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A few days ago, there was such a video on the Internet that was ridiculed by the whole network and was on the hot search, revealing how many women behind it.
The woman said that her husband loved to drink and play cards, and often drank and played cards until midnight.
Every time I came back after drinking, the whole person was already so drunk that I couldn't do it, so I just lay on the bed and fell asleep.
In the beginning, the woman will persuade her husband, and her husband will be a little more restrained.
But as the child grows up day by day, and the days go by farther and farther away, her husband no longer regards home as home.
So, after many persuasions, the woman found that her husband still did not change repeatedly, and she didn't bother to say too much.
Because if you talk too much, he will dislike you for being verbose, disgusted with you, and disgusted with you, why should you care about him.
In this way, after a long time, the woman also discovered a bad problem with her husband.
Whenever the husband comes home drunk and gets up the next day, there will be urine on the mattress on the bed.
As long as he pees once, the woman has to wash the mattress and change the quilt cover once.
Now this bed has been urinated on by her husband more than three times, and she can't even count ten fingers.
That day, when she got up in the morning to clean up the room, she found that her husband had wet the bed again...
Seeing this scene in front of her, the woman was a little broken for a while, because she really couldn't wash it anymore, and she didn't want to wash it anymore.
Her friends around her are persuading her to leave if she can't live a life, so why bother wronging herself?
The woman also wants to leave, but he is the father of two children, what if the two children are divorced?
In this regard, many netizens ridiculed:
"It's so scary, imagine that you slept well in the middle of the night, your husband came back drunk, and then suddenly unbuttoned your pants and peed on the bed, you slept in a daze and felt a strange smell, and when you opened your eyes, it was your husband. Who said this wasn't a horror movie"
"I suddenly understood, why do girls in my hometown take the object back, the family and relatives poured wine hard, with the custom of playing mahjong and playing money, drinking too much, can't disguise, and the wine brand can roughly see through a person"
"My dad drank too much and peed in the corner of the house more than once, and now my mom has divorced him"
To be honest, after I watched it, my first reaction was to vomit.
I really can't imagine what a horrible act it is to have a husband who comes home from drinking and suddenly gets up in the middle of the night to wet the bed.
There is an old Chinese saying that "when you drink, you see character".
Another key to judging whether a man's character is good or not depends on his words and deeds after drinking.
If a man urinate and defecate every time he comes home drunk, or beats his wife and children, then he doesn't care about his family at all and only thinks about his own feelings.
Such a man is not only selfish, but also has no family responsibilities, and living with him for a lifetime will only make him miserable.
Therefore, when a man is drunk, his nature is exposed, look at his bad habits after being drunk, women should also understand that such a man has a worrisome character and is not worthy of liking.
In real life, such men can be seen everywhere.
Some netizens said that her husband is in his thirties and often urins everywhere at home after getting drunk.
When wetting the bed for the first time, her husband slept until the middle of the night and was awakened by the urge to urinate, and then stood up and urinated directly on the bed.
At that time, she was a little devastated, but for the sake of her husband for the first time, she chose to endure and pass, and it was a big deal to wash the mattress one more time.
But she never thought that she still underestimated her husband after all.
The second time she was drunk, her husband urinated directly in the cabinet, and then the next morning, when the woman went to the cabinet to get the canned meat, she found that the canned meat was full of water, and thought the can was broken.
As a result, as soon as I picked it up, I smelled a smell of urine, and the woman's whole body was blown up at once.
Therefore, in the face of her husband's repeated behavior of urinating everywhere at home, the woman does not know if her husband is sick or if he is not good at drinking.
Because when she and her husband first got together, he also loved to drink, but he never had this phenomenon......
Some netizens said:
Her husband often doesn't flush the toilet after going to the toilet, and every time she goes to the toilet, he can often see urine in the toilet.
Sometimes, when her husband came out of the toilet, he didn't even flush the poop off the toilet.
She reminded her husband many times, and her husband never changed anything, but only accused her of having too many things, how could anyone be as hypocritical as her.
After a long time, she silently chose to keep her mouth shut, as if she couldn't see anything, and she silently endured everything unbearable.
In addition to these, when she comes home from drinking outside, her husband will go crazy with her and insult her in all kinds of ways.
Then the next morning he woke up as if nothing had happened.
Therefore, she thought about divorcing her husband, but when she saw that the child was only seven months old, she relented.
To be honest, I used to think that the most terrible species was the selfish man, but now I think that the wife and daughter are even more terrifying.
Because, a selfish man has no bottom line, but they are still supporting this kind of man.
They let their children become a shield for a certain party, in the name of not divorcing for the sake of their children, in fact, these people love themselves the most, but they just use their children to seek the greatest interests for themselves.
Whether the marriage is good or not, whether it can be maintained or not, is a matter between the two husbands and wives, and the child is the most innocent backstabber.
This reminds me of a quote:
"In this world, the woman who is least worthy of sympathy is the woman who always uses her children as a shield, obviously the marriage can't last, and the marriage is full of holes, and she has to spend it in it. ”
It's not just that my dad is selfish, but my mom is even more selfish.
I've seen a survey like this:
Among 14- to 22-year-olds who experience a divorce from their parents, 82 percent look back and believe that their parents were right and that they should indeed give up on failed marriages.
Although the current child is still young, he doesn't understand the meaning of marriage, he just knows that it is good to have his parents, and it does not mean that he hopes that his parents will continue to live this unsightly marriage when they grow up in the future.
Letting children decide the direction of marriage is not only irresponsible for themselves, but also incompetent for their children. Because they not only have to endure a bad upbringing, but also have to pay for their own cognition when they were young.
My friend Sister S and her husband have a very different relationship, and they quarrel for three days, either throwing things, or the two of them are cold fighting for several days without talking.
Most of the reasons for their quarrels stemmed from her husband's lack of care for the family, his love of drinking, and the mess of the house.
Every time she comes home from work, she often sees empty wine bottles piled up in the living room, and she doesn't have to think about it to know that her husband has invited a friend to come to the house for a drink.
The husband invited a friend to come to the house for a drink, and every time he got himself drunk, the scraps of chopsticks and empty wine bottles on the dining table were just waiting for Sister S to clean up.
Sister S not only has to be busy picking up her children from school and work during the day, but also serving her husband who loves to drink when she gets home at night.
She endured such an embarrassing life year after year, but she never thought of divorcing her husband.
Once, her eldest daughter, who was 8 years old, asked her:
"Mom, why don't you divorce your father if you're so miserable?"
When she heard her daughter's question, she was stunned for a moment, she couldn't believe that her daughter would ask her such a question.
But in the end, she only said one word to her daughter: "Because he is your father......"
You see that adults love to lie, even though they don't love anymore, they still have to pretend to be together as if nothing happened, and they have to attribute this hidden deception to children, which sounds tragic and great.
Truth be told, "he's the father of the child" is the most ridiculous reason I've ever heard.
Feng Lun once said:
"In an unhappy marriage, children are often the means to maintain the marriage, but if it is a happy, happy marriage, it doesn't matter if you have children or not. ”
Because divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is that an unhappy marriage will bring more harm to the children, and the original family will affect the children for a lifetime!
Compared with the divorce itself, the conflict between the parents is the real cause of the child's misfortune.
If you can't provide your children with a peaceful home, then divorce can end the war and free your children.
A person's greatest transparency is the ability to give happiness to himself.
You don't dare to move forward, maybe because of the fear of the unknown, but as a sentence in a certain movie:
"No matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as you go in the right direction, no matter how bumpy, you are closer to happiness than standing still. ”
Most women are afraid to divorce, in addition to the fear of not being able to give their children a complete home, the most important point is - lack of financial ability.
I am afraid that after the divorce, I don't know where to go, my mother's family can't go back, my mother-in-law's family can't stay, and I'm even more afraid of being disliked or gossiped about.
However, relying on others to meet one's own requirements and expecting others to fulfill one's life is not a guarantee of love, but a shackle of marriage.
Therefore, a woman must work hard to earn money and have savings, at least after leaving home, she can not go to live in her mother's house, but can rent a house to live in herself! Only in this way can she maintain her dignity and status in marriage.
Finally, I hope that every woman can be a financially independent woman, not for others, but for herself.
After all, that home can't be maintained without your sacrifice.
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