But he knew that his personality was not suitable for being a lawyer, and he was preparing to take the civil service exam, and his work had to be related to law
In fact, our family still hopes that Xiaomei can become a female lawyer, because we hope that Xiaomei will also be like the elite female lawyers we see in the TV series: independent and proud, free to shine, and be their own queen;
But Xiaomei said that the lawyer in life is not as glamorous as on TV, his personality is not very suitable to be a lawyer, he knows his weaknesses, but also knows his strengths and strengths.
Listening to Xiaomei's words, we all feel very gratified, although a little detour, it may be a good thing for Xiaomei, not through a thing, not a long wisdom, not deep into the society, do not know the depth of the society, only if you try it yourself, you will know more about what you want most?
Xiaomei is worthy of being a scholar, in that year's civil service examination, he passed all the way, directly entered the top three in the SI law exam, and successfully passed the interview, and was officially hired by the judicial system, a national judicial cadre
When we heard the news, we were all surprised and couldn't believe it, we didn't expect Xiaomei to be so good and so lucky, we couldn't help but be impressed by Xiaomei
When my eldest sister knew that Xiaomei was finally admitted to the civil service, and was admitted to the judicial system suitable for him with the first place in the comprehensive, she was even more excited to tears, he said that now Xiaomei has really grown up, matured, and finally knows what she wants, and he is sincerely proud and proud of his daughter
It seems that fate always favors those who dare to insist on themselves and dare to challenge themselves
Now Xiaomei is like a fish in water at work, and has become the backbone of the business in the unit, and has also become the head of the department, the future is promising, and the future is bright
For Xiaomei, our family still has a heart problem: that is, Xiaomei's marriage is a big event, I don't know why, Xiaomei is beautiful, sensible and self-motivated, and now she has a good job for herself, but she has not found her favorite other half
We are secretly anxious in our hearts, and we are always trying to introduce him to a boyfriend, but we have never met a suitable one
He said that there is no standard, but at least he can make me worship, and he must be good to me, I can do without a house, I don't want a car, but I can't do without love, I believe that people who are destined will eventually be together, somewhere in the world, there must be a person waiting for me there, looking for it, looking back, that person is in the dim light
I was so moved to hear it, I hope that a lover will eventually become a family, and I hope that Xiaomei can find the person in her heart as soon as possible and live a happy life
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