My mother, 70 years old, had just been diagnosed with a thyroid tumor this year, and the hospital asked her to be admitted to the hospital for surgery as soon as possible.
On the day they went to the hospital for examination, I sent two videos to my mother, and found that the surrounding environment was in the hospital, and after some questioning, my mother finally relented and told me about my illness.
I comforted my mother and said, this is a good thing, it was found early or benign, it is really fortunate, it will be good after the operation, don't worry about money, I have recently taken care of my body, I am ready for surgery, don't think nonsense.
We have three brothers and sisters, there are two older brothers, one of my daughters is also the youngest in the family, the second brother's family lives with her parents, the eldest brother has settled in another place, and I work in the city two hours away from home.
As soon as I knew, I called my eldest brother who was far away, discussed with my husband and asked him to take care of the child, and I asked the company for leave and went back to take care of my mother in the hospital.
Before and after, I stayed for more than half a month, I was alone in the hospital to accompany me, the second brother and sister-in-law came on the day of the operation, came to visit once, and came to pick up my mother when I was discharged. Because the eldest brother is far away and has two children, his parents will not let him come back.
The mother spent about 22,000 yuan before and after hospitalization, and our brothers and sisters discussed the cost, the eldest brother said that he was far away from the field and did not take care of it, saying that he took 10,000 yuan, and the second brother and sister-in-law cried poor and said that they had no money, and took 2,000 yuan, and the remaining 10,000 yuan, all of which had their own thoughts, and I said I would take it, and the matter was calmed down. In addition, I am responsible for all the expenses and diets during the hospitalization.
It's not that my conditions are so good, it's not that I don't know that this arrangement is unfair, but my mother has been hospitalized for so long, everyone is very tired, if I don't bear it all, the two brothers may quarrel over the cost and care issues, and everyone is not at peace, and my parents are even more uncomfortable in the middle, and my mother needs to rest and recuperate, and she can't be angry again.
Afterwards, the parents said, you are the daughter of the marriage, let you take care of and take the money, I feel sorry not to go, I said don't talk about this, the daughter should do some filial piety for you!