I have a friend who has given birth to two children, and she has always been proud of the fact that both births were natural. And I, who only gave birth to one child, was still a caesarean section. So every time I see her, I will hear the description of the difficulties of natural delivery, from opening the finger to the side incision, etc., and finally I will say: "Alas, how happy you are to have a caesarean section! I can't feel anything after a dozen anesthetics, and when I wake up from sleep, the child is by my side." ”
I can't help but wonder, is caesarean section really as easy as my friend said? She really hasn't experienced the pain of caesarean section! Just like a netizen said, natural birth is bitter first and then sweet, and caesarean section is sweet and then bitter, and each way is an unforgettable experience for the mother!
The most terrible thing about caesarean section for those of us who have experienced it is not the fear of climbing on the operating table naked by ourselves, nor the fear of cutting through 7-8 layers of body tissue with a scalpel (because I can't feel it anymore [covering my face]), but from the following:
1. Inject anesthetics.
In fact, the women who have had a caesarean section cannot see the specific situation of the anesthetic because it is injected from the mother's spine, and the mother needs to curl up into a ball, with her back to the doctor, and then the 8 cm long anesthetic needle slowly pierces the body.
I still feel scared in my heart when I think about it, and I even feel like I want to vomit. You can imagine how big a shadow that long needle caused me. And because of this, there are many maternal friends who have the same experience of postpartum back pain, some pain for one or two years, some pain for three or four years or even all the time, so they dare not sit for a long time, stand for a long time, speaking of which, I really hope that the husbands of the world will love your wives well!
2. Postpartum belly press.
This is probably the nightmare of almost all women who have had a caesarean section, right?
That feeling is unprecedentedly sour!
I remember the first time the nurse came to press my stomach, I almost screamed, and I was sweating all the time. Later, when the nurse came to press my stomach, I subconsciously wanted to grab the bed rail, but I accidentally grabbed the nurse's leg...... [covers face]
3. Remove the urinary catheter.
I don't know why I didn't feel much about this, but my urine went smoothly after the catheter was removed, and the gas passed smoothly after the surgery. However, I have seen that many friends who have had caesarean sections have commented that they could not urinate after the catheter was removed, and it took a lot of effort to recover.
Of course, the pain caused by caesarean section is not only these points, however, whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, may all friends who have been mothers in the past, present or future, you must love yourself well, you must also!
In short, only after really becoming a mother can we understand parents better, because to be a parent is first of all the kind of wholehearted love for the child, love to the moment the child is born, we still feel joy and relief......