#头条讲真的#
"People should not be too sober, let the past pass, and there is no need to chew it repeatedly. Life is not long, and there are not so many important things. It dawned, and it was earned again. - Feng Tang "Spring Breeze Ten Miles is Not as Good as You".
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There is a free poem: "Everything in the world is nothing more than a play, why should people in the world be serious, you and I are mortals, the world has been in a hurry for decades, and it is already a passing guest, why bother yourself with the dust!"
No matter how strong the wind is, it can't blow back to the past. Not all stories have a good ending at the end, life is impermanent, accept everything, allow regrets, allow failures, and actively face the reversal of life, which is the greatest open-mindedness!
Don't hide it from your family, hide it from your friends, hide in the quilt at night and cry secretly, you can smile strongly at life during the day, and face life with a smile at night!
The sentence in the book says it very well: "If you have money, you must do things well, and if you don't have money, you must do people well." Whether you have money or not, you should live a good day!"
Therefore, this life is not long. For ordinary people, there are not so many important things. When dawn comes, we'll earn again!
01 Internal friction
Chen Guo once said: "If you have seen the sea, you will not mind the rights and wrongs in the pond, and if you have seen the galaxy, you will not care about a meteor." ”
Sitting on the ground and traveling 80,000 miles a day, I didn't do anything to tire myself. Life is short and the future is not long, don't chew on yourself repeatedly for the bad people and things of the past, don't hesitate for the uncertainty of the future, don't play thousands of one-man shows in your heart for other people's random words!
However, many of us don't do anything in a day, but we often feel "tired", and the reason is that there is too much drama in our hearts!
Just like Mr. Yu Hua's words: "Before the words come out, the ending has been performed thousands of times, the body has not moved, the heart has passed thousands of mountains, the line has not been fruitful, and the hypothetical suffering is sad." It's over, and the past is still playing out in my mind. ”
Therefore, we must first learn to control our emotions, and don't let the inner drama occupy the whole heart, entanglement and screwing up our lives!
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02 Nothing can be done
There is a poem: "Young and inspirational for 3,000 miles, hesitating for a hundred steps without an indefinite." Ignorant for half a life, in the mediocre world. ”
After thousands of sails, it is not easy to know oil and salt. The green silk is gradually whitening, only to know that the years are not forgiving.
Looking up at the end of the year, the years are really too hurried, the dream of the young man "fresh clothes and angry horses" has not woken up, and half of his life has passed! I can't help but sigh in my heart: "I can't go back not only to have time, but also to my former self." ”
I never thought that I would work hard for half my life, and I would be so embarrassed. I tried my best, but I could only solve the problem of firewood, rice, oil and salt!
The old man said: "When you meet a good person, you will get married first, you will start a business when you meet a noble person, you will be self-reliant before you meet a good person, and you will cultivate yourself first when you meet a noble person." Parents help save money first. Parents don't help, look at the present. ”
Therefore, everyone has the sadness of powerlessness in this life, but we must all face it according to our own situation, be strong and optimistic, not seek great wealth and wealth, but seek peace and health!
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epilogue
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart." ”
In this impetuous and realistic society, time urges us to make money, and age urges us to grow old. Busy year after year, it seems that time is too rushed, and I can't even give myself happiness. But in fact, happy people are picking up candy in glass slag to eat, and everyone is strong and optimistic!
Remember: plain is true, health is bliss. If you can live a healthy life and smile happily, what does it matter if you have coarse tea and light rice? When the day dawns, you will earn again. There is only one winner in life, a healthy, happy and long-lived self! As long as our family can be safe, healthy and harmonious, it is the greatest blessing in our life!
There is a philosophical passage in Chi Zijian's "The Right Bank of the Ergun River": "I can live to be 90 years old in this life, which proves that I did not choose a doctor, my doctor is the breeze and water, the sun, the moon and the stars." ”
Life is a limited edition every day. I hope that we can all be strong adults in the wind and rain, be happy children in the sun, and find happiness that suits us at any time!