In contemporary married life, many couples often encounter emotional coldness due to their daily busyness and habitual estrangement. Such a situation is no exception to the celebrity couple Xiao S and Xu Yajun. Recently, Xiao S confided in some little secrets between herself and her husband on a show "Miss Buxidi", including her embarrassing attempt to save the relationship between husband and wife.
According to Xiao S, one night, she hoped to rekindle the passion between husband and wife, so she decided to take a very direct approach: appear naked in front of her husband Xu Yajun, and hope that this bold approach will attract his attention.
However, it backfired, Xu Yajun seemed to turn a deaf ear to this, and just looked down at the chessboard on his phone. Xiao Mou was incredulous, she couldn't help but ask Xu Yajun directly: "Do you really don't love me anymore?" I am naked in front of you, don't you think it's worth seeing?" To this, Xu Yajun responded lightly: "No, it's very sexy." But then he continued his game of chess with his head bowed.
Xiao S's story is obviously full of helplessness and loneliness, and she put this interesting story in front of the public, just to find a way to solve the marital dilemma, and perhaps also have the need to pour out her heart. In her opinion, the same thing has become the norm in life: mutual neglect and estrangement make a relationship that should be warm and boring.
When the audience heard about this, their reactions were mixed. Some were surprised and wondered why a well-known host would have such a family life, while others expressed their understanding, after all, a long married life inevitably has some lack of freshness. Many netizens questioned whether Xiao S's move was appropriate, after all, this kind of private husband and wife life was made public, which always brought people some uncomfortable spectators.
But from another point of view, Xiao S's frankness also shows a kind of courage and confronting the real marital problems, which are the confusion that many ordinary couples may also experience.
The indifference of the relationship between husband and wife is not the unique background of Xiao S and Xu Yajun, it is almost a common phenomenon in modern marriage. When the passion fades, all that remains may be family affection and responsibility, and more business and communication are needed to rekindle that original intention.
We can also see that even if two people love each other, a long time together can make each other feel bored. This may be the reason why Xu Yajun is indifferent to Xiao S's nakedness.
After a long period of time, some things that would have caused a strong emotional response will also lose their original magic due to excessive habit.
And Xiao S also showed a tolerant attitude towards Xu Yajun's behavior in the nightclub. To love someone may be to tolerate his imperfections, even if there is an unspeakable sense of loss in my heart.