In an ordinary family in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, Ms. Mu's son was very depressed after returning home from his report card. Ms. Mu, who was at work, found out through the surveillance, and she couldn't help but feel nervous, and she immediately asked about the child's situation. The child cried and said, "I just want to have a good New Year." This sentence made Ms. Mu feel distressed.
After some inquiry, Ms. Mu learned that the child did not get his expected results this time, and he was worried that his relatives would ask about his grades during the Chinese New Year, and he was afraid that he would be disappointed. In the face of the child's anxiety, Ms. Mu did not blame, but chose to warm and comfort. She told her children that grades are not the only measure of a person's worth, but more important is physical health and mental health.
Ms. Mu said that the child's grades have always been good, and this time he was disappointed by the results. But she is more interested in the physical and psychological condition of the child. She doesn't want her child's memories of the Spring Festival to be a nightmare of being asked about grades. In order to let her son have a happy Spring Festival, Ms. Mu decided to take leave to go home to accompany her child.
The story has attracted widespread attention online, with many netizens saying that Ms. Mu's approach is worthy of praise. In her, we see a mother's love and understanding for her child. Instead of seeing grades as everything a child is measured, she focuses on her child's physical and mental health. This concept of education is worth emulating.
In real life, many parents pay too much attention to their children's grades and often ignore their children's feelings. They hope to meet their expectations through their children's excellent grades, but they ignore the psychological needs of their children. This kind of education style that focuses too much on grades often brings great pressure to children and affects their physical and mental health.
Ms. Mu's story reminds us that as parents, we should pay attention to our children's physical and mental health, and cultivate their independent thinking and self-awareness. In the process of children's growth, we should give them enough care and support, so that they have the courage to face setbacks and have the confidence to overcome them.
In addition, we also need to educate our children that grades are not the only measure of a person's worth. In this pluralistic society, everyone has their own strengths and strengths, and as long as we work hard to explore and cultivate, we will definitely find our own value.
During the Spring Festival, we should let our children feel the warmth and happiness of the family, rather than focusing on their grades. Parents can enhance the parent-child relationship by participating in various activities with their children, so that their children can grow up happily.
Ms. Mu's story has a lot to teach us. As parents, we should pay attention to our children's physical and mental health, and cultivate their independent thinking skills and self-awareness. At the same time, we also need to educate our children that grades are not the only measure of a person's worth. In the process of children's growth, we should give them enough care and support, so that they have the courage to face setbacks and have the confidence to overcome them. In this way, our children can grow up in happiness and find their own value.