Antai doesn't have many scenes in "Parents' Love", but he has been misunderstood.
When Jiang Defu chased An Jie, he tried his best to push An Jie to marry Jiang Defu in order to find a backer for the An family, but An Xin complained that he was too selfish.
An Xin was sent to Xiaoshan Island with Ouyang Yi for more than ten years, he ignored it, and was reprimanded by An Jie as cold and ruthless, and even Jiang Defu, who has never easily expressed his emotions, has an opinion about him.
Is Aetna really that unbearable?
In fact, his selfishness and cold-bloodedness are where the wisdom of his "big parent" lies.
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As the eldest son of the An family, Antai has been cultivated as an heir since he was a child, which is destined for him to look at things differently and deal with things differently from others.
Ouyang's family has a big business, Ouyang Yi doesn't have to worry about family affairs, just study, and Ouyang Yi, who is full of talent, can't look down on Antai's philistines.
An Xin is the same as Ouyang Yi, under the control of her brother, she does not have to bear the pressure of the family's survival. Therefore, she couldn't understand Antai's intention of matching Jiang Defu and An Jie.
When Antai took over the An family, all the money in the family was swept away by his father, and Nuoda's industry was only an empty shell.
What is even more unfortunate is that with the drastic change of the situation, they are labeled as capitalists.
The family is in the middle of the road, the composition is not good, and walking on the street will be looked down upon, and the An family at this time does not have any ability to resist risks.
And Jiang Defu, who was sent to the door, made Antai see hope. Jiang Defu's pursuit of An Jie is an opportunity to change the fate of the family.
An Jie talked to An Xin about Jiang Defu, saying that he was illiterate and coarse, laughing at his typos, and mocking him for his shirt pocket pen culture.
But in Antai's view, Jiang Defu, an illiterate person who can't read big words, can become the head of the regiment, which is enough to show that he is capable and courageous. Compared to these qualities, culture is just the icing on the cake. What's more, he is studying at the Advanced Artillery School, which is a proper prelude to being reused.
No culture can be the head of the regiment, and if he improves his cultural accomplishment, it is really promising!
The composition of the An family is not good, if An Jie can marry Jiang Defu, not only An Jie's blessing, but Jiang Defu will also become the support of the An family.
With this in mind, Antai put away the pride in his heart and was extremely humble in front of Jiang Defu. Ouyang Yi couldn't get used to his submissive appearance of stammering Jiang Defu, and said that he was inferior and had no backbone.
Ouyang Yi is a talented man in Tsinghua University, and he has stayed abroad, his mind is full of freedom and ideals, in his opinion, Antai is also a person who has read books and seen the world, why should he be so humble to Jiang Defu?
An Tai naturally knew that Ouyang Yi looked down on him, but if he exchanged his humble energy for An Jie's good home, the An family could seek peace in the troubled times, and face was not worth mentioning.
Antai can have insight into the current situation and lower his body for the prosperity of the family, which is not selfish, but Antai's overall view.
02
Under the impetus of Antai, An Jie finally discovered Jiang Defu's goodness.
As Antai expected, when An Jie became the wife of the head of the regiment, the white eyes of the neighbors turned into envious eyes. When it came to Head Jiang, the sister-in-law could finally straighten her waist and say that it was their aunt.
However, Antai did not get carried away, he knew that the An family had a complicated background, and he had always kept a low profile, trying not to cause trouble to Jiang Defu.
It wasn't until he wanted his daughter An Yi to join the army as a soldier that An Tai took his sister-in-law and An Yi into Songshan Island.
Knowing that the eldest brother and sister-in-law, who had not seen each other for more than ten years, were coming, An Jie's reaction was not joy, but disgust. He didn't even go to the pier to meet her, but let the children do it for him.
In the years that An Jie has been on the island, because of social turmoil, she has not had much contact with her eldest brother and sister-in-law.
What she was dissatisfied with was that An Xin followed Ouyang Yi to Xiaoshan Island for transformation, and An Tai ignored An Xin for many years, indifferent and ruthless.
This time, in order to seek a future for their daughter, the three of them came with big bags and small bags empty-handed. They lived on the island for a few days, but Antai still didn't say a word about An Xin, let alone go to see An Xin, who hadn't seen each other for more than ten years.
is also a sister, An Tai was overly enthusiastic about An Jie, but ignored An Xin, which made Jiang Defu also complain about him:
Ouyang They are next door, why don't they go and take a look?
Is Antey really so indifferent?
At the beginning, when Jiang Defu married An Jie, because of her background, Jiang Defu lost his official. Therefore, when An Jie entered the island, An Tai reminded her that Jiang Defu was implicated because of their family, and Ouyang couldn't tell him about it, so as not to cause him trouble.
It can be seen that Antai does not have An Xin in his heart, but he is worried that going to see An Xin will bring unnecessary trouble to Jiang Defu.
An Jie went to see An Xin, and he was forced to go to Xiaoshan Island by Jiang Defu. Although Jiang Defu said that it would not be affected, in fact, he was still affected, and Jiang Defu's promotion could not be approved, and too much contact with Ouyang Yi was one of the reasons.
And Antai knew that doing so would bring trouble to Jiang Defu, how could he still open this mouth?
What's more, he is a capitalist, and his sister-in-law is the daughter of a landlord's family.
Antai's purpose in entering the island this time is to let his daughter become a soldier, if he goes to see An Xin at this time, if something happens, it will be bad for An Yi to be a soldier, and he can't make any extraneous branches.
Therefore, Antai is not indifferent, but he has no capital to see An Xin.
For so many years, Antai has carried the identity of a capitalist behind his back, and prudence and safety first have become his style of conduct.
When to do something, when not to do something, his standards are different from An Jie's.
03
In "Parents' Love", Antai is one of the few people who knows himself.
He was also the son of a family like Ouyang Yi, and he was also unaccustomed to Qinggao who was not used to chatting with Jiang Defu, but he always put this kind of "contempt" well.
When Jiang Defu was in the An family, it was Antai who helped him out of the siege; when Anjie made an awkward fuss and returned to his parents' house, Antai always stood by Jiang Defu and asked Antai not to be petty; Jiang Defu also generously expressed his gratitude to Antai for the help of the An family.
In troubled times, his harmony was exchanged for the peace of his family.
On the contrary, Ouyang Yi is a backbone, he is indeed knowledgeable and educated, but because of his arrogance and ignorance of human feelings, he has cheated his wife and children.
If Jiang Defu hadn't taken the risk of constantly providing them with material and spiritual support, Ouyang Yi's family really didn't know what would have become.
Therefore, Antai's selfishness and coldness are all appearances, and the deeper reasons are:
Aetna does this out of the maintenance of the big family.
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● Author : Jiang Li
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