#DocumentMyLife#As soon as school ended this afternoon, my son and I hurried home because it was too cold.
When I got home, I helped my mother-in-law stir-fry, and when I was stir-frying, my eyes were so sleepy that I couldn't open them, and while the dishes were stuffy in the pot, I closed my eyes and squinted for a few seconds, I was really too sleepy.
I was so sleepy because my youthful and rebellious daughter Xiaole affected my rest.
It was time for dinner, and her mother-in-law knocked on Xiaole's door and asked her to get up to eat, but she didn't come out no matter how she shouted, and her mother-in-law said that Xiaole was asleep.
I said to my mother-in-law, "Don't call her to eat, she didn't sleep for a second last night." The eldest daughter interjected: "Mom, you made such a loud noise with her yesterday!"
I said, "I got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, and the lights were still on in her room. I told her to turn off the light, and she said that I don't affect you, so you can go to sleep! When I heard her say this, I got angry, and I yelled at her to turn off the light. ”
Xiaole deliberately stayed up late, I know, she will work and rest normally.
Last night, I heard her chatting with someone else, and I told her to rest early and not stay up late. Then I went to sleep.
I didn't sleep well, my throat was dry, and I drank a lot of water before going to bed at night, so I woke up at 1:20 p.m., and when I saw that Xiaole's bedroom light was still on, I was angry.
I was still thinking that she might have fallen asleep and forgot to turn off the lights. This has been the case several times before. I could clearly hear her chatting with her peers. Can I not be angry?
I told her to turn off the lights, or I'd have to turn off the switch. After I warned her, I went to sleep.
I lay in bed tossing and turning and couldn't sleep, I was sleepy and I couldn't sleep, I was annoyed.
I tossed and turned in bed for an hour, and I still didn't feel sleepy. That's when I heard a noise in the kitchen. I speculate that Xiaole may have gone to the kitchen to cook noodles and eat them.
I quietly walked to the kitchen door and saw Xiaole cooking snail noodles, I was so angry that I gritted my teeth and said: "You don't get up during the day and cook in the middle of the night, you affect the rest of your family and your neighbors." ”
Xiao Le saw that I chased me to the kitchen, she was a little embarrassed, she said, "I ate too little at night, so I am very hungry now." I said, "You don't get up during the day, you don't keep up with those two meals, can you not be hungry?" ”
I didn't want to talk to her anymore, I went back to the bedroom, and the noise in the kitchen was so harsh that I couldn't sleep anymore! I looked at the time on my phone, it was already past two o'clock in the morning. I didn't sleep for over an hour.
I didn't feel at ease, I walked out of the bedroom again, Xiaole's light was still on, I finally couldn't bear it anymore, I yelled at her bedroom, "Why don't you sleep yet?
Xiaole said without hurry: "I don't sleep, I will adjust my schedule from now on." I was almost dizzy by her, and I angrily scolded her: "Do you adjust your work and rest, and don't sleep for a second a night?
The more noisy I became, the angrier I became, and my voice raised an octave, I must have disturbed the people, perhaps the neighbors around me had long since become accustomed to the noise of my house.
You say, is there anyone like her who regulates her work and rest? She clearly finds a reason for staying up late! Can I not be angry?
I told Xiaole that I really wanted to beat her up, but Xiaole said, "I'm 16 years old!"
I went back to my bedroom in frustration, I barely fell asleep, and when it was time to get up and go to work, I was so sleepy that I couldn't help it, just force myself to get up.
After getting up, Xiaole's room light was still on, she really stayed up all night, I compromised, I didn't want to pay attention to her anymore, I decided not to pay attention to her in the future, otherwise my old life will not be guaranteed!
Children have their own children's blessings, let her make her own decisions!
I didn't expect her to let her go back to school during the long leave she took to recuperate at home, but she had to stay up late to chat with others. She never thinks about whether her body can withstand it?
Some time ago, she adjusted her own routine and prepared to return to school, but when the day she chose to return to school was approaching, she retreated again.
She was afraid of going to school, so she struggled for a few days, and simply lay down again, I didn't ask her for anything, and I didn't mention to her about returning to school.
During this time, she began to play crazy again. I stayed up late at night, got up at four or five o'clock in the afternoon the next day, and continued to play games after getting up.
I really don't know when this kind of child woke up, she has been avoiding school, escaping reality, focusing on dressing up all day long, she loves to sing pop music, is keen on chasing stars, and fantasizes about going to art school, but she is afraid of going to school.
I think she delayed the course too much, even if she wanted to learn, but the reality was cruel and she couldn't understand it at all. I understand why she avoided school.
I don't want her to break the can, at least find something to do and keep herself busy, instead of staying up late playing with her phone to escape reality!
Psychologists say that there is a problem with the cognitive concept of these children! They should not change their cognition, and they will never be able to get out of the comfort zone of lying flat and rotten!