The term Dink is not unfamiliar to everyone now, and whether to have children or not has always been a more controversial topic.
Some people think that they should have children, and they should have a support when they are old, and having children is their support when they are old, so that they will not be very lonely.
On the other hand, I think that there is no need to have children at all, just live a good life in just a few decades, and there is no need to devote energy to children.
Netizens had a heated discussion about this.
The first to appear are netizens in Shanghai, and netizens in Shanghai understand very well that even if you have children, children have their own families, and they will not have time to take care of you when you are old.
Jiangsu netizens are right, whether they have children or not, the main problem is money, if you have money, you can give birth casually, if you don't have money, you will dink, and don't regret if you choose.
Is it possible that those who have no money, have no money to have children or not, and those who have money are not afraid to have children? Isn't it a bit reasonable?
The post-00s have a strong sense of autonomy, even if the post-90s generation, they are still a generation influenced by their parents, but the post-00s are really different, and the things they come into contact with are not the same as the post-90s.
There is no such problem here, is it a relationship between supply and demand to have a child? If you need this child, you will have it, and if you don't need it, you will not have it, and there is no exploitation.
This seems to make some sense, because it will be difficult not to have children until you are old, and the premise is that you have to have the courage to end it, am I right?
It's really different whether there are children when they are old, and many people around me who recognize their parents are not good and have someone to take care of them, either daughters-in-law or daughters. If you don't have children, who will take care of them, nurses or nursing homes, and no one will stand up for you if you are bullied.
This is a problem, in fact, the Dink family will be very cool before the age of 55, but don't get sick, as long as you are sick, the Dink family is old and miserable, and you are very pitiful if you have money.
In fact, the answer is already very accurate, but everyone can't accept the reality, if you can accept the reality, this answer is easy to answer.
There are really many people who can rely on children, and if they can't walk or crawl, they will know what's going on, and they really won't say such things when the time comes.
This is not right or wrong, don't ask for anything, teach by example, you do it to your elderly, and you will do it to your children.
Not only is it weird, gossip will break you, the most important thing is that you watch your parents get older day by day, they will have regrets, and they will complain about you.
This is a bit of an idea, and netizens in Guangdong have made it clearer, in fact, it is money.
Dink is indeed understandable, but there is a difference between a rich Dink and a non-rich Dink, and the consequences of the two are not the same.
At the age of 55, you can still take care of your grandchildren or something, this is called family fun, if you treat this as hard work, then you don't start a business, don't go to work, and don't make money. Then you're going to be miserable, because you're miserable for everything.
Author's point of view.
If you don't have children, whether you will be pitiful when you get old is not whether you have children or not.
If you don't have any money in your hands and don't have some social security and other protections, then you will be pitiful when you get old and have children.
But if you have money, you can have children at will, why is it not good for people to be prosperous? Take care of your children, find an aunt, use the best things, and wait until you are old enough to have children and grandchildren?
In other words, if you don't want to live like a dead man, then you have a baby, because then you don't have to be left without even a little movement. You can imagine that if you don't have children, the day you can't move, no one will know that you can't do it, and you leave quietly in silence and no one will know that there is someone in this house for months, isn't this scene terrible?