#记录我的生活#
Most of us post-60s are self-made, but we have taken on the burden of supporting the elderly and raising children. It is the saddest generation that survives in the cracks.
We are a generation that sings the song of "born under the red flag and grew up in New China" and proudly grew up in difficult years.
We are a self-reliant, hard-working, hard-working generation.
A person's biography, a generation's memory. My experience should be the imprint of a generation.
After graduating from the middle school in '84, I hurriedly went to a remote mountain village to teach with my mother and the luggage I had prepared, and since then I have been self-reliant and independent since then, when I was only 18 years old.
Living in a simple mud house in the school, with a salary of twenty or thirty yuan a month, he saves money and sends ten yuan and eight yuan home to be filial to his parents, because he knows that his parents are more miserable and bitter than himself.
When I was twenty-five years old, I walked into the marriage hall, my parents were very happy, and we bought a set of quilt covers with the newlywed Yan'er, and we were very grateful, and vowed to be filial to our parents. The father-in-law and mother-in-law's family is even poorer, and there is only one blessing to live well.
There was no wedding, so we bought a few catties of candy and told our colleagues and friends. began our sweet and impoverished married life.
The birth of a son has brought great joy and great difficulties to our family.
After the confinement and maternity leave, the wife returned to work. Parents and parents-in-law can't take care of our children, they are still running for their own livelihoods, and besides, they are all families with many sons and daughters, who can they help?
It was a miserable time, and I even carried my son to class behind my back. We had no choice but to cut back on food and clothing, take out ten yuan, and ask the old woman nearby to help and watch the children during the day.
In 2004, we finally had our own home, which was a 120-square-meter school fund-raising house, without property rights, we tried our best to borrow money everywhere, so as to raise enough funds to move into a new house, which was full of happiness and hope.
Finally paid off the debt, and the parents on both sides are getting older. We have to take on the responsibility of honoring our parents. A certain amount of alimony is given to both parents every month, which is shared equally among the children. There is no room for ambiguity.
Let's boil it slowly. My son grew up, graduated from college, my son was angry, I was admitted to the bank, my wife happily took out her savings to buy a scooter for my son more than 100,000 yuan, I was indignant, I took the driver's license before my son, and I have been taking the bus to work, eh, what's the matter?
When our son is in love, we have to give a meeting gift, and when our son gets married, we have to buy a wedding house, we have to give a little bonus to our in-laws, and we have to have a grand wedding.
Do your best, it's finally easy. Wrong, wrong, wrong.
sadly sent off both parents, did their filial piety for them, and sent them to their death.
Exhausted, we find that we are no longer in our prime, and our hair is full of luxury.
Finally retired, but a new job, taking grandchildren with him every day. We try our best to prepare delicious meals for our sons, daughters-in-law and grandchildren every day, and as soon as our sons are gone, we clean up the mess like nannies, cook and wash dishes, and eat leftovers.
I often think that we are the sad post-60s, when we are young, adults are the most important, and when we are old, children are the most important.
We are the last generation to honor our parents, and the first generation to be rejected by our children.
In the future, we will have to rely on ourselves to care for the elderly and go to the hospital alone.
Sadly, post-60s, I have lived for my relatives all my life, and I have never lived for myself.
