Wu Jing finally "collapsed"?

The trend of domestic entertainment is really changing rapidly.

On Monday, Zhu Dangang was flipped because of a husband and wife variety show.

Another model couple in the entertainment industry "collapsed"-

Wu Jing and Xie Nan.

The clip of the two participating in a husband and wife variety show before was recently dug up.

Wu Jing's "favorite wife" character quickly collapsed.

Immediately afterwards, "Wu Jing-style man" was scolded on the hot search.

There were even many people who shouted for Xie Nan to divorce and save his life.

What happened to make the once model husband and wife now have a 180-degree reversal of word-of-mouth.

Uncle Yu also hurried to eat melons and found that the problem was indeed not small.

Let's talk about it-

The cause of the incident was the quarrel scene of Wu Jing and Xie Nan that netizens had found.

In the third season of the 2020 reality show "Happiness Trio".

Wu Jing Xie Nan finished the event and returned home to prepare the meal.

Wu Jing was in charge of cooking noodles, and Xie Nan was on the side to cooperate with the program team to shoot.

Nothing has happened so far.

But Wu Jing brought the boiled noodles to the table and ate them first.

Xie Nan was a little puzzled after seeing it:

"You're eating?"

Meaning, why don't you ask me to eat together.

But Wu Jing did not respond and continued to eat noodles.

Then, Xie Nan went to the kitchen to wash his hands.

Seeing Wu Jing immersed in the world of dry rice, she didn't walk over, and she didn't go over.

After waiting for a while, Wu Jing asked:

- Do you taste it?

-I'm definitely going to eat it.

- I didn't say you don't eat it, I said do you want to taste it first.

At this point in the conversation, the atmosphere is not quite right.

-When you burn it, you should call me and say that my daughter-in-law will eat it together.

- Don't you see?

- As soon as I look up, you have already eaten yourself.

-I'll try a few mouthfuls of my wife, but I haven't finished it yet, are you blaming me?

- I'm not complaining about you, I'm saying that when you're done, call your daughter-in-law to dinner, isn't it normal?

The text has no tone, Uncle Yu put an audio for everyone to feel.

Seeing that he was about to quarrel, Wu Jing stopped talking and went upstairs.

Emotionally, he angrily threw the towel on the sink.

Xie Nan also left the scope of the camera and chose to calm down.

But soon, maybe it was the realization that the shooting was still going on, or maybe it was a real thing that needed to be resolved.

The two returned to the table to talk.

-I didn't actually mean to complain at all, but because you didn't respond, it just fell there, and the atmosphere became weird. You can say yes, Lao Tzu just ate it first.

- Then you can also say, my husband left me a mouthful, you don't eat it yourself.

- Yes.

- If you had said in such a (light-hearted) tone, would this have happened to me?

- I felt that it was because you didn't answer, so I said a loneliness.

In this clip, Wu Jing's performance made netizens feel that he was emotional and temperamental.

Machismo doesn't know how to communicate, and he always diverts contradictions when he misbehaves.

Immediately afterwards, more clips of Wu Xie and the two getting along were dug up, and the doubts increased.

For example, after the cooking incident, a similar situation soon followed.

At the date dinner that day, Xie Nan's chat was once again unresponsive, and it became a one-sided self-congratulation.

The communication between the two is still not pleasant.

Again, the scene became depressed.

- Can't we just sit down and talk?

-I didn't know you wanted to chat all of a sudden, we used to be like this, okay, sit here and talk. Just say it, don't say it in this tone (rhetorical question).

- Okay, let's talk.

-You said before that we can't, as a director is very sensitive to this tone.

The fight here is not over yet, and old materials have been turned out over there.

In the 2015 husband and wife competition show "Let's Go Love".

Wu Jing was dissatisfied with Xie Nan's constant command while cooking by himself, and a quarrel broke out.

Xie Nan was once so aggrieved that he cried, and he had to deliberately restrain himself.

In words, it is difficult to hide grievances.

"You can't cry, because Mr. Wu hates women crying the most. 」

You draw and I guess the competition, because Xie Nan said to Wu Jing in a hurry, "No, you're too slow."

After the two changed positions, Wu Jing was obviously in a wrong mood.

Because "I can't react", I didn't guess a few questions in a row.

Coupled with a slight quarrel between the two, Wu Jing directly gave up the game.

Even if there were other guests round, the scene could not hide the embarrassment.

All kinds of performances made netizens feel that Wu Jing was extremely emotionally unstable in his marriage, cold and violent, and incompetent and angry.

In addition, it is also mentioned in "Happiness Trio" that Wu Jing often gave Xie Nan a cold face in his early years.

Once, when he was in a bad mood, Xie Nan insisted that he try on the clothes he had just bought.

Wu Jing deliberately and vigorously damaged his clothes in protest in disguise.

It seems to confirm everyone's impression even more.

The audience made this archaeological discovery, and Xie Nan unconsciously suffered a lot of grievances.

In the past years, they have been ignored.

When everything is turned out, the model couple becomes a negative template.

The favorite wife and character also collapsed.

In fact, with the awakening of women's consciousness and the increase in voice.

It would have been a good thing that a woman's position in marriage was seen.

It's like many people are upset about Xie Nan and worried about her condition.

But gradually, the discussion of this matter became more and more outrageous.

For example, it is speculated that Wu Jing has already derailed.

If machismo is not satisfied, they will look out for the feeling of being adored.

For another example, it was determined that Xie Nan was abused by Wu Jing.

Not wearing short sleeves, verbal concessions, and subtle movements have all become "evidence".

Plus a variety of emotionally provocative analysis videos to help.

Gradually, the discussion of marriage issues was almost invisible, but the formation of house collapse hunting gradually rose.

In fact, after watching the original show, Uncle Yu found that the relationship between the two was indeed problematic.

But it is far from being as conspiratorial as netizens are discussing today.

For example, the clip of deliberately destroying clothes and gifts is Wu Jing's reflection on the immaturity in getting along back then.

The clip of Xie Nan's grievances expressed "I don't want to marry Wu Jing again in the next life" picked up by netizens is a joke game scene in the variety show "I Want to Live Like This".

Afterwards, Xie Nan wanted to explain again, but he didn't get a chance.

And the marriage problems of the two are actually more complicated.

On the one hand, traditional machismo is really suffocating.

Every time they quarrel on the show, it's because male self-esteem has taken a hit to varying degrees.

For example, in "Let's Go Love", Wu Jing is extremely sensitive to negative guidance.

Cooking has to be said, and I can't hang up my face if I feel wronged.

Especially in public, the slightest question or denial can make them feel challenged or even suppressed.

But the flip side of machismo is also magically instilling a coping mechanism in men, which is that anger and action are unseemly.

When the other party is a wife, she should be like a big man and "not see her like her".

As a result, the emotions are not handled, but they are just forcibly suppressed, and even suppressed to the point of distortion, resulting in a grievance that is not understood.

Yin and yang weirdness, cold violence, and sulking are also manifestations after distortion.

On the other hand, both are pragmatists.

In the show, it is often seen that they are getting along, only dealing with events and not sharing emotions.

Xie Nan also once expressed that she and Wu Jing are amazingly compatible in handling specific affairs such as career and family.

This is also why, netizens exclaimed that Xie Nan was surprisingly stable in the face of Wu Jing.

Because she tends to solve problems rationally rather than clarify emotions.

But getting along with husband and wife is not simple.

As soon as the show began, the problem had already surfaced.

In terms of sharing inner emotions and effectively expressing emotions, the two of them are almost blank.

The most typical example is when Xie Nan saw another young couple singing and interacting on the show.

I burst into tears with emotion for a while.

Wu Jing's most direct manifestation is self-examination.

mistakenly thought that Xie Nan was envious of others, and it seemed that he had lost in the matter of spoiling his wife.

But in fact, Xie Nan felt sorry for Wu Jing's burden, and neither of them could be as light as before.

But after a few questions, he stumbled and expressed it.

The two cherish each other in their hearts, but they are not skilled in emotional communication.

Even when it was revealed to outsiders afterwards, the word moved was said.

In intimate relationships, this is certainly not a small problem.

But speaking of which, this is also a typical Chinese family model.

Writing this, everyone can also find that Wu Jing Xie Nan's melon is actually not big.

The reason why it has fermented to the point where it is now, first of all, is indeed because of the improvement of women's consciousness.

People are increasingly disgusted with machismo, which is packaged as "traditional morality", and see clearly the toxic masculinity behind it.

In the mode of getting along with celebrity couples, too many real marriage phenomena can be substituted.

Therefore, more empathy, anger makes public opinion more and more vigorous.

Secondly, it is the backlash of the favored wife.

"Favorite wife" was once the best medical beauty for married male stars.

For example, Wang Zulan once won a wave of audience favor because of the "favorite wife" filter.

The love marriage with Li Yanan also brought more attention to his career.

Wu Jing's image of a "tender tough guy" also stems from the contrast brought by "favorite wife".

Lin Dan, Chen He, Yu Xiaoguang, etc., were also spoiled wives.

Later, each had its own way of overturning.

In other words, the character of the favorite wife is actually the character that will inevitably collapse the house.

Not only because of the performative nature of the character itself.

is also because the "spoiled wife" itself represents an unequal and unhealthy emotional relationship.

Think about where the word "pet" is mostly used:

Pets, pets, pets, pets, pets, pets, pets.....

Implicit in this is the asymmetry of power relations, which is a reward for the superior to the inferior.

This is also why many favorite wife episodes in film and television dramas are strongly related to the setting of the boss.

In the context of marriage, it is actually the other side of machismo.

Unconsciously excludes equal relationships, and instead flaunts men's bottomless tolerance and satisfaction with their wives.

In such a relationship, women can be coquettish but not converse.

It's okay to be angry, but not really angry.

It can give emotional value, but it usually can't influence the direction of big things.

In this way, the woman's subjectivity is unconsciously hollowed out.

And men will also fall into a cycle of self-emotion and inconsiderate grievances after bearing the pressure alone.

Therefore, in such a relationship, the seemingly unserious contradictions between the parties will gradually accumulate to the point of exploding.

And when the audience becomes more and more sober, this unsustainable pseudo-sweetness is declared bankrupt and restored to its original appearance.

And because it seems to be sweet, today's rollover has become more unforgivable.

Looking at it this way, although Wu Jing Xie Nan's marriage is not enough to be a big melon in the entertainment industry.

But it unexpectedly punctured a phenomenon worth pondering.

In traditional family and marriage relationships, there have always been only "roles", not "living people".

The social fabric needs one role after another to support its functioning.

But living individuals are often trapped in stereotypical roles and unable to breathe.

The Qing Dynasty is dead, and the narrative of the emperor and the favorite concubine should also be buried together.

If it is such a "collapsed house", it is okay to have more.

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