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I don't know when it started, the taste of the New Year became weaker and weaker, and many children didn't seem to have much expectation for the Spring Festival.
The times are different, take our generation as an example, when I was a child, food and clothing were relatively scarce, only during the Chinese New Year would there be new clothes to wear, and many delicious foods could only be eaten during the New Year.
What I remember very well is that I got my first box of watercolor pens when I was in kindergarten. As for toys, they are even more scarce.
Also, there was no TV at home before I went to kindergarten. Nowadays, TVs, tablets, computers, and even phones and watches are all kinds of technology products flooding children's lives.
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The 80.90 generation is generally really the year after Laba. Laba porridge and Laba garlic at Laba time are not to be missed.
After Laba, every household began to be busy, it is really like the nursery rhyme sings, sweeping the house on the 24th day of the lunar month, and the house will start all kinds of cleaning to welcome the new year. Every room must be cleaned inside and out.
Then I began to catch up with the big market, buy all kinds of New Year's goods, buy meat, buy chicken, steamed steamed buns and so on.
On the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the Spring Festival Union began to be pasted, and at that time, the Spring Festival Union still needed to be boiled, and after boiling, someone was responsible for brushing, someone was responsible for holding the ladder, and someone was responsible for pasting, and the family cooperated with it.
Then start eating reunion dinner and setting off firecrackers.
On the first day of the new year, the children can't wait to put on new clothes, and may go to relatives and friends' houses for the New Year.
Today's children, new clothes and new toys can be available at any time, fireworks are prohibited in many cities, New Year's ceremonies are becoming less and less, and the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker.
Children don't have the expectations and hopes of our generation, and it feels like a holiday festival, which may be no different from other festivals.
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Someone once said, "What kind of ritual you give your child, what kind of values he will get from it." “
In "The Little Prince", it is said that the sense of ritual is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments.
The greatest value of the sense of ritual is that children are full of anticipation for their future life, children love unexpected surprises, and they will remember every special moment.
Moreover, the sense of ritual does not come from how much money it costs or how many expensive things it buys, but from the fact that parents want to make a certain period of time have special meaning.
How important is a sense of ritual for children?
Children who grow up in loving and ritualistic families are more confident, courageous, and happier.
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So how to let children have a festival full of New Year's flavor through some small things with a sense of ceremony?
Remember to do these things together to let your child have a fun and flavorful New Year.
1. Clean up as a family
Now that I live in a building, my children can tidy up their own rooms, decorate their own rooms, and tidy up their own rooms.
In this process, children can be taught the ability to organize and store, so that children can understand the meaning of life and have the ability to be independent.
2. Buy New Year's goods together as a family
Make a list of New Year's goods, such as gifts for relatives or gifts for family members.
At the same time, you can also give your child a part of the funds, so that your child can buy some New Year's decorations that he likes, and have the right to decorate his own room and add some New Year's flavor to his home. For example, small lanterns, window grilles, ceremonial flowers and New Year's ornaments.
Even if it is a child, she can participate in the purchase of New Year's goods, and the child will feel very happy, because it means that she is a member of the family, her parents love her and trust her, and the child can feel respect and trust.
3. Prepare a New Year's gift for your child
In addition to the New Year's red clothes or children's favorite toys, you can also choose children's favorite books, especially picture books, or New Year-related picture books, in the process of parent-child reading, children understand the meaning of traditional festivals, know what is the New Year, why there are these customs during the New Year.
For example, this set of books "Zodiac" is very good.
In fact, there are a lot of books on zodiac stories, and this set of books is especially recommended.
The paper-cutting style of this set of books is very good, and many children can learn about our paper-cutting art through the story of the zodiac, and the picture is very beautiful.
Moreover, the story of this set of books is original, and the author has won the Bingxin Literature Award, and the quality is guaranteed.
In addition, there will be many short stories, and each book will have a corresponding folklore knowledge explanation, including historical records, related poems, etc., which is very rich in content.
In addition to the zodiac stories, our traditional festivals cannot be missed.
A lot of pop-up books are doing very well now, especially holiday pop-up books.
A book makes children interested in festivals and traditional culture through three-dimensional and flip-through style.
This set of books is 3D stereoscopic and shows our traditional festivals in a three-dimensional way.
No child doesn't like to read, it's just that we don't choose the right book.
The children like this book very much, especially after the three-dimensional scene comes out, the excitement of the children is beyond words, and it is really a visual enjoyment.
In addition to the Spring Festival, there are a number of other traditional festivals, including the Lantern Festival.
This book is designed for a lot of small and careful reasons, and it is really very careful, and every step is so that children can have a better experience.
Here in the Qingming Festival, the picture is very exquisite, in addition to the customs and the ancient poems of the Qingming Festival, there are also the origin of the festival and so on.
Very informative.
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The books received on this special festival will make children feel the love of their parents and understand the traditional meaning of the Spring Festival for the Chinese.
4. Make a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together as a family
The whole family can do it together, children can wash vegetables, peel garlic, etc., do some small things that can be done, so that children can feel the temperature of home in the fireworks of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
5. Take a family photo
Family portraits can record the changes and growth of each year, and leave some good memories.
When the child grows up, seeing the family photo of each year is really the meaning of the New Year and the taste of growth.
This Spring Festival, please use the fireworks in the world to give your children a New Year's flavor.
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