A woman's life is a very extraordinary life;
We are often defined as "weak" by the world's eyes, but we must survive and work hard in the way of the strong, and sometimes we have to be well-behaved and sensible;
A sober woman knows that no one will be a haven for our lives, and in this world, there is no love for no reason;
When we face darkness, don't expect cheap funding;
We must rely on ourselves to get out of trouble and reap happiness;
Those really smart women live a very transparent life, and they often have three don'ts in their lives, the more they don't want it, the better their lives.
Don't pin your happiness on others, and know how to find happiness for yourself
Someone once said that if you can't live well when you're alone, then if you marry someone, you'll only have a bad life;
I think so;
The impetuous environment and complex human heart have made modern people gradually lose the ability to be truly happy;
Then, they can only find happiness in others, and try to make others bring happiness to themselves;
Li Zongsheng's ex-wife, Zhu Weiyin, used to be very dependent on him, as long as Li Zongsheng did not accompany her, she would be unhappy;
After the two divorced, the host interviewed Li Zongsheng once and asked him if he could accept a woman much younger than him as his wife?
Lee's answer was that he probably couldn't, because he shouldn't be able to give happiness to the other person, and said that a person should not pin his happiness on others, but should find happiness himself;
The same is true for many women in life, hoping that their partners can accompany them from time to time, WeChat does not reply in seconds, and the phone is not answered in time, they have to lose their temper, and they will suffer from gains and losses;
In fact, if you pin your hopes on others, you will only be hurt more deeply;
Only when you have the ability to be happy can you infect others, so as to change your own circumstances and improve your love and interpersonal relationships.
Don't give everything for love, know how to love yourself
Writer Bi Shumin said:
One day you will understand that a woman's self-esteem and self-love are more important than how much dowry a woman has and how talented a woman is.
A woman's attitude towards feelings often determines the quality of life in the second half of her life;
Smart women have a strong heart and a cool head, they will truly love a man, and they will love themselves well in this relationship;
For the sake of men, they can wash their hands and make soup, but they will not blindly compromise;
They will strive to change their shortcomings, but they will not give up on improving their self-worth;
When men show dislike for themselves or even betray themselves, they will not be entangled and not let go, but will break up freely;
If you marry a man who lacks a sense of responsibility and empathy, you will have to bear the pain of a lifetime;
know how to withdraw from the relationship, self-esteem and self-love, in order to truly hold your fate in your own hands;
You don't have to be honest and afraid of a man's injury, this is a woman's greatest confidence.
Don't give up on yourself, know how to manage yourself
A woman's excellence should be defined by herself, and she does not need to listen to others' wanton evaluation.
Even if men belittle and suppress women, women should not lose confidence and courage;
In the eyes of those who don't love us, we are worthless, but that's not the truth;
As long as we don't listen to the gossip of the outside world and don't despise ourselves because of the negation of others, we can walk out of an open road of our own;
When a woman learns not to give up on herself, knows how to manage herself, and the excitement of life is completely written by herself;
The premise of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is that women can take the initiative to improve themselves, work hard, and invest in themselves.
Let yourself live a dashing and decent life.
A smart woman does not blindly hope for others, nor does she naively dream of herself and enjoy the pursuit of those around her;
They will create their own happiness, know how to love and manage themselves in a long life, and become a beacon to watch over themselves, illuminating the road ahead.
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