This parent deeply sympathizes with the question of the child's final grades.
Eighth-graders, after a semester of hard work, only have ABCD on their report cards, and children naturally want to know their progress or regression. However, there is no specific information on grades from teachers.
The views in the comment area are held on one side:
One side supports the publication of results. 99 parents want to know the results, and they can't just stop announcing the results because they don't want to know. If it is not announced, the teacher should also inform the child privately, otherwise the blind box will be completely opened in the high school entrance examination.
The other party supports the rating. They believe that there are many cases of depression among elementary school students nowadays, and not every child is strong enough. And this is a regulation of the Ministry of Education. The point is, this parent's child is already in the eighth grade.
As a mother of two, I stand on the first stand. Thankfully, my two children's grades in middle school are open and transparent. Although the school does not publish rankings, after asking teachers privately, they will still give an approximation.
It is reasonable to use grading in the primary school stage, but when it comes to the high school entrance examination in the junior high school stage, if you don't know the specific score, how can you check and fill in the gaps, summarize and analyze? If a child doesn't even know about his or her grades, how can he reflect?
Of course, it is also understood that some children may have a glass heart, but they need more care and love. But this does not mean that you have to avoid it, what is needed is to let children know how to face it correctly, and tell them that grades are only part of the process of growing up. Children in junior high school are fully capable of facing their final grades, and the key lies in how teachers and parents guide them to look at and deal with them correctly. My little girl, from the time she was in elementary school, she cried when she encountered the exam, and now she accepts it calmly, which is guided and exercised step by step.
In short, if my baby is in junior high school and doesn't even know the final score, I will definitely be in a hurry.