Have you ever had such an experience? I get along well with someone, but sometimes it feels too good and it doesn't feel like a friend, but I wonder if I think too much about it, and the relationship between myself and him is just a friend. You're not sure if he means anything else to you, but you just instinctively feel that your relationship with him isn't normal. In fact, from the words and deeds of the other party, you can judge whether he has ambiguous emotions for himself.
-01 Whether the other party is willing to share private information
In acquaintance socializing, sharing intimate information is a way to express trust and intimacy. If a person is willing to share with you information about his personal experiences, feelings, thoughts, dreams, etc., it is likely that he has a certain crush on you and wants to establish a deeper connection with you and share his true self with you. Of course, it is also important to distinguish between the quality and quantity of information shared by the other party, if it is only superficial, inconsequential, or to attract attention, then it may be just polite or boring, and does not mean ambiguous.
-02 Whether the other party seeks your opinions and suggestions
In the process of getting along, if a person has ambiguous feelings for you, he/she will pay more attention to your opinions and suggestions, such as when making decisions, encountering difficulties, choosing gifts, etc., he will take the initiative to ask you for advice or ask for help. He/she will give you some thanks, approval, recognition, or encouragement at the right time to make you feel respected and relied on by him/her. He/she will also consider your suggestions and make some adjustments or changes to your liking. These are all effective ways to express ambiguous emotions.
-03 Whether the other party creates opportunities to be alone with you
Being alone is a strong signal that if a person has an ambiguous relationship with you, he/she will create opportunities to be alone with you, such as inviting you to the movies, eating, going for a walk or other activities, or looking for opportunities to be separated or close to you in group activities. These are all ways to express intimacy and warmth, as well as ways to test the other person's reactions and feelings. Of course, it's also important to distinguish between what the other person is doing and how they create opportunities, as too often or too often can be uncomfortable or disrespectful.