The weather was very big that day, the sun shone into the winter, my aunt I have been at home for a few days, now go out for a walk, as soon as I went out and met the fat girl in our neighborhood.
This fat girl is a full-time child, there are many full-time children living in our middle-class community, some excuses are taking public exams, some excuses are taking a gap year, anyway, it's lurking, like a small radio station in the dark, in fact, we don't look down on other people's children, we just think that youth is so wronged!
To put it mildly, even if I go on the road to sell sugar gourds, or sell bouquets of flowers at the subway entrance, I don't like to be with the cat, the reason why I stay at home is that my health is really poor, and I have a wheck, but these young babies don't have a wheezing root, how do you say they can live with cats?
So I sat on the bench in the community and chatted with the fat girl.
Hey, treasure. Recently, I heard that there is a movie, have you watched it? The girl shook her head and said, I haven't watched it, but I will watch it online after a while. I said I recently heard that there is a big ski slide in the water park, have you got? The girl shook her head and said, "If you don't go, you have to pay for it!"
Hey, she's pretty good at it. This girl is like a house cat, and she seems to have a good life, and she has raised more than 100 pots of flowers. On the large terrace, the colorful ones are all fleshy, and they are really raising flowers. Those meaty meats, pots and pots are cute and cute, but they are a little similar to her. Once, I couldn't help it, so I said to her: "My daughter is always boring from house to house, otherwise let's go out for a walk." Hope, even if it's just a distraction, we don't look for any good unit, just find a small company and just pay social security. Earn more than 3,000 yuan a month. Hey, I heard that there are still such companies, what kind of new area, where are they recruiting?
What kind of customer service for the online store? A very big online store, a little kid I know went there, worked for half a year and was promoted to the group leader for a month, earning four or five thousand yuan, I think it's okay, you graduated from college, do this hand-holding.
The fat girl listened to me and stopped talking. She snorted her little chubby dog and shook her little chubby legs, sat on a wooden chair, and me.
My daughter asked me:
"Auntie, do you say that this life is interesting? Actually, it's not impossible for me to go out and find a job, but the question is whether it makes sense to do that kind of work? It's easier and earns more than 3,000. What do you have to do with that little money? If you want to buy a piece of clothing, if it's a brand, it's enough to buy a placket, and if you want to earn an extra one or two thousand, you have to make endless 996, zero zero seven, but even if you vomit blood, you can't change the class! That's why I don't want to use fuel for the capitalists. Boring. If you don't get it right, you'll have to be angry!"
Auntie, I can't say anything after hearing this, in fact, today's young people don't listen to their uncles and aunts at all, and people say that you are called PUA. But I thought in my heart, if this girl plans to change her class by going to work and soar to the sky, this is impossible for a middle class, and she definitely can't!
I said to the fat girl:
Going to work can only make people from poor to well-off, but if you want to fly to the upper class and fly to the tip of this pyramid, you have to smash the pot and sell iron, and abandon your family and life. For example, if you pay for your house first, and then go to the bank to borrow a few million, and let it out! That courage is almost as good as that of a robber!
Just like my brother. In my brother's words, 'If it weren't for my sister's iron job, I wouldn't have dared to go to sea and start a business.' If you want to go to the sea and start a business, you must be prepared to go bankrupt and have nothing. Hey, by the way, when I have nothing, sister, you have to take care of me, I will go to your house every day to eat sugar cakes!'
Cheng Chengcheng, I promised him, if he fails to start a business, I will give him pancakes every day. So my younger brother went to the sea to start a business and started to work in real estate with others.
I told the fat girl about it, and she giggled:
"Yes, the little uncle still has this one, but now he is the big boss!"
I said, "It's not too late for you to be the big boss, or you'll do the same." ”
When the fat girl heard this, she hurriedly waved her hand and said: "I don't have that idea, I don't have that idea, even if I am willing to start a business, now I have passed the wind, so I should stay steadfast!"
Oh, after listening to my daughter's statement, I said in my heart:
You don't dare to start a business, and you are annoyed to go to work, so stay from house to house. Well, that's all there is left, and there's really no other way to do it. The whole logical closed loop, then stay at home, just like a pot of mini meat, it will never grow big, just a fist, with that drum mound.
In fact, there are some things in my heart that I always want to say on the Internet.
That is, many parents instill a strong class pessimism in their children when they are very young. Just like this fat girl, her father is a university teacher, her mother is a grassroots civil servant, it's a good family, and it's not poor anywhere. What makes us puzzled is why these two people are dissatisfied all day long.
Why? Because they have a big relative.
Nakuo's relatives now live in Dabieye, three or four stories of Dabieye, and it is not the kind of square house, I heard that there is a turret on the top, a pool is dug in front, there is a large open space around, and the high walls are pulled with barbed wire, good guys, the road is really wild enough!
Therefore, the daughter's parents often envy others. said: "Look, your uncle's family, these are all masters, these are all propertied classes, their children will go to Europe to study, learn art and management, and after they come out, they will inherit the family business and start a company." Tut-tut!
Oh, by the way, one more thing, although this uncle himself is quite rich, and Lu Ziye lives in the wild, but this uncle doesn't seem to plan to give the money to his brother. Anyway, I look at the fat girl, and their family's life still falls within the scope of salary payment.
So, the couple often blows the wind in the ears of the fat girl, which means that when our family can be wild and shake. And this daunting task falls on you. They train their daughter to learn painting and art from the piano in elementary school, so that the child looks more extravagant. By the way, we need to abandon the poor people's ways.
For example, my daughter's mother once told me very proudly that her daughter had a spring outing, and the teacher gave each child a loaf of bread, but her daughter did not eat it after opening the bread bag!
When I heard this, I wondered, why don't you eat bread?
Her mom said no. My daughter doesn't eat in plastic bags, she has to put bread on a plate, and I really shouldn't have gotten to her. I can only nod as if I was slipping away. It is estimated that this means that her daughter is very noble and very generous, which is completely different from the temperament of the poor middle peasants. Know how to hold a champagne glass, drink tea without blowing on your mouth......
But this noble-minded, atmospheric little girl has a look at it in society? The cruel reality is hot for children!
In reality, the children in the unit are all doing trivial work, being criticized by the leader, being called by colleagues, and being called by the whole office.
So the girl was angry and angry. Coming out and going in all day long, clenching his fists and making a bitter face, that aggrieved appearance is the same as Qu Yuan's, why is God blind and let me continue to mix with the bottom?
According to this noble girl, the characteristics of life at the bottom of the mixed class are as follows.
Take the subway to work. By the way, their unit is quite far from home, the driving time is long, and it is congested, so the girl has to take the subway.
At noon, I can only eat a boxed lunch. By the way, the canteen of their unit was closed during the mask period, and the staff meals were uniformly provided, which was a box lunch! In her words, it was like feeding pigs, but you could bring your own food, soup and water. It's inconvenient to take the subway!
In this way, the girl worked for less than three months, and she was so angry that she squeezed around with the smell of the subway. It stinks all over the unit when it comes to the unit. As for the office, the air conditioner is good and bad, and it smells like smoke when you go out. What about the lunch at noon, not to mention, the rice is sticky, the soup is not fresh, and when the plastic lunch box is opened, the steamed buns are wet. It smells stinky too.
Alas, this society, this environment, the whole thing is a big pigsty. This ice-clear and jade girl can only exist there, and all the states are crowded around and messed up. There is no trace of elegance or poetry to be found.
So the girl returned home disheartened and decided to rest for a while. After a while, her parents found another job for her, but when the girl went to report to another post, she found that hey, this is still a big pigsty! It still stinks! Whether it is the work content, the position of colleagues or the office environment is exactly the same as the last time.
Think of your home with bright windows, think of the fragrant environment of your childhood, think of those elegant artistic dances, vacations abroad, luxury hotels, museums full of otherworldliness, and the wet lawns of parks, the glass-domed pools of five-star hotels in the sun...... The girl felt that she belonged here, not to the pigsty.
So she shouted, the work is not worth it, life has no fun! So she turned her head and went home, hiding in a small building to become a unity, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
The girl once said very desperately, if you enter the workplace and find that you have struggled all your life, and you can't get rid of the track that fate has given you, this sense of powerlessness, this deep sense of helplessness, will make people feel suffocated, do you understand?
The girl asked me painfully with big tears in her eyes.
Auntie, I held my hands, raised my head, blinked twice, and replied, "I don't understand, the one you said I haven't seen me live in a pigsty all the time, which is good." Then I took a dried sweet potato out of my pocket, put it in my mouth and started chewing!
I said to the girl: Let me introduce myself to you.
Recently, I often carry dried white potatoes in my pocket, and in addition to dried white potatoes, I also have dried apples at home, which my relatives in my hometown have dried for me. Oh. And dried apricots...... It was given to me by a good friend of mine, and it was a specialty of their hometown, a native of Shanxi!
Many of my friends have praised me, they say that I am good-looking, and when I say that I am good-looking, it does not mean that I am beautiful. If I'm so beautiful, why didn't I ever meet a hooligan when I was young? Don't they all say that little hooligans rob big girls? I'm such a big girl, and I can't see it in the streets at night, why don't I rob it? Hmph!
Of course, I have met hooligans in foreign countries, but he can't be counted as a hooligan. A mouthful of Spanish and Italian, that can't tease me, the whole one doesn't understand.
The reason why the people around me say that I am good-looking is because as soon as I appear, in the eyes of others, that feeling is particularly pleasing to the eye, and the main focus is on decompression!
You see, a curly-haired aunt, skinny, with a pair of round glasses, wearing a brown teddy bear padded jacket and an old pair of woolly jeans underneath. Wearing a pair of velvet pants inside, velvet pants and wool pants, there must be a reason. I'm a person with a low body temperature and I'm afraid of the cold, and on the other hand, you see, such thick clothes seem to have the strength of us.
It's the main home padded jacket, which doesn't have to be worn!
By the way, under the soles of the feet, I put on a pair of big wool boots, wearing a pair of red gloves on my hands, and my half-fingers are showing the pointed thin claws, sitting in the sun k eating k eating and gnawing on dried white potatoes there, this picture is not very decompressing, a satisfied aunt like a winter squirrel, sitting in the sun and eating snacks, and there is coffee in the kettle next to her.
At that time, I also had fan girls. One of my neighborhoods also learned from me, and she also bought a big long teddy bear coat with brown curly hair, but this old sister-in-law is fat, very fat. The kind of long, long, wide teddy bear coat is actually not suitable for fat people, one day she and her husband met a neighbor uncle on the street, Tianjin uncle is enthusiastic, as soon as they meet, they greet her husband:
"Huh, Brother Wang. Why are you going? Okay, you have a new big chow chow! This guy is really not small, fluffy, and biting? It's not a chow chow, it's a bad sight. I'm sorry, dare to love my sister-in-law's cat with shoelaces around her waist?"
From then on, the fat lady never wore her teddy bear coat again, and saved people from being caught as Chow Chows.
I don't have any children because of my poor health, and if I have children, my plan for her is simple. Study hard, I will provide for you, and I will provide for you to as far as you can study. If it's really like my brother, who can read a Ph.D. in a puff of smoke, then we'll get a Ph.D.
If you have the ability, you should be a professor, a teacher, a civil servant, and if you don't have the ability, you can do some small work in the factory, which is not bad! I know an eldest sister, she is a customer service, and she is an old recruiter. It's all about answering the phone.
You call that for a day, and your mother will pick you up after work, and then we will go to eat cold noodle skewers and road casserole. When it's almost dark, and the supermarket discount time is up, let's go and see the yogurt. I'm also familiar with the eldest sister who sells yogurt.
And then we're drinking yogurt and walking around the park, and you see, isn't that great? We're just having fun!
I will not tell my child that you are the bottom of society, that you are the stuffer of the human world, and that I will only say to him:
Door-to-door, you are a good treasure of your mother, and you are an ordinary person outside, but we ordinary people also have our quiet years, and we also have our spring flowers.
In fact, at my age, I suddenly felt that the world was a Ferris wheel of poor quality, and if you go up from a low place, the big wheel will rotate and take you to the highest point.
But what are the characteristics of a Ferris wheel that is not of good quality? It loves power outages! I once rode on this Ferris wheel in a provincial capital. Good fellow, leave me in the air for a full hour, and never sit again.
In fact, society is such a Ferris wheel, and the main theme is not scored. You go up from a low place, and it takes a long time, and the power goes out as soon as you get on it, so you have to stay at a low place. Of course, if the Ferris wheel pulls the brakes right when you turn to the highest point, then you are in high places.
It is said that the small rich rely on diligence, and the big rich rely on life, and I really agree with this.
I know a pair of brothers, who are relatives of my mother's mother's family, who are far away from me, but live close to each other. He used to live behind my grandmother's house, across the alley, and the family was brothers.
Not to mention how smart the boss is, the eyes of the little ones will shine, so the family thinks that the boss is a promising child, and sure enough, they went to the fourth middle school. I got in.
Don't mention the second, I don't know if it was a fever that burned out my brain when I was young, anyway, this kid always can't wake up, wilted and drooping, I heard that he has been in elementary school for eight years, um. I read a solid point, but I didn't get admitted to a high school even if I was so solid, and I went to a technical school after graduating from junior high school.
That year, the eldest said that he wanted to go to the United States and asked the family to pay some money, and the family spent all their savings and scraped together $2,000. Give it to the boss. The second child is very honest and cheeky, looking at it. So the grandfather of this family made a will at that time, he said that he would give all these houses of our family to the second child, and let the eldest take away the money, and the second child is also pitiful, and he will have to marry a wife and have children in the future!
What kind of house did they have? There were four rooms in the north room, which was not bad in Beijing in the 80s and 90s, and the living room was spacious at that time. An old man, a son, a daughter-in-law, two grandsons below, no one else, the family is also clean, 87 years for the eldest grandson to go abroad, sold all the antique calligraphy and paintings in the family even the carpet to sell, scraped together 2000 US dollars, went to the United States!
The boss is now out of business, and in the United States, I don't know what it is, and the local government in Seattle said that he was an electrical engineer and had a house. I heard that it is a duplex building, it is very beautiful, and I have seen the photos he sent back, and there is also a car. A daughter-in-law, no children and no daughters, the two of them are Dink, saying that they don't like to have children!
What about the second child? The second child carried the will left by his grandfather, and the house belonged to him. Just those bungalows, he waited for his grandfather away, and then his mother let the car crash, and he served his mother again. There is a paralyzed mother-in-law, who wants to marry him? But I can't find this Beijing city, no way, find a rural daughter-in-law, find a little daughter-in-law in Henan, and live like this!
As a result, after so many years, what happened to the second child now? Hey, don't mention it.
It is said to be so-so, too. There are only four or five houses, distributed in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, but there are no villas, all of them are large duplexes in the air. Probably, each set is 300 square meters. What about his wife? Henan's wife is the mother of the main palace, and she didn't move, but I heard that he also has a few special contacts.
We. That's all we can say. What about the child, it seems that it is either five or eight, anyway, it is less than ten, and the two digits must not be on it, so I dare to guarantee it.
The second child went skiing in Switzerland in winter, and went to Las Vegas, as well as Alaska, playing cards for a while, and playing bears for a while. Anyway, I was very busy, so my aunt asked, what is the second child?
I heard a person familiar with the matter say: Hey, isn't the second child stupid? After serving his mother, he will live with his father and his daughter-in-law in Henan. Oh, he had a son at that time, but at this time, their family's deed worked, somehow, under a series of policy implementation, their family's three-story building left by the older generation before the liberation of Xicheng was returned by the government, but now, the small building has been changed into a six-story shopping mall. That's what the superior means.
It's definitely not okay to make up for your house, and we don't have a house in our hands, but what about giving you 20% of the rent for the counter rental in this shopping mall?
As soon as I heard this, I quickly said, "Cheng, listen to you!" So I got a lot of rent, but I didn't give two years to the shopping mall, and we are now contracted here, and the counter money can't be given to you, you see, we have a building in the fourth ring road, how about deducting this building to you?
So, the honest man said, "Yes, listen to you." So he went to collect the building, but the building came out of the mushrooms again, and the building also has a master, what kind of company is this owner? People said, the building can't be given to you, our office is like this, this is the office building of an enterprise below us, you look at you, even if you take the building into a share, we are a joint-stock enterprise, you are also a share, do you think it can be? The honest man said: "Cheng, listen to you." ”
In this way, this company has now become a listed company, dividends according to shares, honest people's money is now Wuyang Wuyang, it is estimated that the eight big silver cellars can not be put down, how many people do not say, anyway, we can't see people, the family is floating with the sky!
This kind of wealth is not the result of struggle at all. Nowadays, many bigwigs talk about the hard work of their own business, in fact, the hard work is hard, but their success is due to personal efforts and the blessing of the times, plus opportunities, and inspiration. When you see him succeeding, his experience is outdated!
The vast majority of us are born and raised in Sri Lanka, and have been up and down in our own class all our lives. For us, wealth is like clouds in the sky, just look up and see.
When I first got married, I accidentally found out that my wife's grandfather and my grandfather's sister-in-law were actually alumni. Both families lived in the British Concession in Tianjin before liberation. It is the factory owner of the textile industry, and the factory is also big, with thousands of workers, roaring machines, and foreign money earning Wuyang Wuyang. On the other hand, my wife and I are in a financial situation now...... Well, what do you say?
Yesterday, he also said to me: Look, I wiped this piece of glass clean, and we won't be looking for hourly workers during the Spring Festival this year. I said no problem, my brother came to visit the door this weekend and asked him to take a part-time job for us.
My wife is in a large state-owned enterprise, and the income is just like that, now I think about our house, or he earned it in the early years when he was doing business, but then the business was yellow, and he went back to work.
If he hadn't done that business, our house might have been a little smaller, seventy or eighty square meters, but now I think that if it was seventy or eighty square meters, it would be better, at least it would be easier to clean!
Having said all this, I want to talk about one thing, that is, can we parents provide our children with a sunny and open outlook on life! Of course, this is not to say that you should let your children have sex relations, but I mean that you should dig out a broad space for your children on the premise of basing themselves on their own class, and teach them to be content and enjoy and be willing to gallop.
Tell him that in this vast space, there is a lot of fun. Many dreams can also be realized.
Don't tie your happiness in life to whether you can own a big villa or get in a Bentley. Can you go to Grandma Xiang's house as many times as you go to your own grandmother's house? Can you eat at the Michelin restaurant as a breakfast shop, and after eating, you can throw the chopsticks and wipe your mouth with a napkin, and then go out and turn left, stop on the road, and wait for your own helicopter to pick me up......
If this is the standard of happiness, then nine out of ten in this world are not happy, they all live in vain, and they all have a life of reluctance and endurance!
At that time, in ordinary life, there were also many small blessings. Let's say take the subway at 10 a.m., hey. It's a seat, and I can't wait to pluck a single hair like a monkey, turn into 18 monkeys, and occupy all the empty seats. For example, if you buy yogurt that is about to expire, the original price is 15, and the current price is 5 yuan, which is not only of good quality, but also has a thick layer of hard branding on the milk cap.
For example, in winter, we can buy a plain mink to wear. The teddy bear coat, yellow and curly, I have two such padded jackets, a long coat to the knees, a short one, comfortable and warm to wear, if the weather is a little colder, then wear a thin little down jacket inside, walking in the winter sun, not cold at all, the feet are squeaky snow, the heart is a warm small stove.
As for the price of these two treasure clothes, I don't know the long one, it was my brother who bought it for me, and it must be expensive for him to buy things, and he won't pick a place. Please wait to be slaughtered every day! The short one was bought for me by my eldest sister, 350 yuan. The eldest sister knows that there is a foreign trade mall, don't look at it as an underground mall, there are treasures underneath.
I also know that there is a place that sells shoes. Broken code specials, they often have three or six shoes there, a small leather shoes, rattling, bright to wear, and very soft. No foot grinding at all. The skin is not hard at all,
Later, when I inquired, I found out that artificial leather!
My life is full of fun, this is the average income of three or four thousand yuan a month, and I can enjoy the fun.
I know there's a nice market, and it's a little bit more expensive, but it's all fresh. I also know when the supermarket next to our house is on sale, because every time I hand out a flyer, I take a closer look.
I just like to take advantage of a little bit of money, I go to the bank to deposit money, and as soon as I come up, I ask people if they give rice and oil, so that I forget to ask how much interest is.
In fact, I also know that some parents are not easy, and they are very suffocated. I feel that I have not stretched my talents and strategies in my life, and I have not achieved class leaps. But whether you are Qu Yuan, who is drunk and sobered up by everyone, or Du Fu, who has thousands of mansions in his mind. But in the education of children, you can't always recite the mourning scriptures. We can't raise children in the cellar, you are not sunny, how can the child's future be bright?
I object to many parents who daily portray society as a dark mess and themselves as victims. As for all relatives and friends, they are complicit. It seems that our family is like being locked up by a pot these days, and finally threw a sentence to the child: "When will our family be able to turn over?"
Then draw a lot of flatbread for the child for no reason. For example, playing the piano and learning ballet, becoming elegant and beautiful and marrying into a wealthy family, and being good at singing and dancing can find the rich second generation.
For example, take the child to visit a luxury shopping mall, and then go to great lengths to buy her a small purse for a fragrant grandmother, I don't mean that this practice is wrong, I mean that this practice is not conducive to making the child fall in love with his future life.
Under this kind of influence, children think every day that they want to break the circle, that is, to take a rocket, to break free from this cramped reality, the starry sky is only a high pyramid in the eyes of children, and all good things are placed at the top of the tower, and they can get it if they want to climb up. But at the same time, she turned a blind eye to the bright stars in the sky...
But the question is, if you don't have the ability to climb up, and you don't have the courage to not be afraid of falling to death, then you can only look at the spire and sigh?
In life, we should be on par with comrades with low standards, and in work, we should be on par with comrades with high standards. An old man used these words to educate his son, who said to him, "Cut!"
But now?
The son's annual salary is 300,000 yuan, and the daughter-in-law's annual salary is 200,000 yuan. The child did not dare to give birth, and he did not dare to rest during the holidays. Why? Where is the 150-square-meter house placed? Where is the repayment of 20,000 yuan a month waiting? A young couple is overwhelmed by a pile of reinforced concrete, and now the house price is swishing down, hey.
The days of their family were instantly dark, as if the fuse of life had been broken.
In fact, a good set of 60 square meters of old and dilapidated small, why can't I live in it? I lived in the old dilapidated school, and at that time my house was decorated, and it was full of flavor. I went on the road and lived in a rented house for a year. As soon as I got out of the building, a few aunts who sat outside the door of the building all the year round took me when they saw me. As soon as I got home, my aunt said, "I'm back, and as soon as I go out, my aunt says, let's go!" These aunts sit at the door of the first floor 365 days a year, which is equivalent to an activity whistle!
Why is this low-level? How is this unqualified? A friend of mine frowned when he came to my house. That means that you are expensive and cheap. I really don't feel how uncomfortable it is to live here.
I know a little girl who is now in Shanghai. The girl is strangely beautiful, belongs to the kind of person she walked into the restaurant, half an hour later, at least thirty percent of the men in the restaurant noticed her, the little girl is the kind of bright beauty, but such a beautiful and cute Barbie, now she is mixed with Uncle Kuo. Two days ago, I let my uncle scold him, and the reason was because of the inadequate service.
I heard that the past two days have been good again, but my godfather somehow looked at her again, and took her to Sanya before the end of the year.
The godfather is going to have a meeting there, and the little girl is playing in the hotel next to her, and she is crazy about the circle of friends. Look at what kind of hotel with private pool, this pool belongs to our room, and this room is in a detached villa, and this villa ......
The girl tirelessly talked about her luxurious life, enjoyed it on the clouds, and happily displayed it in the circle of friends, and finally said: "I finally know what it means to be a master." ”
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Who is a master, as soon as it gets dark, people will press it down!
Let's not talk about this, it's boring to talk about this!
There is a reason for many young people to worship money, and there is also a reason for many young people to lie flat, that is, there is a deep sense of powerlessness, and no matter how hard I try, I can't change my class! So I just lie down! But aunt, I want to say, you have neither the ability to climb the Tower of Babel, nor do you want to risk being crushed when you climb the tower.
Then let's live and be content, stay in the middle of the tower, find some happiness in your tower, and live your little life. If you can't figure this out. Then this life will be over, and I will live a very screwed life for the rest of my life. It's pitch black in front of you, and the bottom of the pot is on all sides!
That's it, Auntie, I need to go to the commissary quickly, it's time for yogurt discounts again......
Finally, I'll tell you a secret, after years of painstaking research, I found that this world is a huge grass platform team, everyone is all role-playing cosplay, and I live in it to play soy sauce, as long as I have a calm mind and two feet on the ground, I can still have a colorful and enthusiastic life.
We are like ants, sitting on the stars!
