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My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

author：Xu Qing is coming

Xu Qing is coming

Xu Qing is coming

Preamble:

In married life, mutual understanding and support between husband and wife is the key to maintaining a relationship. However, when there is a clear difference in the contribution of one party to both parents, this balance can be broken, leading to tension and even rift in the relationship. I accidentally saw the bill that my husband transferred to both parents, and I was stunned. The clear numbers on the bill, like a sharp knife, went straight into my heart......

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

01, why is it so difficult for a married girl to go home for the New Year?

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

My husband and I have been through seven sweet spring and autumn years. However, every Spring Festival, we have to face a headache - go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year or go back to my parents' house for the New Year.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

In the first two years of marriage, my husband always proposed to go back to his in-law's house for the New Year with great anticipation during the Spring Festival. For him, it was where he grew up, with a family he loved dearly and a familiar environment. We both struggled outside and never returned home on weekdays, and as an empathetic wife, I understand and respect his decision.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Since I am married far away, my parents come early every year to reunite with us in order to help us with the children. I always arrange for my parents to go home for the Chinese New Year in advance. I know it's a bit frustrating for them, but I want to balance the feelings of both sides.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Every time I go back to my in-laws' house for the Chinese New Year, I try my best to integrate into the life there, get along well with my in-laws, and try to make my husband feel the warmth of home. In those days, I would take the initiative to take on some household chores, help prepare New Year's goods, and organize Chinese New Year's Eve dinner with my mother-in-law. I want to show him through my actions that I am not just a wife, but also a partner who is willing to share his family responsibilities.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

As time went by, my children grew up, and the longing for my parents became stronger and stronger. He stubbornly believes that his married daughter can't go back to her parents' house for the New Year, otherwise she will be laughed at.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

In the next few years, despite my unwillingness, at the insistence of my husband, we never had a reunion at my parents' house. Every time, he would prevaricate me with the reason that "your parents will come to take the child after the year anyway". In his concept, reunion is not bad at the time of the Chinese New Year.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

This year is the seventh year of marriage, and seeing that the excuses have been used all over again, my husband and I still agreed to accompany me back to my parents' house for a New Year.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Now there are no more children than before, I am an only child, naturally equal, my parents only have one daughter, I was raised with hard work, and I can't go home once in a year after getting married.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

My husband listened to me and didn't say anything, I knew it was a kind of response from him, a kind of silent support for me. Ten days before the Chinese New Year, I started to feel excited.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I started packing my bags and shopping for gifts for my parents. Those specialties, those sweet sweets, I carefully selected for my parents. I want them to know that even though we can't go home often, we have them in our hearts.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

When my son heard the news, he was even more excited, and he spent all day imagining what his grandparents' house would look like and various activities in his hometown. His eyes were full of anticipation and excitement, as if he had seen everything in his hometown.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

While packing his luggage, his son was also very busy. He pulled out his small suitcase and began to load it with all sorts of things he thought were important. There were his favorite toys, gifts he wanted to give to his grandparents, and some knick-knacks that he thought he might use in his hometown. I couldn't help but laugh when I saw him busy. But it turned out that I was rejoicing too soon.

02, it backfired but it was quite satisfying

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Things didn't go the way we expected. She told us that many relatives are coming to the house this year to pay New Year greetings, especially her husband's two-year-old cousin, who is going to bring his girlfriend home this year. We see the disappointment and dissatisfaction of the mother-in-law.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

The disappointment of the past few years haunted my heart, and I also wanted to see how my husband would choose, and my filial husband began to waver after hearing this.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I feel very disappointed this repeatedly, but the child is still here, and the New Year is not for nothing, and I don't want to have trouble with my husband at this time. My parents were disappointed, but they understood our struggle. They didn't blame us, they just silently accepted our decision.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Watching them leave early with a face full of disappointment, I felt very uncomfortable, and I knew that I had let them down. Because I don't go to my parents' house this year, my parents usually help us take care of the children, so I transfer 5000 to my parents and 3000 to his parents, so that the elderly can be happy during the New Year.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I said firmly to my husband. I think it's fair and respectful to both parents. My husband has a different opinion. He believes that my parents have done a lot for us, especially since we got married, and they have been helping us.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

He took it for granted to give an extra 2,000 yuan, a recognition and gratitude for their efforts. "My parents-in-law have worked hard for so long, and it is natural to give 2000 more. He comforted me. While I understand his thoughts, I still don't think it's appropriate. I don't think money can measure the dedication and love of parents.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

The matter has come to this, there is indeed something to do, and my husband also has the heart to make up for it, and after a few days, I let go of the knot and packed up the things that went to my mother-in-law's house. We work together to resolve the unhappiness and contradictions in our hearts.

03, the contradiction completely broke out, which is really chilling.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Just as I was packing my bags and preparing to go to my in-law's house as usual, I accidentally saw the transfer slip from my husband's mobile phone. It was just a quick glance, and it turned out to make me angry. My husband transferred 5,000 yuan to my parents, which seems to me to be a lot, after all, we are all working-class people and have children to raise.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

But when I saw the amount he transferred to my mother-in-law, I was stunned. He only transferred 3,000 yuan to his mother-in-law, and he also gave me a screenshot later.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

But what made me even more angry was that he secretly transferred 10,000 yuan to his mother-in-law in private, and specially told her mother-in-law not to leak her mouth in front of me. This kind of behavior made me completely explode. Didn't he fool me for a fool? I didn't want him to be filial to his parents, but what was his intention in doing this?

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I felt a chill, and when I thought back to the past, I felt even more heartache. And now, he is doing such a thing, which makes me think that his behavior is too selfish.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Maybe it's just a good scar, forget the pain. My husband enjoys the care of me and my parents, but completely forgets the selfishness and indifference of his own parents in the first place. Not to mention a bowl of water, but at least he shouldn't hide it from me, for many years as a husband and wife, he didn't even give me and my parents the most basic respect. I was very disappointed and saddened by this behavior, and I didn't know how to face it.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I bought two tickets for myself and my children to go back to my parents' house. I don't want to make any compromises or concessions on this decision. When I told my husband about my decision, he obviously didn't expect me to do it. He suddenly became annoyed and angry, and his tone was full of resentment and reproach.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

"How can you do that? Didn't we already promise to go home for the New Year?" he asked me aloud. I looked at him calmly and did not speak. His reaction made me even more determined in my decision. I seemed to have just seen through the hypocritical and indifferent man in front of me.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

"How can I explain it to my parents if you go back on your word like this?" he continued.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I couldn't help but laugh when I heard this. It turns out that in his eyes, I just exist for cooking. My decision clearly hit a sore spot in him and made him lose his mind. "Whoever loves to serve me will never compromise in the future. I don't want to say anything more to him, because I know that nothing will come of it from such an argument.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

I packed my bags and prepared to take my baby back to my parents' house. As for the father-in-law's family, who wants to serve that big family, then it has nothing to do with me.

04, Epilogue

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

After the only child gets married, there is no fixed answer to the question of whose house to go to for the New Year, and the husband and wife can discuss in advance, which year will be at the man's house, which year will be at the woman's house, or take turns to go to the two families for the New Year. This can ensure that both families can enjoy the joy of family.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

If the couple's home is far away, they can also choose to return to their parents' homes together for a period of time to spend time with their respective parents when the Chinese New Year is approaching.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

The most important thing is that both husband and wife should understand, respect and support each other, and work together to find the most suitable plan for their family. In a marriage, it is essential to be honest with each other. Couples should share each other's thoughts, feelings, and needs without reservation in order to better understand and support each other. Being open and honest with each other not only strengthens trust and intimacy between couples, but also helps resolve conflicts and conflicts.

My husband gave my mother-in-law 3 jobs and my parents-in-law 5 jobs, and I canceled the ticket back to my mother-in-law's house

Husbands and wives should be open and honest with each other. Therefore, husband and wife should continue to work hard to maintain an open and sincere attitude towards each other, and jointly maintain a happy and stable marital relationship.

This article is a short story, and the content is purely fictional, please watch it rationally.
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