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I saw a quote from a pen pal.
My daughter is 29 years old, single and has no boyfriend, and for her, being unmarried does not mean that her life is incomplete. I no longer feel a headache and collapse, and I understand and support her choice. Unmarried life made her more focused on work, her salary rose from 5,000 to more than 10,000, and she invested in skin care and beauty, reading and traveling, which are her own investments.
She doesn't have to endure scumbags, don't have to raise children, avoid family conflicts, and live freely. Her company is a happy time for me after retirement, we can travel together without worrying about the children, saving a lot of trouble and conflicts. I'll save some money for her in case I'm old. My daughter is about to turn 30 years old, and although she will become an older single, if she decides to get married, I support it. No matter what lifestyle she chooses, I respect and support my daughter's decision!
Your current happiness is based on the fact that you have a daughter, if you don't have a daughter, who will accompany you to travel around happily? Therefore, you still have to persuade your daughter to get married and have children, otherwise when you don't exist, who will accompany your daughter to travel around and be happy?
Not to mention not getting married, many Dink regretted not having children in their later years, in fact, children will think that celibacy is good at a certain stage of growth, but at another stage they will reflect on their behavior is right, each of us is not repentant in the collision, but many things are too late!
Respect for the child, sensible mother.
My friend is also a mother, and should belong to the happier category in the eyes of many people.
The husband is spoiled, and the in-laws are not the best, and they respect each other.
As a woman, if you have enough capital (money, career, hobbies), then it really doesn't matter if you are married or not. There are too many bonds for a woman
My friend often said to his husband: I am happy, you earn money to support your family, you spend time with your children, and you are not a mother. But you look around you, around me, in fact, many families have very high requirements for women, marriage hopes that women do not want a house and a car bride price, after marriage hopes that women can go to work to earn money, have children hope that women can take children, can go to work, and even in terms of filial piety to in-laws, I also hope that the daughter-in-law is on top.
So if you meet the other half of the same people who are like-minded and work together, then form a family together, have children, and if you can't meet it, be single, it's good for everyone. If parents cannot have a sense of responsibility and cannot give their children a harmonious family, it is not a morality not to have children.
If your life is safe and nothing is good to say, when there is an illness, you will know the feeling of loneliness and helplessness, especially when you are old, even if you are not sick, your spirit is more or less not very good, either anxiety or depression, people, themselves are social animals, or the ancient word "people," why do you skim and pinch it, it is to support each other. Moreover, only China has "people", and other countries in the world do not have the word "people".
Both men and women should create conditions to find a partner to live a complete life, women give birth to children to be a mother is a natural biological choice, experience the joy of being a parent, troubles, raise children to grow up, they are getting old, partners share weal and woe and rely on each other, is the most complete life journey!
When your daughter is eighty years old and alone, if it is Alzheimer's disease, if the brain is still clear, then it will be fatal, being scolded and bullied by the nurse and others or encountering difficulties, and there is no one to stand up and say a fair word, let alone someone to come out and administer justice for her!
Many people are selfish, especially some parents! In the past, people favored sons over daughters, because women married men to provide for their old age, so they regarded women as outsiders in their bones; now many parents of only daughters are particularly worried that women will not care about them after they get married, so all kinds of indoctrination and hardship brought about by marriage will hinder marriage!
She is not married, and she has the time and energy to accompany you and the old couple often, and you will definitely not remember the loneliness and desolation in your later years. But after 100 years, isn't she pitiful? I'm sorry I'm telling the truth.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is self-interested, to advocate the system of women inheriting the family, men do not inherit the family business, make the family bigger and stronger, women are pregnant and give birth to babies, remove the role of fathers in the family, family members love each other, can recruit virtuous and virtuous, recruit men or women from the family, pass them on from generation to generation, and raise children and provide for the elderly in their homes. It can solve the endless contradictions and crises generated by the various relationships between men and women in the world.
Moreover, this kind of life is incomplete, it is missing, and the troubles and contradictions in life are part of life! Contradictions exist at any time, either at work or in life! It is inevitable! Without a husband, children lose a lot of happiness! The ancients said that the love of men and women is a relatively complete life!
Love, marriage is also a part of the experience of life, there are bitter and sweet, there are regrets that have not been in love, no one dares to guarantee that they will be happy after marriage, maybe they have met someone who is suitable for themselves? Parents should not instill this kind of non-marriage concept in their children.
Her company is your happy time, you do your best to support her, who will fully support her when the time comes? And who is the person who accompanies her happy time? In fact, it is nothing to be tired when you are young, and the bitterness of old age is bitter, even if you are old, you have to have someone behind you to speak for you, and the good world also has a cruel side, especially when you are old, you have to have someone to be brave when you are rich!
On the surface, this mother seems to love her daughter, but in fact, I don't think this mother herself has figured out whether it is better to get married or not to get married? My daughter has no life experience and thinks it is better not to get married, so you also cooperate with her and say that it is better not to get married? Is it good to get married? Rely on personal luck, at least you have to work hard to fight for it, just like eating will choke people to death, and everyone will not eat? You and your daughter are living very happily now, that is because you have a good daughter to accompany you, your daughter is now at the age of marriage, when she is at the age of childbearing, if she does not get married and does not have children, who will accompany her in the future? Will she be happy when she is old? Aren't you worried?
Your supporter will pit your daughter, when you are old, you will be accompanied by your daughter, and when your daughter is old, she will go to a nursing home, and she is also the most bullied. What is the use of saving money? Who can control what kind of body is when the time comes, at least to have a child, and also to have a concern and sustenance, this is the meaning of human life.
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