Recently, the Ziyang County Court in Shaanxi Province heard a divorce case. It is a special case in which a couple over the age of 60 is sued by the wife for divorce.
It is said that having an old companion is the guarantee of the happiness of the elderly in their later years, after all, the person next to the pillow is more intimate than the children. However, the wife, who was over 60 years old, insisted on asking for a divorce, and the judge learned the following facts, which caused people to sigh.
The wife said that she married the man more than 30 years ago, gave birth to a pair of children after marriage, and formed a happy family of four. After that, the man said that he wanted to go out to work to make money, and then he never returned. For more than 30 years, there has been no news. At the beginning, the young wives were all white-headed, and the young sons and daughters had already grown up and started a family.
More than 30 years ago, in the countryside, although in many places there were no telephones. But the man is an adult with a normal mind, and he never returns, ignoring his wife and children at home, how ruthless should this be?
What's more, the past 30 years and more have also been 30 years of rapid development of our motherland. From phone to mobile phone, from computer to smartphone, from WeChat chat to the growth of Douyin short videos, the era of more and more convenient contact, has never awakened his inner memory of home, which is really incomprehensible.
Now that he has returned from injury, he has asked his children to fulfill their obligations and support themselves. Wife angrily denounces divorce!
In August 2023, the man suffered a work injury in another place and was sent back to his hometown. But at this time, his hometown, which has been absent for more than 30 years, is already a complete stranger to him. Even stranger is his wife and a pair of children.
Although he has never contacted his family for more than 30 years, and has not sent a penny to his wife and son, he is now over 60 years old, and he actually said: He is old, and I hope that his children can do their duty as children, take care of him, and provide for him in old age!
This shameless attitude first aroused the wive's anger.
Think about the countryside more than 30 years ago, how difficult it must be for a rural woman to raise two children alone!
You have to be busy with farm work, you have to endure the contempt of others, you have to suffer and be tired, and most importantly, you have to let your two children suffer with you.
Needless to say, this mother's thirty years are also a handful of bitter tears!
She did not remarry, did not abandon the child to her grandparents, but shouldered all the responsibilities of the family alone, which is already very remarkable!
It is said that the bitterness of time will eventually turn into honey and turn into sweetness and flow to the future life.
Today, the mother has finally come out.
Unexpectedly, at this time, she waited for someone who should have shared the hardships with her.
But if there is no shared suffering, where does the face come from?
This is the opening scene, she filed a complaint against her husband, who has not appeared for more than 30 years.
Eventually, the judge confirmed all the facts and ordered them to divorce after visiting the people in the village.
Is there a maintenance obligation for such a biological father?
After this news was on the hot search, the biggest controversy among netizens was whether the children had the obligation to support them, and how would the court decide?
But in the end, the court only granted the divorce without giving an explanation on the issue.
Maybe this matter is gambling on people's conscience!
Such a father is by no means a good person in the traditional sense. He has no responsibility, not even a conscience, to turn a blind eye to the days when his children grow up when they need him most.
Now they are injured and old, but they demand that their children do their duty. What a shame!
It is said that "the son wants to raise but does not treat" is the biggest regret in the world, and that is because parents have dedicated everything they have to their children.
So how should this kind of person who is obviously there, but is not willing to dedicate himself to raising children, be treated when he is old?