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«——【Preamble】】 ——»
In traditional Chinese culture, filial piety is known as the supreme virtue, but can you believe that the true love of the world can allow two people who are not related by blood to risk their own lives to donate their livers for others?
If you encounter cancer in your parents after marriage, do you choose to pay for the treatment or sacrifice your own life to save the other person?
Presumably everyone already has their own answer in their hearts, today we will talk about Zhang Jianxia's unique choice and see what kind of love is hidden in her heart!
«——【·肝癌确诊·】——»
In 2007, a warm family was broken by this cancer! Zhang Jianxia's father-in-law Wang Zhenlong suddenly fainted when he was taking care of his grandson that day, and the family saw this scene and hurriedly called the emergency number, but the ending on the other end of the phone was the news that made the relatives extremely sad: liver cancer!
In order to save his father, Zhang Jianxia's husband Wang Liang submitted his resignation, and he was going to take his father to a big hospital for treatment.
This decision was supported by the whole family, so after nearly a day of preparation, the family went out neatly, and rushed to Beijing with the last hope for the big hospital.
However, there is no better way to help cancer, and changing hospitals is just a matter of doing another examination and taking rescue measures in another hospital.
Sure enough, after some tossing, the sick Wang Zhenlong was arranged in the ward by the doctor, and when communicating with his family, the doctor proposed two plans:
The first is to receive temporary treatment and take some medicine home, and the other is to find a suitable liver source for the patient to perform liver replacement surgery.
Hearing that there was still a glimmer of hope for her mother-in-law Zhang Shuying, she blurted out that she was receiving liver replacement treatment, but this is only an implementation plan for surgery, and the most troublesome problem is still to come, where to find the liver source?
The three members of the Wang family, who have no way of their own in Beijing at all, are also speechless at this time, and they can only pin their last hope on the doctor and try to find a solution.
Under the urging of the three of them, the doctor proposed a way to find the liver source by himself, because Wang Zhenlong's condition was urgent, and everyone only had a month to find the source.
Under everyone's expectations, the mother and son of the Wang family did a blood type test, and also found a few relatives who had a good relationship with them at home for matching, but I don't know if it was destined by God or there was another hidden secret, none of them matched Wang Zhenlong's type O blood!
In which direction should we look for the source of the liver? This question has become a shadow mountain that plagues the Wang family, and they know that it is the end, but they have never been able to cross it.
«——【Relatives Away·】——»
Zhang Shuying, her mother-in-law, who had no other way, had already entered a psychological misunderstanding at this time, and only privately thought that there was no solution to her husband's condition.
After hearing the news, Zhang Jianxia, who had just returned to her hometown to take care of the child, thought of returning to the hospital again, but when she was packing up the child's things, she suddenly thought of a question, can she ask other relatives in her hometown for help?
With this expectation, after Zhang Jianxia settled the child, she embarked on a two-day trip to persuade her relatives to help, but she misestimated the answer, and most of the people refused when they knew that they wanted to cut their liver to Wang Zhenlong.
Because in everyone's opinion, the final risk caused by liver donation is the burden of one's own family, and there should be a limit to helping others.
As a bystander, Zhang Jianxia knew the reason why everyone chose not to help, but as a daughter-in-law, Zhang Jianxia privately wanted her father-in-law to survive.
With countless contradictory thoughts, Zhang Jianxia secretly made a decision in her heart under the inner struggle along the way, that is, to match herself!
«——【·Zhang Jianxia·righteousness·】——»
After returning to the hospital, Zhang Jianxia told her thoughts as soon as possible, anxiously waiting for her husband and mother-in-law.
What moved her was that after hearing that she wanted to do blood matching, her mother-in-law was the first to object, and even her father-in-law who was lying on the hospital bed refused.
They all think that there is no need to ruin the whole family because of one person's life, plus there is a three-year-old child waiting for Zhang Jianxia to take care of, they can't be so selfish!
Zhang Jianxia, who heard this, recalled in her mind the contact with her in-laws in the past four years, and thought of the good memories of never talking at home for four years, Zhang Jianxia made her own decision and informed her biological parents about it, trying to get the support of her parents.
«——[Biological parents do not agree·]——»
But the adoptive child knows the kindness of his parents, Zhang Jianxia at this time still did not realize it, hearing a lot of rejection words from her parents, Zhang Jianxia, as an only daughter, her temper came up directly, and after appeasing the parents on the other side of the phone, Zhang Jianxia quietly started to match.
After learning that she and her father-in-law both had type O blood and that her physical condition also met the premise of liver donation, Zhang Jianxia signed her name on the liver donation opinion form under the grateful eyes of her mother-in-law and husband.
Without the knowledge of his biological parents in the distance, he began to prepare for the operation the next day, and listening to the doctor's last inquiry before the operation, Zhang Jianxia did not know where the strength came from, so he took the initiative to lie on the operating bed.
When she was pushed out again, the operation was over, and according to the physical needs of her father-in-law Wang Zhenlong, without violating the requirements of the medical community, the doctors dug out 69% of Zhang Jianxia's liver from Zhang Jianxia's body for transplantation!
My father-in-law's transplant operation went extremely smoothly, but on Zhang Jianxia's side, there were new problems!
Just 14 days after the operation, Zhang Jianxia, who had nowhere to recuperate, dragged her injured body back to her parents' home under the escort of her husband.
Seeing that their daughter was so weak that they couldn't stand up, the Zhang family's parents drove their son-in-law Wang Liang out of the house in a fit of anger and turned him away for the next three years.
«——【·Difficult Postoperative Recovery·】——»
Knowing that the matter was over, the Zhang family's parents couldn't say anything to hurt their daughter's heart, so they could only shift their attention to conditioning their daughter's body.
Later, the series of complications on Zhang Jianxia's body did not end so easily as Zhang's parents said.
The sequelae after the operation made Zhang Jianxia have no strength for a long time, and even holding chopsticks consumes her great energy, let alone cooking and taking care of the children by herself.
And the most serious sequelae is that after Zhang Jianxia returned to the hospital again because of pain, I don't know when the bile in her body avoided the crooked duct and flowed into Zhang Jianxia's body.
At this time, Zhang Jianxia, who was corroded by bile, had already fainted, and was pushed into the operating room again without knowing it.
In order to slightly reduce Zhang Jianxia's pain, the doctors even came up with a method of pouring saline from the rib cracks to save Zhang Jianxia's life.
Under the careful care of the doctor and the careful care of her parents, Zhang Jianxia returned to her home to recuperate until her body recovered.
«——【·美名扬·】——»
It was at this time that Zhang Jianxia's deeds were publicized by people who returned to his hometown, so that Zhang Jianxia also had the reputation of great filial piety.
Some people even came to visit Zhang Jianxia at home to recuperate, leaving a lot of nutrition and praise, but this seems to Zhang Jianxia to have a sensational effect, because she really hopes that her father-in-law will recover his health.
Under the publicity of these good names, governments at all levels and local propaganda management departments learned of her deeds and awarded her many honorary titles, including the Top Ten People in Hebei in 2008.
The Propaganda Department also made a special report on his deeds, propagating the traditional virtues and human goodness that were lacking in this society, and arranged a position for him in the government, although it was not a regular job, but also had a body.
Even director Liu Zequn found Zhang Jianxia and said that he wanted to use Zhang Jianxia's experience to arrange a movie, called "Daxiao Daughter-in-law", and indeed this movie was greatly loved by rural people after it was broadcast.
«——【·终有遗憾·】——»
After Zhang Jianxia's health improved, her father-in-law's family began to spoil her daughter-in-law, and the only regret was that her father-in-law's cancer metastasized again three years later.
This time he was not so lucky, he couldn't find a solution, and his father-in-law passed away not long after.
It was also from this time that Zhang Jianxia realized the recklessness of the decision, and looked at the faces of her biological parents who had aged more than ten years in three years, and then she had the mind to know her mistakes.
In order not to leave regrets, Zhang Jianxia began to pay more attention to the life and psychological state of the three remaining elderly people at home, and accompany them every day to take good care of them.
«——【Recent Situation·】——»
Today's Zhang Jianxia is 42 years old, and after this experience, she is also considered to be listed in the county leaders, so whenever there is a moral model award in the county, Zhang Jianxia will be included in the invitation list.
Now Zhang Jianxia is keen to devote herself to charity and public welfare, because in her opinion, she failed to save her father-in-law's life, and she really deserves to hold these rewards, so she can only contribute her own strength from other aspects.
«——【·Conclusion·】——»
Of course, Zhang Jianxia's move also has her own arrangements, she wants to promote our traditional Chinese virtues to everyone in her hometown through these public welfare activities, and truly let filial piety sprinkle all over the earth!
At the same time, I also hope that every family can thrive under the nourishment of love and write their own touching story together.
Resources:
Baidu Encyclopedia - 2008 moved Hebei Top Ten People - Zhang Jianxia