The conditions in the nursing home are good, and there are special people to take care of them, so that my mother-in-law can live in the nursing home and my parents can live at home.
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Li Fei, his father died in a traffic accident when he was a child, and his mother brought him up alone. My mother works as an accountant in a company, and her salary is enough for both mother and son.
When Li Fei and Feng Qian got married and had children, their mother also retired, and they just moved to Li Fei and Feng Qian's house to take care of the children and take care of their son and daughter-in-law.
Although she is very tired, she can see her son every day and accompany her little grandson every day, Li Fei's mother is also tired and willing, physically tired but happy in her heart.
Soon, the little grandson went to school, and Li Fei's mother had more free time. She enrolled in the university for the elderly, went to learn painting, learned to sing, and reported all the hobbies she liked when she was young but had no time or energy to study, and her life was full and satisfying.
Maybe it's because I see that Li Fei's mother is living a more leisurely life now, after all, the little grandson is at school all day, and he only needs to pick up and drop off every morning and evening. At home, as long as breakfast and dinner are prepared, there is only one person for lunch, and it is simple to eat. The housework at home is done habitually and does not take up a lot of time.
Therefore, her daughter-in-law Feng Qian moved the idea of taking her parents to support the elderly.
"Husband, the current nursing home conditions are very good, and they are all taken care of. Feng Qian said to Li Fei.
Li Fei looked at Feng Qian suspiciously, "You, what do you mean?"
"You see, my mother has lived in our house for seven or eight years, and my parents have never come to live in it, and their house is so old that it just needs to be renovated. I thought that the conditions of the nursing home were very good, and my mother would live in her own house alone, and you should not worry, let my mother live in the nursing home, so that my parents would also live with me for a few years, and enjoy the joy of family. Feng Qian said.
"Are you sure you want to bring your parents?" asked Li Fei.
"Of course, they have also said many times that they want to come to our house for the elderly. Feng Qian said.
"If you are willing to serve them, I am busy with work, and I have to work overtime at home every day when I come back from work, so I don't have time to take care of family affairs. Now it's my mom who takes care of our lives every day, if you think your parents can do it, you don't need your mom to go to the nursing home, just move back to your own home, she's in good health, I often go to see it. Li Fei shook his head and said.
After Li Fei told his mother what he meant, the old lady felt that she was going home to rest, and it was better to go square dancing if she had nothing to do, and she was happy and exercised, if it wasn't for helping her son, she also wanted to enjoy life.
Feng Qian soon picked up her parents, but found that the reality was different from what she imagined.
Feng Qian's parents have lived a quiet life for many years, and now they live in their daughter's house, thinking that they are here to support the elderly, they have raised their daughter, and their in-laws have brought up their grandson, and they are here to enjoy Qingfu.
So, a few days after I came, I shouted that I was too tired to do housework and cooking, and asked my daughter to hire a nanny to come back and serve. Moreover, I have to buy some food and daily necessities at my daughter's house, and I need my daughter to give me living expenses.
In the past, when Li Fei's mother was there, she never asked the young couple for money, and she always used her own pension to subsidize the family. The family has never hired a nanny, and every day is clean, and there is a hot meal when I get home.
Feng Qian only deeply realized the goodness of her mother-in-law at this time, but her own father and mother, no matter what they did, she couldn't drive them home immediately.
Therefore, Feng Qian had to hire an hourly worker, cleaning for two hours a day + a dinner, and the old couple would have lunch by themselves.
And Li Fei's mother is free at home alone, going out to exercise during the day, going to school, and dancing in the square at night, not to mention how happy her life is.
Zhiqing said:
After the children get married, if the children need help, if the elderly are unable to take care of themselves and need to be taken care of by the children, they should keep their distance and live their own lives.
Even parents and children will have all kinds of conflicts when they get along in close proximity. The so-called distant fragrance and near smell are this truth.
It's good to be well!