In this colorful world, everyone has their own way of life and values. Some people seek peace and ease, some crave passion, some value material possessions, and some value spiritual fulfillment. These different pursuits and values form our respective patterns.
Pattern is the perspective and way of seeing the world in a person. It determines our perception and judgment of things, and also influences our behavior and decision-making. When we communicate with others, it is easy to have misunderstandings and conflicts if we have different patterns with each other. At this time, we do not have to force ourselves into the pattern of others, but learn to respect and tolerate.
Respect is the foundation of interpersonal communication. Respecting the views and choices of others means that we recognize their value and rights. Everyone has their own upbringing and experiences, and these factors shape who we are. When we respect others, we also respect their life journey.
Tolerance is a higher realm. Inclusion means that we are able to accept perspectives and values that are different from our own, and not easily deny or reject them. In a pluralistic society, everyone is unique in their own way. It is these differences that make up the richness of the world. Only by learning to be tolerant can we truly understand others, find common ground with each other, and build harmonious relationships.
Of course, respect and inclusion do not mean that we have to abandon our positions and beliefs. We can still hold on to our values and lifestyle while keeping an open mind and accepting people and things that are different from our own. In this way, we will not only be able to broaden our horizons, but also find our place in this diverse world.
The pattern is different, and it does not have to be forced. When we learn to be respectful and inclusive, we will find that communication between people becomes smoother and the world becomes a better place. Because in this diverse world, everyone is unique. We all have our own brilliance, and we complement each other. When we let go of prejudice and stubbornness, and face the diversity of the world with understanding and acceptance, we will find that the world is so vast and so beautiful.
So, when your pattern is different from others, don't worry, don't be anxious. This is normal and wonderful. Because it is these differences that make our lives colorful and full of infinite possibilities. As long as we learn to respect and be inclusive, we can find our place in this diverse world and live our lives to the fullest.