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One is a righteous and awe-inspiring soldier, and the other is a modern city girl. Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia, a young couple, are in the eyes of outsiders. It's a good couple, and it's a perfect match.
The two also cherish each other very much, but who knew that in 2009, a flying accident directly caused Pan Xiaoxia to be seriously injured and did not wake up. After "picking up a life", her intelligence regressed to the level of a 3-year-old child.
(All the information in this article is based on the official website, which is detailed at the end of the article.) Some of the content of the article has been edited and is for reference only. ）
Seeing the truth in adversity, at this time, Lu Lei did not give up his girlfriend, but "bankrupt" his family for treatment. Regardless of the opposition of his relatives, he insisted on marrying this girl.
And now that 14 years have passed, is this "special" couple doing well now?
1. Sudden car accident
On New Year's Day 2010, a unit in Jiangxi welcomed a mysterious guest, she was the fiancée of army officer Lu Lei, Pan Xiaoxia.
In addition to visiting relatives this time, her more important "task" is to send her wedding invitation.
But no one thought that this trip to visit relatives would eventually become a nightmare that could not be let go.
Pan Xiaoxia's arrival was warmly welcomed, and Lu Lei led his comrades-in-arms to hold a grand reception banquet for him. When the banquet was over, the comrades-in-arms also left with great eyes, leaving only the lovers to spend sweet time together.
But just as they were walking down the street hand in hand, a large truck that was out of control roared out of the corner and knocked the two dozens of meters away.
Fortunately, because of the cushion of the flower bed, although Lu Lei had multiple abrasions, it was only a slight fracture, and his life was fine.
However, it is a pity that Pan Xiaoxia's head hit a stone directly under the violent impact.
He was unconscious on the spot, and the blood stained the ground red.
This scene was seen by passers-by, and 120 quickly rushed to the scene and quickly sent the two to the hospital for rescue.
In the hospital, after 48 hours of rescue, Lu Lei has long been out of danger.
But the woman's condition is worrying, because of the massive intracranial hemorrhage caused by the severe head injury, she has been in a coma, and even the doctor has issued multiple critical illness notices.
Not long ago, they were still planning their upcoming wedding with great anticipation. But now he is facing such a heavy blow, and his girlfriend's coma makes him feel helpless.
But he didn't back down because of this, but stayed by his girlfriend's side, hoping that she would wake up as soon as possible.
Not only that, he bathes, massages, and talks to Pan Xiaoxia every day, hoping to awaken her consciousness.
Even the cost of long-term treatment has already drained all his savings.
Seeing this, some people may be curious, how did the two meet, and how did the girl win Lu Lei's heart?
2. Blind date meets true love
Lu Lei is a veteran who served in Jiangxi and has been working hard in this position for nine years.
His friends of the same age have all started families, but he is still single. But Lu Lei is well aware of his professional characteristics, frequent transfers and long-term separation, which makes many women shy away and unwilling to contact him.
As time went by, his family began to continue to arrange blind dates for him, and whenever Lu Lei came home from vacation, his parents would arrange various blind date activities in full swing.
It's just that Lu Lei also knows, so when he goes on a blind date, he will also honestly explain his actual situation to the woman.
In most cases, the woman will feel that it is inappropriate and politely decline.
Despite this, Lu Lei never gave up looking for the other half who could understand him and support him.
Fortunately, there is an expectation and a return, and in a chance blind date, he met Pan Xiaoxia.
Early that morning, Lu Lei came to Pan Xiaoxia's house with gifts, and her beauty and temperament immediately attracted the attention of men.
In the following days, as the two continued to contact, the relationship between the two sides also heated up rapidly. Lu Lei felt that the other party was gentle, beautiful, and understanding, while Pan Xiaoxia felt that the man in front of him was sincere and reliable, a trustworthy soldier, and a reliable marriage partner.
Although Lu Lei is not able to buy a house now, Pan Xiaoxia expressed his willingness to work with him to create a better future together.
Although Lu Lei returned to the army, he always cared about Pan Xiaoxia, as long as he was free, they would confide in each other on the phone, and the girl often went to Lu Lei's house to help, care about his parents, and send them gifts.
After a period of getting along, the two felt that they were suitable for each other, and their parents were also very satisfied with the marriage, so she came to the army to visit relatives and send wedding invitations to her comrades-in-arms as her fiancée at the beginning.
What people didn't wish was that because of the loss of control of the truck, the good happy event finally brought irreparable pain to the two families.
But fortunately, in the end, under Lu Lei's careful care, his girlfriend successfully sobered up. But because of the impact, her intelligence was directly degraded to the level of a 3-year-old child due to brain trauma......
3. Love that breaks through the barriers of the world
On the National Day of 2010, the two walked into the palace of marriage with the blessings of relatives and friends.
After marriage, Lu Lei took care of his wife wholeheartedly. He learns to read each other's "signals", whether it's drinking water, going to the toilet, or being hungry.
Lu Lei promised his parents that he would accompany his wife to recover, and no matter how difficult the road ahead was, he would spend it with her.
But later, with the needs of work, Lu Lei had to leave home. At this time, his parents took on the responsibility of taking care of Pan Xiaoxia.
Although the second elder was also worried about his son's future development, he strongly opposed this marriage, but seeing that his son was so persistent, they gradually accepted each other and did their best to take care of their special daughter-in-law. In 2013, she and Lu Lei adopted a child, and this child became the driving force for her recovery.
Time flies, seven years have passed in a flash, and Lu Lei has also paid off most of the debts he owed because of treatment.
Under the careful care of Lu Lei and his parents, Pan Xiaoxia's life was gradually able to take care of himself, although others may only see their suffering, but Lu Lei felt happy.
For him, the warmth of the family and the reliance on each other are the most precious treasures in life, and he loves this family deeply, and this love makes his life always full of sunshine.
In 2015, he also took his wife on the stage of "China Dream Show" and generously shared their love story, hoping to use the power of the media to seek experts to treat his wife's illness.
Although he knew that the future was difficult, he never gave up hope.
Since they got married in 2010, they have gone through more than a dozen spring and autumn seasons, going through ups and downs, but they are still full of hope and believe that where there is love, there is a future.
On Lu Lei's personal account, he still shares his daily life with his wife.
Today, this special couple is still living happily together.
In fact, in addition to taking care of his wife, Lu Lei's own work is also very good. The other party not only appeared on CCTV 23 in 7, but also won many titles such as "Excellent Sniper". And all this, he deserves it!
The author thinks
The story of Lu Lei and Pan Xiaoxia tells the world that happiness does not come from the amount of material, but from the companionship and support of family members.
In this uncertain world, only the warmth of home is eternal. Let us also look forward to their joint efforts, the future life will be more satisfying.
Information sources:
[1] Youku video, "China Dream Show".
[2] Lu Lei, Pan Xiaoxia's personal account.