I don't know if you have noticed it, depending on whether the previous generation and the previous generation are out of touch with the times, the more obvious sign is to see if they will use various electronic products. From smartphones to public electronic devices. Some elders have already flown up various apps on their mobile phones, such as Douyin, while some elders don't even know where the basic mobile phone volume adjustment button is.
Many people complained, "Why do I teach them how to use it over and over again, but my parents/grandparents/parents-in-law just can't learn it?"
↓ During the love period, the mobile phone was safely applied for, just filled in an ID card, and taught my mother many times that my mother still said that she would not ↓
↓ Mom is only in her forties, she will shop online but will not return it, every time she goes to the post station to let someone else get it for her, the child wants to teach her, she said she doesn't want to learn ↓
↓ Wei Xin's operation drew a few pieces of paper for the method, and taught it at least hundreds of times, and the mother never remembered how to operate, and even scolded the child for being impatient↓
↓ Teach the adults in the family to type in pinyin.,Back to learn from your own name.,Seven or eight years have been repeating this operation without progress↓.
↓ Let the mother-in-law look at the mobile phone manual, the mother-in-law said not to read, what will not ask her son how good ↓
↓ Breaking up with his ex-boyfriend is partly because his parents only use their mobile phones to brush Tik Tok, and nothing else, and they have to call their ex-boyfriend to get them whenever they have something, which is too scary↓
↓ The time of each mode of laundry is fixed, and I have to explain it to my mother many times, and I have to explain it to my father. Is it difficult to choose the laundry mode you want?↓
Is it really so difficult? Grandparents are older, not to mention, many people's parents are not too old (the younger ones are in their forties, and the older ones are only sixty or seventy years old), and the IQ of the parents' generation is not low, after all, there are some things that they will be self-taught, such as swiping a video on Douyin or something. But the rest (which can be used in life) is for them to learn, and they make excuses that they can't learn and don't want to learn.
Some elders reject some things that they think are "unfamiliar" and "irrelevant to them", and they will deliberately show a very clumsy appearance to let others understand them, which is actually to make excuses for their laziness. What a person doesn't want to learn, no matter how much others teach him, he can't teach it!
I don't want to learn, but sometimes I can't avoid using it, what should I do? That's easy to do! Just ask the juniors directly! Anyway, there are ready-made helpers, so why bother to use your own brains.
No matter what the juniors are doing or not, just make a phone call or a video voice call... When the juniors show impatience, the elders still feel that they are particularly aggrieved: Have you forgotten how you grew up? When you were a child, you couldn't walk, eat, and dress, didn't I teach you little by little? Now that you are older and we are old, you begin to dislike us? The main focus is on filial piety suppression.
In the minds of some elders, it is the responsibility of the juniors to help them with all the things they are not familiar with, including all kinds of electronic products. But not all elders can't learn because of "not being careful" and "not being lazy", they are "deliberate" from another angle.
↑ Some netizens have also encountered a similar situation, and the mother of something will ask over and over again. Later, he found out that in fact, his mother had already learned, but his mother just wanted him to teach him. The elders lack a window to see the world, and they also lack the company of the juniors. When a mother troubles her child over and over again, she may just want to talk to her child more and let her pay more attention to herself. ↑
My parents are very 6 mobile phones, so from time to time they will encounter things that they can't do, such as paying car insurance online to get medical insurance in other places, and I also teach them over and over again. I think as long as they are willing to learn, I will keep teaching but they will. Maybe life is fast now, young people are very busy and stressed, but we might as well be patient with our parents. After all, you can't always leave your good temper to outsiders and your bad temper to your family!