The bridge at two o'clock in the morning is so quiet, except for the faint sound of riding the wind and waves outside the bridge, everything seems to be still, even the noisy high frequency in the bridge is usually very quiet because there are no other ships in the deep sea at the moment to communicate with each other, recalling the contradiction that the female third officer has just described to me, the female shipowner representative who has always been in my heart is a perfect image has had such an unbearable experience, to be honest, although the female shipowner representative has already told me in advance, but through the female third officer's perspective to look at this matter, it is indeed particularly unacceptable。 Sometimes think about the adult world, how can there be any light, even the glamorous female shipowner representative also wants to be loved by men, if I am a student now, I will not be able to let go of the behavior of the female shipowner representative, but think about it from another angle, I am now a married adult, and have been working and living on the ship, many of the brothers on the ship are already married, and there will be some indecent behavior after docking, not to mention the female shipowner representative who has been single and young, although she is very wise, although very strict, but she is also a woman, and she needs the love of a man to live alone for a long time, need for the release of hormones, this is the normal physiological needs of human beings, in fact, this behavior is not ashamed, as an adult I am completely understandable, how can it happen at an unreasonable time and place, the female third mate at that time was still a minor, seeing such an unbearable scene of the female shipowner's representative, deep down must not be able to accept it, and the female shipowner's representative has a mental estrangement, think about it carefully There is no problem. In fact, the core of the matter is not who is right or wrong, I believe that the female third mate who has already talked to the object will definitely have this kind of cognition, and now how to break the subtle inner barrier between the two people is the key to the problem.
At four o'clock in the morning I finished my duty on the bridge and returned to my room, where I wanted to talk to the representative of the female shipowner, but it was too late. The next morning when I was still sleeping in the room, the phone in the room suddenly rang, under normal circumstances, the brothers on the ship know that I need to rest in the morning, no one will call me rashly to disturb my rest, since the phone rings at this moment, there must be a special situation, dare not have any hesitation, I got up and came to the desk to answer the phone, before I could speak, the captain said excitedly" Brother, don't go to sleep yet, there is an unexpected situation now, the female shipowner's representative and the female third officer are arguing on the bridge, after all, you have a good relationship with the two of them, you should hurry up and persuade them!" When I heard the captain say this, I was particularly surprised, haven't the contradictions between the two people been in a state of cold war? Why did they suddenly quarrel again? And they also quarreled on the bridge, it stands to reason that the female shipowner's representative has always been very sensible, and it is impossible for her to talk about her own family affairs in public, what is the matter today? I didn't have time to think about it, so I asked directly, "Captain, where are you now?" Why did the two of them quarrel? I was just on the bridge, and I saw the two of them quarreling, I felt that it should be a family matter, and it was not appropriate for me to stand next to it and listen, so I found a reason to go back to the room, and I don't know the specific reason for the quarrel, I mean you and both of them are more familiar, hurry up and persuade them both, now the brothers on the ship just went out to work, and I don't know about it yet, the matter has not been solved, in case everyone knows, you also know the environment on the ship, and I am worried that it will affect the image of the female leader"! When I heard the captain say this, I immediately replied, "Okay, Captain, I got it"!
After hanging up the phone, I quickly washed up, I wanted to rush directly to the bridge, but it seems inappropriate to think about it carefully, the two of them have always been in a state of cold war, and there must be other reasons for the sudden public quarrel today, I haven't understood the details of the matter and rashly go up to persuade the fight, although I have a good relationship with both of them, but after all, the two of them are mother and daughter, in case they don't say anything well, they will fall inside and outside the handle of not being a person, thinking of this, I feel that I need to talk to the captain first, first look at the specific reasons why the two people quarreled publicly today, and then consider whether to go to the bridge to persuade the fightThinking of this, I walked towards the captain's room, and saw the captain standing at the porthole in his room with a telescope to observe the work of the sailors on the deck, as if he did not notice my arrival, I took the initiative to enter the captain's room and turned around and gently closed the door and asked, "Brother, what is the matter with the two of them?" After hearing my voice, the captain turned his head, put down the binoculars in his hand, looked at me suspiciously, and asked, "Brother, why are you running to my room?" Looking at the captain's curious expression, I said directly, "The so-called family ugliness should not be publicized, it seems inappropriate for me to rush up, I have to understand the situation in advance"! After hearing me say this, the captain thought for a moment and said, "That's the same!" What will happen next? I will continue to narrate.
Looking at the thoughtful captain in front of me, I asked directly, "Brother, although the female shipowner's representative regularly goes to the bridge to inspect the work in the morning, why did the two of them suddenly quarrel?" After hearing me say this, the captain first sighed deeply, and then said with a special guilt, "Actually, this matter also has something to do with me!" When I heard the captain say this, I was still very surprised, I know the reason for the core contradiction between the mother and daughter, and what connection can this have with the captain? Looking at my curious appearance, the captain didn't hide it, and said directly" That's the case, this morning I went to the bridge to check the email sent by the company according to my daily work habits, when the female third officer was on duty on it, or a state of distraction, so I said a few words to her directly, who knew that the female third mate not only did not realize her mistake, but directly and clearly said to me that she wanted to apply for leave, looking at her attitude is not right, I was also more anxious, directly told her that it is okay to take leave, write the leave application according to the company's process, so when the two of us were talking, the female shipowner representative came up, after all, I am also for the benefit of the company, the female shipowner representative is the company's leaderThe female third mate wants to take a vacation, I naturally have to report to her, just after the report, the female shipowner representative has not opened her mouth to inquire about the situation, the female third mate is anxious, so she quarreled with me, seeing this situation, the female shipowner representative stopped her with the reputation of the company's leader, and then the two of them quarreled more and more, and then it seemed to talk about family private matters, I felt that things were wrong, so I took the initiative to leave the scene and then called you"!
Listening to the captain's description, I seem to know the reason for the matter, for the female shipowner representative, as the leader of the company with the ship, it is natural to maintain a leadership posture in public, and the captain's reaction to the problem is naturally investigated and asked, and the captain has no problem doing it, someone on the ship applies for leave according to the normal process, naturally to report to the company's female shipowner representative, hearing this, before I can speak, the captain said helplessly" In fact, I do things according to the process, mainly because the two of them quarrel very badly, after all, the two of them are related, I am really worried that the female shipowner's representative will have an opinion on me afterwards, I knew this, the female third mate will not report to the female shipowner's representative's vacation"! Brother, you don't have to have any psychological pressure, you do no problem, everything is done according to the process, the main reason for this matter must lie in the female third officer, you don't have to feel guilty, although the female shipowner representative and the female third officer are related, but the female shipowner representative is still very big-picture, and will not have an opinion on you because of this matter, if you don't report the matter of the female third officer's vacation in time, it will be even more wrong"! Listening to my analysis and comfort, the captain relaxed a little, and soon I calmly said to the captain." Brother, I'll go to the bridge now to understand the situation, and comfort them as much as possible, let's choose to keep this matter secret first, don't let the brothers on the ship know, otherwise it will affect the image of the female shipowner's representative", after hearing me say this, the captain nodded very seriously and said, "Don't worry, I definitely know about confidentiality, after all, it also involves their family affairs"! After hearing the captain say this, I was just about to leave for the bridge, the captain followed me out as if he had suddenly thought of something, and looking at his strange behavior, the captain said very seriously, "I have to stay at the staircase leading to the bridge, I can't let anyone else go to the bridge during this time, and I must fully protect the privacy of the female leader of the company"! Seeing the captain's thoughtful appearance, I smiled and gave her a thumbs up.
Gently came to the door of the bridge, there seems to be no sound of quarrel inside, the silence is terrible, I hesitated briefly, and then slowly pushed open the door of the bridge, at this moment the female shipowner representative stood in front of the windshield with her hands on her waist and looked at the sea ahead, the expression on her face was so serious, there seemed to be a sense of despair and discouragement, and the female third officer stood in front of the radar with two eyes staring at the radar screen as if she was frozen, motionless, feeling the embarrassing scene of the scene, I didn't seem to know how to speak, according to the previous experience, whether it was the female third officer or the female shipowner's representative on the bridge, I suddenly came up, both of them will take the initiative to greet me, but in today's scene, the two of them didn't even look back at me, which shows how deep the contradiction between the two people is, and suddenly it makes me heavy. At this moment, I thought quickly, wanting to break this heavy scene, but I didn't know how to open my mouth anyway, after all, I knew the core of the contradiction between the two of them, and there was no way to mediate this kind of thing in front of the two people. Just when I was at a loss, the female shipowner's representative suddenly looked back at me, and asked very directly, "Xiao Chen, shouldn't you rest in the room at this time? Why did you come up? Is there something wrong?" When I heard the female shipowner's representative call me "Xiao Chen", I was still very unaccustomed to it, at this moment I hesitated for a moment and directly found a reason and said, "It's nothing, I got up early today, and I was bored in the living area, so I came up and took a look"! Although I found a reason for myself, the expressions of the two people were already very obvious, and if I pretended not to know that the two people were angry, I couldn't say it, so I pondered for a while, and cautiously asked, "Sister, what the hell is going on with you two? Hearing me ask like this, although the female third officer also looked at me and seemed to have something to say, but when she and the female shipowner's representative looked at each other, she directly chose to bow her head and be silent, and the female shipowner's representative was the company's leader after all, and she didn't have the stinginess of the female third officer, so she looked at me directly and said, "You ask the third officer, the captain reported to me that she wanted to take a vacation, and I didn't let her take a vacation, but I just wanted to understand the situation, she suddenly lost control, and began to shout at the captain"! Just after explaining to me, the female shipowner's representative looked at the female third officer again and said, "You are the third officer, you have to put yourself in the right position, what right do you have to make trouble with the captain, who gave you the courage, now you are working not at home, why should the captain get used to you, it's too unusual"!
Listening to the female shipowner's representative say this in front of me, the female third officer's self-esteem was also very strong, and she directly retorted: "Am I targeting the captain? Are you thinking too much? I am targeting you, why don't I do this when you are not with the ship? Why am I respectful to the captain? You don't think about what reason"? Listening to the female third officer openly arguing with herself, although the female shipowner's representative tried her best to maintain restraint, she still said, "If you have a temper, just come at me directly, what kind of temper do you have to the captain"! Soon the female third mate answered, "You are the leader, you have the final say, we all have to listen to you, I won't give you quibbles!" As soon as the words fell, the female third mate directly said, "I don't care, this time I docked at the port in Indonesia, I must apply for a vacation, and I must go home!" After hearing the female third officer say this again, the female shipowner's representative did not have any compromise and said directly, "You think the company is your home!" You said that you will go home, you will go home, and you can't take a vacation abroad, this is the company's rule, and even if you apply for a vacation, you have to insist on it for me until the ship docks at the port in China!" Feeling the majestic scene of the female shipowner's representative, the female third mate instantly raised her voice and said, "Don't talk to me in this posture, I don't care if you agree or not, I have to leave this time!" Seeing the two people arguing fiercely in front of me, I instantly panicked, what will happen next? I continued to tell.
In fact, the core of the problem is that the female third mate does not really want to take a vacation but does not want to be on the same ship with the female shipowner's representative, and begins to threaten the female shipowner's representative with her own application for leave, as for why she does not want to be on the same ship with the female shipowner's representative, it is also because of those old things, because the female shipowner's representative has caused a psychological shadow to the female third officer's indulgent behavior, if you want to really solve the contradiction between the two people, you must also start from the female third officer, so that the female third mate can let go of the female shipowner's representative's behavior, and the relationship between the two people will naturally be reconciled。 But it's not easy to solve this problem! After all, this is the estrangement between the two of them for many years. Feeling the voices of the two people at the scene getting louder and louder, I looked directly at the female third mate nervously and said, "Okay, sister, don't be too excited, if you want to take a vacation, go through the process normally, you have been on the ship for several months, and you have completed the provisions of the contract period, so you can naturally take a vacation, but you are also an old crew member, you also know the rules on the ship, you can't be so willful, what is there to say"! After hearing me say this, the female third mate still gave special face, and directly lowered her head and shut up and stopped talking. Seeing this scene, I looked at the female shipowner's representative again and said, "Sister, don't be angry, if you have anything to say, you can't solve the problem if you're too anxious, and you can't publicize the ugliness of the family, let's close the door and solve the problem, and calm down!" As soon as I finished speaking, the originally serious female shipowner representative laughed all of a sudden, including the female third officer next to me who also stared at me at this time, which instantly made me nervous, and I always felt that I had said the wrong thing, but if I thought about it carefully, there seemed to be no problem?
After hesitating for a while, I looked at the female shipowner's representative and asked, "Sister, what kind of expression do you have?" Looking at my confused eyes, the female shipowner's representative asked directly, "What did you just call me?" That is, this sentence suddenly made me realize my own problem, before I called the female third mate my sister, and called the female shipowner's representative my sister, and the two of them are mother and daughter, it is naturally inappropriate for me to call it this way, but at that time, two people rarely appeared at the same time, and I didn't seem to have any problem calling it like this, but at this moment, in front of two people, after all, the two of them are mother and daughter, and I call one sister and the other sister, so it is naturally a little embarrassing. Thinking of this, I scratched the back of my head embarrassedly and looked directly at the female shipowner's representative and said, "Don't care what to call it, let's talk about it, my name is the female third deputy sister, according to this line of thinking, I should call you aunt, it is definitely not appropriate for me to call you aunt when I am so young"! Hearing my explanation, the female shipowner's representative, who was originally very sad, almost laughed, and directly turned her face to the side to hide her uncontrollable smile. When I was helpless in the originally heavy quarrel scene, I didn't expect this unintentional confusion to ease the atmosphere of the scene a lot. Just as I was about to seize this opportunity to continue to enlighten the two people, the female third officer behind me suddenly "hummed" and said, "It's okay not to let me take a vacation, but I also have the right to strike, this third officer's shift is not worth it, and after finishing speaking, I walked directly to the door of the bridge"! Suddenly heard the female third officer say this, watching her suddenly leave the bridge, it still shocked me, fortunately I can be on duty for her in the bridge at the moment, otherwise this kind of unauthorized departure from the bridge is a big taboo in our navigation industry, it is to be dealt with seriously. It's not just me, suddenly watching the departure of the female third officer, the female shipowner's representative was also instantly surprised, she was already very relaxed, she instantly became nervous, and the anger and helplessness on her face were so obvious. I believe that this is not because of family relations, and the female shipowner's representative is as simple as strangling an ant to deal with such a person. Watching the departure of the female third officer, there were only two people left in the bridge, me and the female shipowner's representative, and the atmosphere of the scene was once again awkward.
To be honest, even if it is embarrassing at the moment, after all, it is much easier for me and the female shipowner to represent the two people than it was just when I was faced with two women at the same time. I know that the female shipowner representative has the habit of smoking when she is particularly sad, at this moment I did not hesitate to wait for her to take the initiative to ask, directly took out a cigarette and handed it to her with a lighter, the female shipowner representative saw my move, her face showed a gentle expression, I saw her take the cigarette and light it for the first time, and then sucked it particularly hard, and finally slowly spit it out, standing beside her I could feel her helpless feeling, and soon the female shipowner representative said to me" I really have no choice, if she is my biological daughter, she treats me like this today, I will not leave her a little affection, how can she not be my biological child, this relationship is really very embarrassing, I can't beat and scold, I am really helpless"! Feeling the despair of the female shipowner's representative, I whispered comforting" Okay, sister, things have to be solved after all, in fact, I can also feel that the reason why the third mate is so willful is also because of you and the ship, the reason why she chose to take a vacation is also to force you to get off the boat, the core problem of the two of you is the old thing you told me before"! Listening to the slightly guilty voice of the female shipowner's representative, I directly confessed, "Sister, when I took over the shift last night, I chatted with the female third mate for a long time, including the relationship between the two of you, as well as the incident that happened to you before, she told me everything, saying that she couldn't get over this hurdle in her heart, and that your behavior was sorry for her sister-in-law"! Suddenly hearing what I said, the female shipowner's representative was particularly shocked, and hurriedly asked, "Is it really fake?" In fact, this matter has been buried in the heart of the third female mate for a long time, usually even her best friend she is reluctant to mention, she will say these words to you, I really didn't expect the relationship between the two of you to get along so well, to be honest, brother, I really thank you, usually on the boat can take care of her for me"! Even at this point, the female shipowner's representative is still trying her best to think about her daughter, you can imagine the greatness of a mother! Soon the female shipowner's representative said to me with special regret In fact, I was indeed blamed at that time, but the incident had already happened, and she didn't even give me a chance to make amends, and I was really helpless! For many years, she was lukewarm to me, and I tried all kinds of ways to please her, but the more perfect I did, the more she resisted me, and I really had no way to deal with her." Before I could continue to speak, the representative of the female shipowner suddenly looked back at me and said very sincerely. Brother, since she trusts you so much, we will leave this matter to you, I hope you will find a way to persuade her, I don't expect you to be able to untie the knot in her heart for many years, as long as she can continue to be on duty normally, I will be satisfied, I really can't get off the ship and go back to the company after I dock at the port in Indonesia, I know she annoys me, she doesn't want to be on the same boat with me, I take the initiative to leave"! After hearing the female shipowner's representative say this, looking at her sad expression, to be honest, it is quite distressing, since the female shipowner's representative said this, I have to find a way to solve this matter anyway, even if it is their family matter. (To be continued)