My son asked a female classmate to go to Universal Studios and was rejected, he didn't know why?! 

Text | Mi Li's mother

At the beginning of next month, Mi Li will fly solo to Inner Mongolia for skiing.

If it weren't for Mi Li's grandmother and grandpa, every day in their ears, with the chanting of the mantra like a mantra to output all kinds of worries, Mi Li's father and I didn't realize at all that this was Mi Li's first solo flight.

I asked my relatives: Why didn't you care so much about sending me out back then?

Now, if Mi Li can't go to Inner Mongolia, he can't wait to move his family.

My mother rolled her eyes, and I asked more.

However, I don't know if it's because I'm big-hearted, I always have a feeling that Mi Li seems to have started to arrange for himself to go downstairs to play very early, and he didn't need me to accompany him for a long time, and he began to take care of himself very early.

Even, the younger brother 👉🏻 and neighbor of the Mixed Community Volunteer Neighborhood Committee traveled abroad with their whole family, and actually gave the key to my son!

Since two years ago, when he cried and shouted that he wanted to go to and from school by himself, he didn't need me to interfere in his spare time:

Exercising, mentally strong, and keen on socializing, except for not having much time and energy to devote to their own studies, in other aspects, they are always self-growing and independent.

is such a tossed child, in front of Grandma Mi Li, I really can't say the sentence "I'm also worried".

Because, I have nothing to worry about, as long as people go out safely and go home safely, then what is there to worry about?!

Whoever is unfamiliar with life, bullied by older children, can't eat well, can't sleep well, misses his mother, give him one 🎮, he may not want to go home.

If you have to worry me, I'm a little worried, packing his luggage.

His storage ability is a pot of stew, a bubble of dirt, used to all kinds of things kneaded into a ball, thrown into a head, as long as the box can be closed, it is a full score.

When I reminded him to pack his luggage as soon as possible, Mi Li's eyes came up.

He told me yesterday that he was going to bring a daily practice and learning machine, as well as a switch. Not surprisingly, the first two pieces are covers, and the last one is a must-have.

I turned a blind eye and reluctantly agreed, visually, this solo flight, accompanied by the switch, the rice grain will be so happy that it will fly.

To borrow the famous words of a certain Haidian Xueba's mother: While the child is still a primary school student, hurry up and exercise his ability to be independent, otherwise, when he reaches junior high school, he will only be left to study, study, and study.

Our mother and son have always kept the famous saying in mind, and looking at the whole primary school stage, in addition to studying, we study hard, but seek to play more quality.

In recent years, in terms of playing more independently, Mi Li's "self-drive" is outstanding.

Last week, I heard Quint's mother say that her two children were going to go go-karting and asked if I knew if she was working overtime and couldn't go with her children.

I didn't know anything about it, and blurted out: Why do you want to go with them? Let them go on their own!

Xiao Kun's mother panicked: I want to take 6 subway stops, and then walk half a station, can the children do?

I swallowed "It's okay" and said weakly: Or I'll accompany ???

At noon the next day, just after eating, I planned to brave the cold wind and accompany the two babies to go karting.

As soon as I got out of the house, my brain pumped.

An idea popped up: there should not be many people on the subway on weekdays, and I took two babies with me, so I happened to be familiar with the subway route.

The two boys were so excited about taking the subway that I made them forget that I existed and travel alone.

But I couldn't help but participate.

First, he commanded the wrong direction of the car with great confidence, and was pulled back by Xiao Kun in time, and then, half a beat slowly, did not sit in the seat, and Mi Li put his seat and let me sit together.

On the way, he would ask me if I would drink water, if I was tired, and only inform me when I was about to arrive at the station, so that I should not worry.

When I left the station, there were a lot of people, a few young people clashed, scolding, pushing and shoving, two and a half old boys, actually stood in front of me, consciously protecting me, and the two formed a circle and a half.

For a moment, it was too secure.

When I arrived at the go-kart club, the coffee machine was broken, and there were only room temperature and iced soft drinks.

I stayed by the track, watched them run once, it was too cold, and I wanted to see them race again, and when they were in the lounge, I muttered: If only there was hot water.

The next minute, two little men, one of them brought me a cup of hot water.

The two of them went to the staff room to find someone to borrow, and said that they held a cup in one hand, just to cover it, and the two little men warmed my heart.

In the evening, I ate barbecue again, and the two of them were roasting all the time, laughing and laughing, I was redundant, and they didn't need me or anyone to accompany them at all.

When I went home, Xu was overwhelmed, they walked and ran, chased and ran away in the cold wind, I shouted for a long time, they came back, and ran away again.

Looking at the way they ran away and couldn't come back, I suddenly thought of a sentence: Mother and son, in the end, I watched you drift away, and you said "don't chase" with your back.

In the past, I was sad, but now I am relieved.

Sheniu Mi Li is under my hands, the group is slow and addictive, before the holiday, I asked the whole class to go to Universal Studios, yes, it's the whole class, he wants to cast a wide net, high and low group out of a team.

As a result, when it was time to buy tickets yesterday, he was the only one who went with a girl.

Parents don't go, they become a boy and a girl go around the world, and the atmosphere becomes a little delicate.

Mi Li breathed a sigh of relief, he was very happy, he still made an appointment, and even started to make a strategy, how did the two of them go, how to play?

He checked the traffic route for the girl, and in the evening, the girl sent a message: Just the two of us, not going.

Mi Li was anxious and asked why? Is it because the two of them are not happy?

He slapped his chest with a roar and promised that he would let the girl have a good time. Even, gritting his back molars, he was willing to invite someone for a glass of butterbeer.

The girl emphasized again: just the two of them are not going.

Mi Li was anxious and asked others: Why do you go to Happy Valley with *** (name), you just go, and you don't go with me!

The girl was anxious: *** is a girl, you are a boy! Let's go, people still think we are dating, I'm crazy.

Appointment???

What's wrong with dating???

The two of us are mainly going to play the Decepticon roller coaster, what do the stewards say?

The girl said with disgust: Forget it, I'll tell you, I don't want to go with you anyway.

After hanging up the phone and watch, Mi Li shouted: The girl is not righteous, what's wrong with him? Why did you go on a date? He also went on a date with Xiao Quint to a go-kart club? What's wrong with that?

I persuaded him: other girls want to save face, and they don't want others to misunderstand.

Rice grains are more anxious: misunderstanding is misunderstanding, it is cool to have a roller coaster, two people go, how good, you can still sit in a row, oops~~~

He screamed for a long time.

I made another appointment, and I heard that the child went alone, and many mothers retreated, but they didn't retreat, and the time was not right.

He thought about going alone, and after thinking about it, he really felt a little silly to go to the playground alone...

I asked him: If you go alone, aren't you afraid that I won't agree?

He looked puzzled: Why don't you agree? I'll just bring the phone at hand~

Also, keep the communication open, what's there to disagree with, it's so cold, and he won't ask me... How sensible...

In a few days, I don't know where Mi Li wants to run to play.

We have a tacit understanding: as long as it is safe, I will always support it.

After all, I've just run a long way on my own, and I know how pleasant the wind of freedom is.

At a certain moment when the wind blows, people will learn to grow up.

A while ago, Mi Li's father told me that he saw a group of children eating oden on 7-11, playing and playing, steaming, free, beautiful, and happy.

He fixed his eyes and saw that it was actually his son, he stood there and watched for a few minutes, the teenagers laughed and talked until they forgot themselves, he laughed and went home silently.

The child is already learning to leave us, not to ask, not to disturb, not to be alarmed, and it is also our last tenderness.

You and I, we'll let it go.

They will eventually grow up.

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