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I just mentioned the money, and he turned around and married another girl. Yesterday, I saw a 35-year-old female master looking for the original words of crying. Her ex-boyfriend is a 33-year-old Suzhou native, and the two of them were introduced to each other at home. Originally, the conversation was very good, and I was ready to get married in half a year. But the female master saw that the other party's family conditions were not bad, and then asked for a bride price of 180,000. It's not easy for parents to raise themselves.
But I didn't expect that boy to turn around and marry a girl who was also born in the 90s in Suzhou. And then she wondered why her love kept going to Waterloo? The reason was very simple: he was talking about life, and you were talking about business.
The most ridiculous sentence is that it is not easy for my parents to raise me. May I ask if a woman in a modern marriage has nothing to do with her parents? Don't you also have to support your parents?
The man's parents can say that it is not easy to raise a son, right? I hate women who say that they give birth to children for the man (or mother-in-law) at every turn, and that it is not easy for their parents to raise them.
To put it bluntly, most of this sentence is an excuse to ask for money, and it is said that it is so emotional, and it is not easy for parents who really feel that it is not easy, reasonable, and will also realize that it is not easy for boy's parents, it will not be the same thing and two standards, marriage has a new family, and the parents of both parties are okay with giving some help appropriately according to their own conditions, but the premise is not to force others to do things, and asking others to do things is not possible, so that marriage has no meaning, and the other family feels pain.
Why does a woman ask for a bride price, she always says that it is not easy for her parents to raise her, so how much money does she ask, so it sounds justified, and it seems that there is no disgusting feeling.
It seems to be very easy for the boy's parents to raise their son, but if she gets married and gives birth to a son, what will happen?
The bride price dowry corresponds, and if the woman takes the initiative to ask for the bride price without mentioning the corresponding dowry, that is, the scumbag girl is a woman, and the man immediately stays away.
"Seeing that the conditions of the family are good" shows that you will not endure hardships and enjoy happiness when you marry, why should you reach out and ask for money because of this? Shouldn't you give more dowries so that the man's family will not underestimate themselves?
If a woman's mother spends millions of dollars to raise him, and another woman has worked and studied since she was a child, and then when she grows up, she is admitted to university, not only does she not have to spend her parents' money, but also gives her parents pension money, then how much bride price do these two women want? Originally, logically speaking, the first woman is from Fuyang, so should we give a bride price of tens of millions? Then the second woman is to make money for his parents, and his parents not only did not spend money on raising him, but also made money, so should not give a bride price? But the question is, do you think it's reasonable?
Modern society is not an ancient society, and when a woman is married, she also has the obligation to support her parents according to the law. Your parents raised you for nothing, and the man can still let you support your parents? What does it have to do with the man?
Marriage is obviously the establishment of a new small family, the children are a small family, the money earned is also a small family, as long as both parents are sick, the small family has to take responsibility, I don't understand why it is always said that the woman's parents are not easy to raise and the man is not a stone crevice popping out.
Bad habits, young people get married, it was originally two young people to form a new family together, why should the man buy a car and a house, and give the woman a bride price?
"Wealth gifts" originally came from feudal society, a man married a few women to serve his parents-in-law at home, at that time it was equivalent to increasing the population of the man and reducing the population of the woman, so there was compensation. But in today's society, how can we still retain that set of feudal things?
The most ridiculous sentence is that it is not easy for my parents to raise me. May I ask if in a modern marriage, the woman has nothing to do with her parents when she marries? Don't you also have to support your parents? Don't you even recognize your parents after getting married?
As soon as the woman's words came out, the man estimated that there was only one thought, they were all buying and selling, who to do with them, not to do it? 35 years old 180,008, low cost performance, if you consider the problem of childbirth, it is not cost-effective, the risk fund for elderly women should also be prepared 200,000, huge losses, timely stop loss is wise.
And he is unwilling to give you a bride price of 188,000, because he thinks you are not worth the price. Women are 2 years older than men, and at the age of 35, they are facing the problem of having children, don't you think about these? The superiority of master's degree graduates is in their 20s, and the value depreciates as they get older.
Now most women treat themselves as commodities and don't stop if they don't sell them at a good price, and in the end they will always make a small number of money, most of them are cannon fodder, don't talk about feelings and money, and this kind of marriage won't last long.
I think I can buy and sell, and I use my parents as an excuse. If you don't have any obligations to your parents after you get married, and you can arrange everything to your in-laws, the bride price is not too much. The reality is that not only do you have to fulfill your obligations, but you even want your husband to honor your father-in-law and mother-in-law more than your own father and mother. The reality is that you have to ask for money to change your mouth, manage your husband's property, and your husband has to agree to buy something to honor his parents, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law have to be careful. This kind of daughter-in-law also felt that she had wronged herself by asking for a bride price, and she was speechless.
It's not easy for your parents to raise you, you should repay the favor that is your responsibility, generosity to others is a matter of character, see that the family conditions are good, shout a little higher, there are tens of millions in the family, isn't it to shout to take five million, this kind of seeing too much, originally negotiated the bride price, heard that the man's house was demolished and relocated 2 million, and immediately changed his mind to 2 million or more than 1 million.
Can a master's degree improve your affirmation of the value of life or your comprehension of the meaning of life? I'm afraid you don't have both, why not? Because you lack the understanding of the origin of traditional Chinese culture, you have learned knowledge, you have learned technology, but you have not learned culture, culture and knowledge are two concepts, culture and knowledge are two concepts, only with the recognition of material in life, he will marry you if he does not marry others?
When others talk about business, they admit that they are talking about business, she has to say that she is talking about feelings when talking about business, and she loves to advocate justice and criticize men from the moral high ground, so pretending, her boyfriend can't stand it.
Seeing that other people's conditions are good, this is the reason for asking for more money, and the biggest lie is that it is not easy for your mother to raise you? Whoever is easy to raise is whom? Talking about marriage is not a buyout, and you can also watch your mother take care of your mother in the future, what does this have to do with the fact that it is not easy to raise you? If you want money, you want money, don't make excuses.
Highly educated, really low EQ, clear and high, I really don't understand, I've talked about it before, that brain, it's best not to get married, or find someone with a high education like yourself, no different from an older leftover girl. We men are looking for wives, but it doesn't matter what your education is. You are contributing to society, and you always ask others for yourself, so I am depressed, with a high degree of education, and I am not mature.
It's not easy for your parents to raise you, so don't you get married? Always be by your side, if you marry, you are a member of your mother-in-law's family, and it doesn't matter if your mother's family gives you everything, and you don't necessarily have to be filial to your parents when you say such things.
Nineteen years of education have not allowed you to get rid of outdated thinking! It is not easy for your parents to raise you, and it is not easy for his parents to raise him either! Did he marry you and let you take care of your in-laws three meals a day in the morning and dusk? How much dowry did you prepare if you like the bride price so much? Even in ancient times, the dowry was far more than the bride price! People married you so that the two of you could build your own small family and live your own small life. It's good that you picked up Joe and let the family see the essence of your thoughts.
This is not a question of whether the man can get the bride price, but it exposes your true face of greed for money, even if you get married with a money worshipper, you can't go far, or find a girl with good character, as for the woman's education and family background, it is relatively secondary.
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