"Mom, you have worked hard for me to take care of the child, and the New Year is coming soon, this is 5,000 yuan, you take it, buy something you need." ”
"I don't lack anything, you take the money back, you work so hard every day, it's not easy to earn money, I have a retirement salary, enough to spend. ”
The person who talked to me was my daughter, and today she gave me 5,000 yuan after work and asked me to take it, why did she give me the money? Because I was helping her take care of the child.
"Mom, you must take it, you help me take care of the child every day, this is what I should give you. ”
Thirty years ago, I came from the countryside to the city to look for a job, and I was introduced to a kindergarten to work as a childcaresman, and this work has been my life.
When I was working in the kindergarten, the principal saw that I was very diligent, I also liked children, and I was a reliable little girl, so she introduced the son of her relatives to me.
He was two years older than me, worked as an overseer on a construction site, was handsome and caring, and the first time we met, we had a secret affection for each other, and we soon came together.
When we got married, I was twenty-two years old and he was twenty-four, and his family was still urging us to have a child.
But at that time, the two of us didn't particularly want to, thinking that when the two of us saved a little money and lived a little better, we would think about having children again.
We lived as a couple for two years, and when I was twenty-four years old, one day, he cooked me a meal, and as soon as it was served, I felt nauseous, and quickly covered my mouth and ran into the bathroom.
He followed me into the bathroom, patted me on the back and asked, "What's the matter?"
"I don't know, I want to vomit anyway. I replied as I stroked my chest.
"Why don't I take you to the hospital for a check-up?"
"No, you can go to work first, I guess it will be fine in a while. I said as I waved him to hurry to work.
After he left, I packed up and went to work in kindergarten.
At noon, when the kindergarten cooked and asked me to cook for the children, I felt nauseous again, and then a colleague saw it and hurriedly came to my side, stroking my back and saying, "What's the matter?
"I don't know, I've been like this for the past few days, and I want to vomit when I smell the food. ”
My colleague stared at me with wide eyes, "You're not going to have it, are you?"
"What's there?" I hadn't reacted yet.
"Are you pregnant?" my colleague hurriedly asked me to go to the hospital for a check-up, don't be careless.
I asked for leave from the kindergarten, called my husband and asked him to accompany me to the hospital, and when my husband heard me say this, he quickly asked for leave from the construction site and came to the kindergarten to pick me up.
I watched him sweating profusely running towards the kindergarten, and when he ran to me, he gasped, "How are you doing?" ”
"Oh, don't worry, I'm not sure what's going on, let's go to the hospital and have a look. ”
He took me on a motorbike and headed for the hospital.
The doctor asked me a bunch of questions, "What else do you have besides wanting to throw up?" and "Did you get your monthly letter this month?......
Finally, the doctor said, "I think I'm pregnant." ”
When my husband heard the doctor say this, he couldn't stop smiling, "Really?
The doctor looked at my husband and said, "Then I must do a test to confirm it." ”
I was taken for a check-up by the doctor, and my husband was excited to walk around outside like a headless fly.
After the check-up, I was indeed pregnant.
This can make my husband and parents-in-law excited, let me raise the baby at home with peace of mind, don't go to kindergarten to work, I don't think anything, I feel that there is no impact in the early days, so I want to go back to work.
But it was strongly opposed by the family, "There are so many children in the kindergarten, in case they run into you, it's not good, you should be at home with peace of mind, and after giving birth to the child, you will go back." ”
In this way, I raised the baby at home for a year and gave birth to a daughter.
The whole family loved this daughter, and my mother-in-law took care of her with me until she was two years old, and I took her to the kindergarten where I worked, and the kindergarten teachers knew her, so they took good care of her.
My daughter is also very obedient, and she doesn't have to worry about me since she was a child.
My grades in primary school and junior high school have always been very good, and my husband and I have always responded to this daughter, and we have never had a disagreement with her because of anything.
In high school, my daughter began to live on campus, and only came back on weekends, and every time she came back to communicate with us very little, she came back to us and said, "Mom and Dad, I want to go to a big city in college, and I am also very confident, I want to discuss it with you." ”
"My dad and I support you, you can go to any school you want, and if you really need us to accompany you to other cities, we can do it." When I said this, my husband nodded again and again.
Just this one daughter, we will go wherever she is, and we will go to be parents, aren't they all like this?
My daughter is a very calm person, what she decides, she will definitely do, and she was successfully admitted to Shenzhen.
After sending her to university, she adapted quickly, so she didn't let us go to Shenzhen with her.
"You said that our daughter, after graduating from college, will she not come back in Shenzhen?" my husband often asks me this sentence, I understand his feelings, after all, my daughter is my father's little padded jacket, and he must want his daughter to stay by his side.
"Gee, no matter where she is, as long as she's happy, it's all that matters. "Although I told my husband this, in fact, I also hoped that she would come back to us.
Time flies, and after her daughter graduated from college, she was left behind by a company in Shenzhen with a high salary.
I also bought a house with my college boyfriend in Shenzhen and got married.
Not only two years ago when I retired, she gave birth to a child and called me: "Mom, can you come to Shenzhen to help me bring Xiaobao, we are very busy at work, and we can't spare time to take care of the child." ”
"Okay, I'll clean up and go over in the next few days. "After hanging up the phone, I actually didn't want to go, I just retired, and I haven't had a good rest, so I'm going to help her take care of the child again.
My husband saw my reluctance, so he proposed to spend money to help them find a nanny, so that I don't have to be so tired, I have been doing childcare all my life, I have brought too many children, and now I am older, and my health is indeed not as good as before.
But the nanny is an outsider in the end, and it is inevitable that she is a little uneasy, so I said to my husband: "I'll go and show my daughter for a few days first, my daughter will not talk to us easily, and it will definitely be inappropriate if we don't go." ”
"Then you can go, it's really not good, just find a nanny, now the child is not easy to bring, your body is not very good, don't do it in the end. My husband said to me while helping me pack my luggage.
Dropped me off at the train station, my husband left, and I went to Shenzhen alone.
After arriving in Shenzhen, my daughter and son-in-law drove me home.
When I got home, I quickly washed my hands, picked up the rag, and started working, thinking about tidying up the house first.
"Mom, you've been in the car for so long, hurry up and rest, don't work as soon as you come. My daughter snatched the rag from my hand and pulled me to sit on the couch.
"Oh, I'll clean up for you first, since I'm here, you two can go to work with peace of mind, and you don't have to worry about it at home. I said to my daughter.
"Mom, I asked you to come, it's to watch the children, you don't have to worry about the hygiene of the house, I will ask the cleaner to clean it regularly when the time comes. ”
I know that they are usually busy at work, but they really don't have much time to tidy up the housework, especially in big cities, where life is fast-paced, so when I heard my daughter say this, I didn't insist, thinking that I could just take care of my children for them.
After a few days here, I was only responsible for taking care of the children.
But I don't know if it's because I'm older, or I haven't taken such a young child for a long time, I always feel back pain, and sometimes I can't stand up in pain, but I didn't tell my daughter, after all, I just came, and I don't feel good to say it.
On this day, my husband called and asked me how I was doing here, and I couldn't help but say to him: "I've had a terrible back pain these days, but I just came, and I'm embarrassed to talk to my daughter about it." ”
My husband was also very worried when he heard this, so he proposed to spend money to hire a nanny for the family, and let me continue to help my daughter take care of the children here, but let the nanny bring more, and I bring less.
Hearing my husband's suggestion, I decided to discuss with my daughter, after all, the family invited someone, or at my daughter's house, and she still had to agree.
"Girl, Mom wants to discuss something with you, you see that children now have that kind of professional nursery, Mom is not a professional after all, I discussed with your father, use our money to hire a professional nursery teacher for the child. ”
"Mom, are you going back?" my daughter asked me in surprise.
"No, no, no, I'm still here to help you bring it, after all, there are many strangers in the family, you must be worried, but with me and the nursery, the child will definitely be able to bring it better." ”
Hearing me say this, my daughter doesn't have any opinion.
The next day, I invited a nursery teacher to come, and when she came, I obviously felt much more relaxed, I didn't need to cook, and I didn't need to hold the child, and they were professional in the end, and they arranged the child's affairs properly every day.
On this day, the nursery teacher was going to go to the bathroom, so I took the child from her hand, held it in my arms and coaxed it, but my daughter just came back from work.
"Mom, there is a nursery, why are you still holding it? You should rest, don't be too tired. ”
Hearing my daughter say this, I blurted out: "It's okay, Mom is not tired, just hug and coax." ”
After the nursery teacher came out of the bathroom, he took the child from my hand, and I hugged it for a while, and I happened to be seen by my daughter, who felt very sorry for me.
From this day on, I took advantage of my daughter's close to work, took the child from the nursery, and hugged it for a while.
In fact, I am not doing superficial work by doing this, what I hope is that my daughter can balance her heart after seeing it, after all, I came here to watch the child, and she can't see me doing nothing every time she gets off work, right?
This story is purely fictional, if there is any similarity is purely coincidental, please do not sit in the opposite seat.