"At the age of 37, I became a happy mother-in-law. ”
"I'm 37 years old and my son is 18. Many people on the Internet say that I am uneducated, and I can't get a college diploma for three generations. But I feel very happy, I am no worse than others. ”
"Since the day I gave birth to him, I have been in business in order to earn money to buy a car and a house for my son to marry a daughter-in-law. I didn't go to high school, but I think it's pretty good. ”
On January 18, a woman in Huaibin County, Xinyang, Henan Province, wore a festive red dress, beaming with joy, and her family came and went, and it was very lively. At first glance, she knew that it was a happy event, but she was doing a happy event for her son.
Quietly ask, what were you doing when you were 37 years old?
I can't help but think of my eldest 37-year-old nephew, who is not married yet and doesn't seem to be in a hurry. His parents were so anxious that they urged marriage every Spring Festival. However, the eldest nephew doesn't take it seriously, and it is estimated that he will not come back for the Spring Festival this year.
and my friend's daughter, Jiajia, who is 35 years old and has no partner, lives a leisurely life alone, but I don't know what her parents think.
When I was 37 years old, I worked as an ordinary employee in a company, working hard from 9 to 5 in the morning. At that time, the child was 8 years old, in the third grade of primary school, and after work, she was picked up and dropped off every morning and evening.
I think most people should be in the same situation as I was back then. At the age of 37, he is old and young, and he is tired and tired every day for work and livelihood.
In response to the video released by this woman, netizens couldn't cry or laugh, and said everything:
What is there for her to be arrogant, three generations can't get a college diploma.
What does a degree represent? Without a high school degree, she also worked hard to live and completed what she thought was a very important life event. Everyone's tasks are different, and there is no need to belittle others!
I'm going crazy, God, what am I doing wrong? Am I holding the country back and delaying a generation?
The post-80s generation is really a magical generation, some people are mothers-in-law, some are grandmothers, some children are still in kindergarten, and some people are still singles.
Finding a daughter-in-law at a young age shows that people have the ability, no matter how good their conditions are, they can't find a daughter-in-law, and it's useless.
How many of those undergraduate graduates who mock others can afford to buy two houses and 400,000 deposits?
As long as you don't break the law, the three views are different, everyone's way of living is different, blessings.
To be honest, in the countryside, marrying a daughter-in-law, marrying a daughter, and getting married is the biggest thing for a family. If it is a family with a son, this is even more of a big thing. As we all know, a boy must have a car, a house, and a bride price when he gets married, which is a large expense. In some places, a son's parents have to prepare 50-1 million yuan before the child's wedding can be completed. What if there are two sons? How many parents have the ability?
Therefore, many parents go to other places to work for many years, in order to hold a wedding for their son. The marriage of a child is also a major event in the life of a parent, and the task of the parents can only be completed when the child starts a family. This is the traditional culture of the Chinese for thousands of years, there is no right or wrong, and some traditions cannot be changed.
In the countryside, there are many people who have no money to get married. Children are worried, and parents have no face.
This woman held a wedding for her son at a young age, which shows that she is also a capable and far-sighted person. There is no need for us to make irresponsible remarks and bless them!