The author, Cui Lishan, Datong, Shanxi, is from Tianjin
Every once in a while, the second sister video chatted with me, and last night, she chatted with me again. She has always been concerned about me, even though I am 60 years old.
Last week, I told her that she was going back to Datong, Shanxi Province for the Chinese New Year. After all, Datong is his home. The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own grass nests. After the Spring Festival, I will continue to take care of my granddaughter today.
The second sister wants to make sure if I have really returned to Datong. Between relatives, try to be in close contact and see each other more often.
Now, counting me, seven people live in seven places, but our hearts are forever bound together. A few days ago, the third sister had a video chat with me, and she said: "When we were young, we were a family, and after we got married and had children, we were still a family. Now, as a grandparent and grandparents, it should be a family. There is great strength in numbers, and there is no fear of any difficulties. ”
Like, my sisters and sisters are different from other people's sisters and sisters. Once married and have children, many sisters or brothers cease to be siblings and become more and more estranged. The main reason is that we cannot be considerate and tolerant of each other.
Between me and my sister and sister, there are occasional unpleasant occurrences. Either I hurt them, or they hurt me. The so-called "harm" is nothing more than saying things that should not be said and doing things that should not be done. I them off, they annoyed me.
Luckily, none of us care, we don't care. As the saying goes, it's not strange. It is normal for relatives to be noisy and quarrelsome. When you're angry, I shut up, and when I turn my face, I think, you're laughing. If you're wrong, you don't have to apologize to me, but if I'm wrong, I'm sorry.
Once, because of a small matter, the relationship between the eldest sister and the third sister suddenly became tense. The eldest sister was angry and severely criticized the third sister. Actually, the third sister is not wrong, even if she is really wrong, it is not intentional.
In order to calm the eldest sister's resentment, anger, and anger, the third sister came to visit the eldest sister many times with rice, flour, and cooking oil. The first few times, the eldest sister's face was ugly, and she was reluctant to talk to the third sister. However, the third sister always looked like she was smiling, even if the eldest sister pushed her out of the door, she didn't feel wronged.
The third sister doesn't read too much, but she is proficient in human affairs and worldliness, and she handles interpersonal relationships no less than a diplomat.
The eldest sister and the second sister are easy to get angry, and my sister and I can understand it. Their anger is temporary, and loving my sister is permanent.
There are very few sisters and sisters like me in the world.