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Andy and Singularity fell in love, and she went from refusing to touch at the beginning to slowly accepting hugs.
But every time Singularity wants to make further contact, Andy resists.
On that singularity business trip, Andy felt missed for the first time. For this reason, she specially ran to the airport to pick up the plane, and even in the apartment, in order to express her happiness, she proposed to the singularity.
At that time, the atmosphere was right, and the two kissed when Singularity wanted to make further contact, but was kicked out of bed by Andy.
On the other hand, Andy is different for Bao Yifan.
She went to Thailand for a vacation, Bao Yifan pretended to be pitiful and begged to be taken in, and successfully stayed overnight, and then he was a scoundrel and asked Andy to go out with him.
The two rode motorcycles together and went shopping together, the two had not met a few times before, but they got along very happily, and Andy did not reject physical contact during the period, and even was later kissed by Bao Yifan, she was also accustomed to it.
When they officially fall in love, the two are connected together like conjoined babies.
So why did Andy resist the intimacy of the singularity, but he could accept Bao Yifan?
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It turns out that this is subconscious wisdom.
As the writer Zhou Ling said, when you feel a little uncomfortable when you meet someone for the first time, and soon you show a polite smile, it shows that the subconscious mind is aware of some bad information.
But this process is fleeting, and the mind does not perceive it at all, but instead gives a lot of analysis and reasons to make yourself accept the other party, and the result is often counterproductive.
Andy's resistance to the singularity is actually the bad information she subconsciously perceived when the two met.
She and Singularity were netizens until Andy returned to China, and the two met offline for the first time.
The simple Andy went to the appointment without warning, but the strange point was obviously a rich man worth tens of millions, but he pretended to be a down-and-out middle-aged uncle who took the subway.
After the two met for the second time, he saw Andy driving a limited edition Ferrari, and he asked his friend to check it out. During the conversation, Andy confessed his background to gain a little trust from Singularity.
他解释做生意吃过很多苦，所以才对人有防备心。
It seems that Andy understands the singularity for concealing it, but she subconsciously doesn't like such a temptation, and subconsciously doesn't trust him.
And in the process of getting along with the two, Singularity likes to figure out analysts, and Andy rarely laughs in front of him.
A man who can't make you happy before marriage is even more impossible after marriage.
The two of them are not suitable, but Andy doesn't know it, but the subconscious physical reaction betrays her.
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On the other hand, Andy and Bao Yifan, the first time they met at a drinking party, they only thought he was a playboy.
didn't expect a breakfast to make her completely change and recognize.
Bao Yifan has a clear mind, strict logic, unique insights into the domestic and foreign economic situation, bold, innovative, straightforward and not lacking in means.
The two talked happily, and Andy could be very relaxed in front of him.
In Bao Yifan to help deal with Fan Shengmei's family affairs, the two chatted and were very happy. He even took Andy to a secret base,
Compared with the calculation of the singularity, Bao Yifan's main focus is sincerity.
So Andy is very relaxed, Qu Xiaoxuan said bluntly, you said you were cold before, but you are not cold together, and you have more smiles.
When Andy and Bao Yifan became lovers, she did not resist contact, and the body's knee-jerk reaction was the most real.
In the relationship, some people look like a good match, but unfortunately they just don't feel it, and the specific reason can't be said.
Some people say that it is a wonderful thing to feel something, but in fact, this is a signal from the subconscious.
It can help us perceive what is really suitable for us, and it may be a better strategy to choose with our feelings first and then think rationally.
Little things listen to your brain, big things listen to your heart. There is a lot of truth in that.