Jay Chou sang for Langaram: It turns out that the best upbringing should be like this

In the fourth season of "The Voice of China", Jay Chou is the mentor, and there is a Thai Chinese girl named Langaram. When Langaram said on the stage that he particularly liked Jay Chou's songs, the audience roared and shouted for Jay Chou to go up and sing with Langaram.

Langaram sang Teresa Teng's song, singing gracefully and melodiously, Jay Chou is also an admirer of Teresa Teng, so Jay Chou conformed to the audience and ran to the stage to sing "A Thousand Miles Away" with Langaram.

Jay Chou sang the first paragraph: "The eaves are like cliffs, the wind chimes are like the sea..." Langaram then sang the second paragraph: "The story is outside the city, and the fog can't be dispersed..."

Because the girls sang the boys' songs, the tone was raised by an octave. Langaram seemed to sing reluctantly. When the singing was almost to the climax, Langaram sang: "You can't hear it, the wind doesn't exist..." The next sentence, the tone should be sharply raised, Langaram will not be able to sing it, Jay Chou extremely quickly and naturally took over and sang the next sentence: "I am sighing!" ”

In this way, the embarrassing embarrassment that a little girl who has just entered the music world is very likely to occur, which is cleverly resolved.

Afterwards, Jay Chou neither commented on the matter nor talked about it in front of the media, so he let it pass silently.

This is a person's best upbringing, from his kindness for the sake of others, from his innermost cultivation.

Cultured people will think from the perspective of others, but also can do it at the same time, without causing psychological pressure to others.

A friend of mine, as soon as he talked about her son-in-law, Xiao Linzi, smiled and said that he had found a good son-in-law. At the beginning, Kobayashi was indeed very concerned, considerate and caring for her daughter, and there was a trivial detail in it, which really added a lot of impression points to him.

Once, Kobayashi was on temporary leave and wanted to ask the girl out to play, so he was ready to pick her up at her house, but he went to her house and called her to ask if she was free, and if he wanted, he could pick her up after an hour.

The girl agreed, and on that day, they got along very happily.

Later, in the inadvertent chat, the girl found that he had actually arrived earlier, and had been standing outside the door waiting for her, but did not take the initiative to tell her. So she asked him curiously, why didn't you come in?

He replied with a smirk, "I'm worried about you, confiscating the packing, or having something else to do." Facing my sudden visit may catch you off guard. So give you some time to be fully prepared. ”

The girl was particularly touched at that time and came back to tell her parents about this detail, so the parents identified the son-in-law.

In fact, not everyone can be so attentive, to push themselves and others thoughtful and considerate, not everyone has such patience, to wait for a person.

Cultured people can help others while protecting their emotions and dignity without leaving a trace.

Once in a magazine, I saw a writer who told such a story.

Once, when she was in Japan, she and her friend went out on the train, and after two stops, an old man with white hair and a body almost 90 degrees fit, he was on crutches and coughing.

In Japan, neither the elderly nor pregnant women want to be a vulnerable group in the limelight, and being cared for and humble can make them feel embarrassed.

So the friend said, "Let's just pretend to get out of the car and give him a seat." When the old man came over, they all stood up and nodded to him to leave.

The old man sat down slightly. Seeing the old man sit down, the writer breathed a sigh of relief, but at this moment, her friend pulled her hard and dragged her out of the car.

At that time, the writer was very puzzled and asked his friend: "What are you doing, how did you really get off the bus?" ”

But the friend whispered: "Standing in the car, the old man and other people will always see us, and the acting must be real, which is really complete." ”

Many times, we always like to express our goodwill with great fanfare, but such a high-profile form can easily burn the self-esteem of the recipient.

Educated people see through it, do not point it out, and leave room for others.

There was a very successful entrepreneur who invited celebrities to hold a banquet for his clients, and the banquet went very well. When the last meal is over, the waiter brings each person a plate of handwashing water.

Looking at the exquisite silver plate containing clear cold water, a foreign guest couldn't help but say, picked up the plate, grunted and drank all the water, and the friend who accompanied him was surprised and overwhelmed.

At this time, I saw that the host of the banquet was still talking and laughing, and inadvertently took up the hand sanitizer and drank it all. All the guests also took up their handwashing water and drank it.

In this way, an embarrassment and embarrassment was unconsciously resolved.

The best upbringing for a person is to not embarrass others with understanding and kindness. This not only maintains the dignity of others, but also raises their own image, and is also the embodiment of beauty and goodness. Friends, do you think so?