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Chinese New Year, rural children to the old people, the old people to the New Year's grandchildren to send red envelopes, rural people call it "New Year's money", is an ancient traditional cultural customs of the Chinese nation, since ancient times, embodies the Chinese descendants, respect the old and love the young fine tradition, is a traditional virtue.
Therefore, this custom has been passed down from generation to generation since ancient times, and it has been passed down from generation to generation, so this tradition has been widely spread in the mainland and passed down from generation to generation, which is a traditional cultural custom that cannot be erased.
It turns out that the old people in the countryside need to give New Year's money to their grandchildren, and due to a variety of reasons, the red envelopes of the old people are getting bigger and bigger, and there is nothing they can do to give red envelopes to their grandchildren.
As for the elderly in rural areas, what is the reason why they can't afford to send red envelopes, regardless of it for the time being, I would like to tell the old people that in the process of giving out red envelopes to their grandchildren, we must keep in mind these three particulars, so that we can no longer worry about not being able to send red envelopes, and we can't afford to give New Year's money, and don't turn the Spring Festival into a "spring disaster"!
(1), grandchildren and grandchildren, it is best to have a bowl of water flat, this is the pattern. The old man is coming to his grandchildren to pay New Year's greetings, whether it is grandchildren, or grandchildren, they must be treated equally, they are all a generation, except for the difference between age and gender, there is no distinction between high and low, they are all to their own New Year's greetings, red envelopes should be given to each other, regardless of size, let alone men and women, to be the same height as two fists, a bowl of water to be flat, don't favor one over the other, how small there is.
If the red envelopes are given, the grandchildren know that there is unfairness, it often affects the hearts of children, and the grandchildren who get less red envelopes will hurt their young hearts, on the surface they say "it doesn't matter", and the rest of them are very "so-called" in their hearts, and affect the harmonious relationship between various people.
First, it will affect the relationship between the elderly and their children. Because, children who get less red envelopes, their parents are very unhappy, because the red envelopes are a good omen, and the children's red envelopes are less than other children, which affects their good mood, so the children are dissatisfied with the elderly.
Second, it will affect the relationship between the elderly and their daughter-in-law or son-in-law. The daughter-in-law and son-in-law are not born to the old man, they are both outsiders, and there is a very big difference between them and sons and daughters.
When the daughter-in-law and son-in-law get less red envelopes than others, they think that the old man is unfair and biased, and a bowl of water is not balanced, which destroys the good omen of the New Year, affects the good mood, leads to dissatisfaction with the elderly, and must be disrespectful in the future.
Third, it will affect the relationship between the elderly and their grandchildren. When the grandchildren get less red envelopes than others, in the hearts of the little grandchildren, there is a shadow of being discriminated against and unlikable to the elderly, which directly affects the relationship between the elderly and their grandchildren.
When the old man gives out red envelopes to press the New Year's money, he must give up his selfish thoughts, all grandchildren must be treated equally, regardless of whether men and women are high or low, the palm of the hand is meat, the back of the hand is also meat, a bowl of water is flat, all happy, it will add joy to the festival, this is the pattern of the elderly, the pattern is opened, the purpose of respecting the old and loving the young has been achieved, and the heart of the New Year will not be blocked.
(2), between in-laws, don't compare at will, this is the realm. The grandchildren of the family go to the red envelopes obtained by relatives, and the amount of money is too much, don't care, because every family, every old man who gives red envelopes, has their difficulties in terms of economic conditions, don't talk about how much, let alone compare.
The elderly can no longer create economic income through labor, their source, the rural elderly only have a pension of more than 100 yuan per month, and their children in the New Year, the money prepared for the elderly for the elderly to let the old people send their grandchildren's New Year's money, and there is no other economic source.
Therefore, the elderly send red envelopes to press the New Year's money, must grasp how much money they have in their hands, according to their actual situation to decide, how much New Year's money can be given to each grandchild, do not compare, see the relatives of the old people to send more New Year's money, you must follow suit, it is a very wrong choice, is not right.
According to their own conditions to send red envelopes to the old people to press the New Year's money, do not compare, people more than their own economic conditions are better than their own, is the business of others, how much money they have to send how much New Year's money, this is the realm of life.
(3) Without a sense of ceremony, it is equivalent to child's play, which cannot be regarded as inheritance. The elderly must remember that when giving out red envelopes to press the New Year's money, there must be a sense of ritual, when grandchildren come to pay New Year's greetings to themselves, their parents will inevitably accompany them.
There is no sense of ritual New Year's greetings, the old man sends red envelopes to press the New Year's money, that is, to play games with grandchildren, that is, to inherit the New Year's greetings to send red envelopes to press the New Year's money, will lose all practical significance, therefore, the old people in the grandchildren of the New Year, is the time to send red envelopes to press the New Year's money, only to have a sense of ceremony.
The sense of ritual is not useless, it is not red tape, it is not a redundant link, it is a rule, it is a kind of etiquette, which can give oneself expectations, can give the beauty of the family, and can teach children the meaning of traditional cultural customs, which is called traditional culture.
The old man gives the grandchildren who come to pay New Year's greetings, gives red envelopes to press the New Year's money, edutainment and education, which can make a family different customs in the future, and is also the best inheritance for children, and it is also a specific manifestation of spiritual civilization.
In front of grandchildren, children, daughters-in-law, and sons-in-law, the elderly are the benchmarks, the role models of etiquette, and their every word and deed and every move will witness the power of inheriting culture and moral cultivation.
All in all, when the New Year's money is pressed, the old people do not favor one over the other, this is the pattern; when the New Year's money is pressed, the old people do not compare at will, this is the realm; when the New Year's money is pressed, the old people have a proper sense of ceremony, which is the inheritance, so that the rural old people give their grandchildren the New Year's money, and they must keep in mind these three particularities, so that the Spring Festival will not become a "spring disaster".
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