In modern society, children's psychological state seems to be more fragile than in the past, and the way they deal with setbacks is becoming more extreme. A thrilling incident in Cangzhou, Hebei Province on January 12 triggered deep thinking about family relationships and adolescent growth.
Behind the extreme behavior
Children often go to extremes because of their inner vulnerability. They choose to take revenge on their parents with self-harm, and there is an extreme mentality behind it, which is a vent of helplessness in life. The origin of such extreme behavior has attracted widespread attention.
Parents' feelings and conflicts
Parents' heartache and regret for their children are often accompanied by excessive spoiling. In the eyes of others, these children behave childishly and ignorantly, but in the eyes of parents, every child is a treasure in the palm of their hand. This contradiction complicates society's understanding of family relationships.
Event recap
On January 12, in Cangzhou, Hebei Province, a thrilling scene occurred outside the window on the third floor. A boy of about sixteen or seventeen years old chose to jump from the building because of a quarrel with his parents. This scene is jaw-dropping, and it also evokes deep thought about family communication.
There are heated discussions and different points of view in the society
Netizens have expressed speculation and discussion about the incident. Some people think that it is the parents who say too much, and some children choose extreme measures to threaten their parents after an argument. And there are also people who think that the child's personality is too extreme, this time it is lucky, and the next time it may be more dangerous.
Characteristics of the rebellious period of adolescents
Teenagers are in a rebellious period, and poor communication leads to many problems. Treating children as friends, treating them equally, and giving them enough respect and listening is the key to resolving the problem. Children at this age are not yet mentally mature and are prone to do some extreme things.
conclusion
We need to be patient and understanding when faced with the extreme behavior of teenagers. Parents are urged to treat their children with equality and respect, and not to be overly spoiled. Only by establishing good communication and understanding can this rebellious period be passed more smoothly and lay a solid foundation for the growth of children. This is not only the responsibility of individual families, but also of society as a whole.