Recently, a woman in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province, sparked a controversy about "share money" because her classmates in graduate school did not return the gift. According to reports, the woman received a gift of 500 yuan when her classmate got married, but when she got married, the classmate was absent from the wedding on the grounds of pregnancy, did not take the initiative to return the gift, and did not see any blessings. This behavior made the woman very dissatisfied, so she asked the other party on WeChat whether she was guilty of the other party, and then forcibly asked for 500 yuan back.
The incident sparked widespread discussion on social media. Many young people say they have also begun to rectify the practice of "share money", which they see as an unfair burden on human feelings. Some said they had begun calling for the abolition of "share money" in their circle of friends, as well as calling for other ways to express blessings and friendship.
This controversy has also attracted the attention of sociologists. They pointed out that although "share money" is part of the Chinese tradition, with the development of society and the change of people's concepts, this custom is gradually changing. They believe that the rectification and reform of "share money" by young people is a positive phenomenon that will help promote social progress and change undesirable traditional customs.
However, there are also those who disagree with this incident. They believe that "share money" is a way to communicate with people, and it is also a way to maintain interpersonal relationships. They argue that the abolition of "share money" could lead to more indifferent and alienating relationships.
There are also people who understand and support the woman's behavior. They believe that if a person does not return the gift or does not keep the promise after receiving the gift, then it is a sign of disrespect. They believe that the woman's actions are defending her rights and dignity, and at the same time reminding others to abide by the principle of courtesy.
The occurrence of this incident has also triggered people's deep thinking about interpersonal relationships and social etiquette. Many people believe that with the development of social media and communication technology, people are becoming more and more connected, but true friendships and emotions are becoming more and more difficult to maintain. They called for a greater focus on emotional communication and genuine interaction, rather than just material interactions.
In addition, some experts pointed out that the rectification and reform of "fractional money" needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding. They believe that if a person is unable to fulfill the promise of returning the gift, then he should explain the reason and apologize to the other person in a sincere manner. They believe that this is the only way to build more harmonious and stable interpersonal relationships.
In short, as a traditional custom and cultural symbol, "share money" still has a certain significance in today's society. However, with the changes of the times and the development of society, "part money" also needs to be constantly rectified and reformed. It is only through deep thinking and positive action that we can build a more harmonious and beautiful interpersonal relationship and social environment.