"Your husband slept with me last night!" When I received the provocative message from Xiao San, I was accompanying my mother-in-law shopping for clothes, and I took out my mobile phone and glanced at it, I was very calm and continued to chat and go shopping with my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law has always lived in the countryside and is reluctant to move in with us, saying that "it smells far and smells", and she just needs to come to see her grandchildren once in a while. I knew she just didn't want to add to our burden, and when the children were born, she rushed over to take care of the children as soon as possible, and took care of them until both children went to kindergarten, and she packed her bags and went back to the countryside.
When I got home with my mother-in-law and bought new clothes, I took out my mobile phone and sent a message back to the provocative person, "Don't bother, why bother with me if you can talk about his divorce!"
In a trance, I remembered that this was not the first time I had dealt with such a bad thing, and of course, she was not the first, and I had already gone from the first time to tears to today's indifference.
In the evening, because his mother-in-law came, he also came home rarely. After taking a look, he seemed to have something to say, but maybe he knew that the time was wrong, so he opened his mouth, and just asked, "Why didn't you tell me in advance when Mom came?" I sneered, isn't this a rake, something that was decided a month ago, and I forgot that it could still be so reasonable?
Ignoring him, I walked straight to the table with the food, probably knowing that I was not talking about it correctly, he touched his nose in embarrassment, and turned his head to call my mother and children to eat.
After dinner and cleaning up, I went back to my room to get ready to take a shower, and when I came back, he followed, and I looked up at him, "Did she disturb you?" he said. Although we didn't name names, we both knew it, "Not in the future!" I knew what he meant, and it was a little ignorant to make trouble, and it was time to change.
"Take care of your flowers and plants, change them if you are really ignorant, don't make trouble at home, don't expect me to wipe your ass. I said casually, pulled up my hair, and walked to the bathroom, "You go and talk to your mother, you don't have to worry about the children, your mother is rare to come once, you have to do a little filial piety in your mouth." With that, I slammed the bathroom door shut.
When I finished taking a shower and cleaned up, he had already checked the children's homework, and was sitting on the sofa chatting with my mother-in-law.
As soon as I sat down, my mother-in-law took my hand and said, "After so many years, I have really worked hard for you, my daughter, Qi'er and the children have been taken care of by you so well, if Qi'er bullies you, you just tell me, I will teach him a lesson for you." "Actually, sometimes I really think my mother-in-law knows something, because sometimes she always seems to look at me with apologies and guilt.
"No, Mom, don't say that, I'm fine. I said to my mother-in-law with a smile. "Yes, Mom, we're all right!" he chimed in.
"It's good, it's good, I'm relieved if you two are good!"
At night, lying in bed and looking at the sleeping man next to me, I was a little at a loss, when did we start our marriage in vain?
He and I were classmates, but it wasn't a campus relationship, it was after our respective jobs that our classmates got together. At that time, not long after I fell out of love, he didn't know where to get the news, and he started calling me every day, and always sent me boxes of food.
At first, I refused, and not being in a city made me not consider him at all. I don't know how he got in touch with my good friend and classmate, and asked her to match him, telling me that he had a good impression of me since he was a student, but he didn't dare to speak, and finally lost the opportunity.
With the blessing of a good friend and his sincerity, we were together half a year later.
He came to the door to propose marriage during the Chinese New Year, and was drunk by my brothers, but he still showed their loyalty. At first, the family did not agree with the two of us, his family conditions were too poor, only his mother pulled him to grow up, and there were two old people in the family, which had already cost her all her strength, so the family could be regarded as a family with four walls. And I am the little princess of the family, and I don't have to make me suffer for money and rice if I find the right person.
But I don't think he's unmotivated, and the temporary shallows aren't terrible, and I can accompany him along. Under my persuasion and his sincere attitude, the family reluctantly agreed to this family business.
The next year, we entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
After we got married, we found a job in the city on this side of our home, with enough wages to spend, and our lives were very happy. It didn't take long for me to get pregnant, he stopped me from going to work, I was at home to raise the baby with peace of mind, and my mother-in-law came from the countryside to take care of me.
After having a baby, the expenses became larger, and we decided to start our own business. But starting a business needs capital, where does the money come from?
His house must be gone, so I can only go back to my mother and borrow money with a shy face. The parents took out the deposit without saying a word, and after getting the money, he cried and said that he would never let you be embarrassed about money again in this life.
And he did. Although it is not as rich as others, it can be regarded as a little rich. I accompanied him all the way, and all the hardships and sins I endured were rewarded.
But gradually, I noticed that he had changed, and although he was still considerate to me, I could still feel the difference.
The facts quickly came to me, and I received intimate photos of him with a young girl. When I saw the photo, I felt cold in my hands and feet, and my mind was chaotic, but I was unexpectedly calm. When he came back from work, I didn't make any noise, I just put the picture in front of him.
He didn't quibble, he didn't even show much flustered, he just admitted and apologized to me. I was amazed at his change, nearly ten years of training in the mall made him no longer the hairy boy who put everything on his face before, he begged me not to divorce, these are just pastimes, will not affect the family, the finances are still in my hands, there will be no change, for me, for the sake of the children and for his mother, don't divorce.
Surprised by his thoughts and shamelessness, I went back to my room in a rage, and for the next few days, I let myself go into hiding. Thinking hard about what I'm going to do next.
Thinking about his promise back then, his love is like a dream, it is an eternal truth that a man will become bad if he is really rich, I don't want to endure this kind of marriage with a third person forever, but when I walked out of the room and watched him take care of the children and my diet and daily life in the past few days, it was like we were still living in a rental house, I was really uncomfortable, but I knew it was different, and I couldn't go back.
By the time he had sent the kids back, I had adjusted my mood, "How's it going?" he replied cautiously, more nervous than when I caught him cheating, and I only thought it was ridiculous.
"What if I have to get a divorce?" I asked him.
"I won't agree, I love you, I love this family, and I'm willing to do my best to redeem it. He replied, "But you won't, and when you ask that question I know you're not going to divorce me." ”
"Do you love me?" I said angrily. He choked and didn't speak.
Yes, I'm not going to get divorced, and for the sake of the children, I have to hold on to this ridiculous marriage, and he's just sorry for me.
After that, it seems that because the words have already been spoken, he will make a series of substitutions, and occasionally make trouble in front of me, but as long as this is the case, then basically this person is not far from being kicked away.
As for the children, he is still a good father, always taking time to play with them and even travel, and will also tell them that it is not easy for me to understand. For my parents, he is a good son-in-law, and the festival etiquette is thorough, and he can find someone when there is something. To me, he is an existence that cannot be thrown or touched.
When I came back to my senses and looked at him lying next to me, my stomach was filled with nausea, and I couldn't sleep, so I simply got up and prepared to go to the living room to watch TV.
As soon as I turned over, I heard his voice, "Does sleeping in the same bed with me make you so uncomfortable?" Listening to the sound of him sitting up, I paused, and didn't answer his words.
"Alas" I heard him sigh and said softly, "It's better for me to go out, it just so happens that the company has something to do in the past two days, and I have to go on a business trip for two days, so you can talk to your mother tomorrow." With that, he got up and left the room.
Listening to him open the door and close it softly, I turned around, thinking about what he had said, and my heart was mixed.
After a while, I got up and changed the sheets and covers, and lay down again, probably tired, and fell asleep after a while.
The next morning, when I got up, my mother-in-law had already made breakfast, and she said that the children had already eaten breakfast and gone to school, so I didn't need to rush to eat slowly.
While our mother was having breakfast, I told her about his business trip, and my mother-in-law looked up at me after hearing this, and it was the kind of distressed and guilty eyes, and after a while she said, "It's hard for you, girl, Qi'er can't stand you, and my mother can't help you." After speaking, his eyes were red.
Seeing this, I hurriedly comforted, "No, no, we are fine now, don't think nonsense, as long as you are healthy, it will be the greatest help to me." ”
Under my repeated assurances, my mother-in-law finally had a little smile.
A week later, my mother-in-law insisted on going back to the countryside, she remembered her chickens, ducks and ducks, and said that she would wait for the New Year to kill and eat for us, no one cared about it, and after breakfast, she began to pack her luggage urgently, and I wanted to drive her back, she disagreed, saying that it was more convenient for her to take the car, and I couldn't resist her, so I had to send her to the station and take the bus.
As soon as I got home after sending my mother-in-law away, I received a call from a friend telling me who he was separated from, and I smiled and said that it might be tired. My friend said, I didn't know if he had just taken it away! Hearing a little bit of inquiry, I sneered, who knows!
yes, who knows, I'll just take care of me and the kids!
