#Record my life# I saw a netizen micro headline today, and he said that he was very embarrassed. said that he thought it was a happy thing to have a child, but now it only makes him feel irritable, why is this?
It turns out that when the daughter-in-law wants to give birth to a baby, it is painless to beat and alleviate the pain. If you can't have a smooth birth, you will have a caesarean section, but the mother-in-law thinks that it is not good for the child to beat painlessly, and she doesn't want her daughter-in-law to beat. I think that women should have a natural birth, and a natural birth is better for the child.
The man persuaded him both ways, and he was exhausted in the back. Neither the mother-in-law nor the daughter-in-law regressed. Now that the day of production is getting closer and closer, the man is getting more and more anxious, which is why he can't help but complain in the headlines.
In the end, the man said that he decided to talk to them and find a plan that everyone was satisfied with.
In fact, isn't it okay for someone to call the shots in their stomach? Just like this netizen said, how can it be your mother's turn to call the shots when your daughter-in-law gives birth? It is risky for a woman to give birth to a child, and the reason why your mother does not let her beat it painless is because she does not have to experience the pain of opening her fingers, so when you touch the upper and lower skins, it will be over.
As a man, you have to be clear and don't blindly favor your mother.
This netizen's statement is also very pertinent, and I personally agree with it, as long as it is not a matter of principle, you have to listen to your daughter-in-law. And after the son gets married, the mother should quit the son's small family, don't point fingers at the son's house, and let her children be in a dilemma!
and the personal experience of this netizen, it is really easy for people to empathize. Think about how much it hurts, it hurts so much that people can't stand on their feet and can't hold on, and it's easy to hit painlessly. And people also said that playing painless will not affect the child's IQ,
Other people's children are lively, smart and cute, so those who say that painless hitting affects the child's IQ really don't worry so much! Painless is just a way to help the mother relieve the pain, and the impact on the baby can be said to be minimal.
There are also netizens who are simply sober in the world, they said that the mother-in-law can provide reference opinions, but she can't make decisions for her daughter-in-law. There is also the right to speak as a son, otherwise there will be more conflicts in the small family in the future, if the mother-in-law has the final say, there will be more chickens and dogs in the small family, and even gunsmoke will be everywhere.
Some netizens also said the worst plan, but the confinement will hold a grudge for a lifetime. It is not easy for a woman to have a child, and if she wants to be harmonious with her husband and wife, she must firmly stand on the same front with her wife.
Some friends are more sensible and recommend listening to the doctor, what the doctor calls and does.
Some netizens once again said that playing painless really won't affect the child, and it's normal to have a caesarean section if you can't go well, if your daughter-in-law can't think about it because of giving birth, will you be happy to be a husband at that time?
Personal experience, I gave birth to a baby in 21 years, and when the doctor conducted an internal examination, the fetus was assessed to be more than 6 pounds and could be delivered naturally. Then I was waiting for delivery, the opening of the uterus was very slow, and the hospital environment was a little noisy.
The doctor asked me to sit on a yoga ball, walk more, and speed up the opening of the fingers of the uterine opening, but as a result, I couldn't stand the pain when I opened my fingers. Maybe I'm in low pain, but it's already hurting to the point of grinning.
I asked if I could play painlessly, the doctor said that at least 2 and a half to 3 fingers to play again, the effect of the drug disappeared quickly when it was early, no way, more than 10 o'clock in the evening or 11 o'clock, my husband accompanied the corridor to walk, walk, and sit on the yoga ball.
Later, I walked 3/4 steps in pain, I couldn't walk, it hurt too much, my husband could only help me smooth my back, and I continued, in addition to my husband and I in the corridor, there was a younger couple, who were also walking, I don't know how long, I really couldn't walk,
My forehead hurt so much that I kept sweating, my expression may be very distorted, a doctor saw it, and told me to lie down in the room, and look at it internally, and it was opened to 2 and a half fingers, I said no wonder it hurts so much, it hurt so much that I really wanted to knock myself out with a stick,
It's really painful, I can feel it all the time, I can't sit, I can't stand, I can't eat.
The doctor said that it is painless or not, and if you do, some people will feel less pain, but painless is a bit expensive, do you want to discuss it with your husband? I immediately told my husband, and my husband said let's fight, I can't help you when I see you in pain, so let's fight.
It's really amazing, after the fight, I felt cold in my back at first, and I felt no pain for a while, and I even felt that it was okay to run, let alone walking. Later, the doctor told me not to go, to go to bed quickly, and I might be able to give birth the next day.
It's really not an exaggeration, after hitting painless, I really feel a lot easier, the doctor in the morning internal examination, found that opened 4 and a half fingers, she said that it may be expected to be born at 11/12 o'clock, but unfortunately, after the internal examination, the doctor said that my body temperature was too high, maybe I had a fever, and then I did have a fever,
Later, when I asked my husband and I how long we had a fever, we didn't know. I was so irritable from the pain that I didn't realize I had a fever. And my husband is even more, taking care of me to eat and drink every day, and rushing back to work, at that time, it was almost the college entrance examination, and he was at his busiest.
Friends, I am not boasting about anything, but I think that modern medicine has progressed, and painlessness is really the light of maternity. In the past, when you had a child, there was no painless treatment, but now that you have it, what if you let people get an injection? There may be old people who are distressed about money and feel that a needle is painless and worth thousands of yuan, but they think it is not cost-effective.
It may also be said that what woman does not have pain and does not have to suffer when she gives birth to a child, but since there is something that can make her daughter-in-law suffer less, why not support it?
Why can't you support it, a woman may lose her life if she doesn't give birth to a child, it's just that it's painless, and it doesn't make you bankrupt, what's there to worry about. There are also caesarean sections, even if some women have opened the uterine opening, they may be due to improper fetal position, or other factors, and the doctor recommends caesarean section, you should also listen.
Cesarean section is the fastest way to directly reduce fetal hypoxia for the child, if you insist on natural delivery, causing intrauterine fetal asphyxia or other irreversible damage, is the mother-in-law or as the husband bear the consequences?
As a wife, she must love her children, but first of all, she is a person, a lively and healthy person, so that she can become a mother, otherwise everything else is zero. Don't save that painless money if you marry a wife and have a child, I hope my wife gives birth happily,
Don't worry about whether to listen to your mother's words, your daughter-in-law's pain of opening her fingers, can your mother do it for her? Or can you do it for her? When you experience danger, can you, as a husband, help? Don't let your wife complain about you, don't let your wife chill, respect your wife's willingness to give birth, what do you think?