As the old saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and marrying a girl is equivalent to a second reincarnation. Especially for stay-at-home moms.
On January 8, in Zhejiang, a woman about 35 years old, wearing a red dress, cried while posting a video on the Internet, in which she cried and said to her husband: "I buy a wardrobe, you are like this, and you can do what the woman outside tells you?"
Unexpectedly, the husband who was smashing and throwing things on the ground did not answer the question directly, but said to his wife in a surprising voice: "You don't want to stay, just get out of me?"
The woman said aggrievedly: "I have a marriage certificate, where am I going? I don't even have a house ......."
The man said angrily, "Anything about my hammer?"
From this simple conversation between husband and wife, it is really suffocating!
This man doesn't say a word of reason, and when he doesn't make sense, he only scolds!
According to the woman, her husband is in his 40s this year, and he can't make money by being idle all day long, and he has no money to pay rent and has to ask his mother for it.
After the two quarreled some time ago, the husband lost contact. Later, the wife learned that her husband actually took out a loan to go to KTV to pick up girls.
In the video, we can see that the children are three or four years old, still living in a rented house, and the wardrobe on the ground that the wife bought is still the kind of simple cloth assembly cabinet, and the floor tiles on the ground are black and old, and the road outside may be cleaner and newer than his house.
As a man in his 40s, there is really no one to live like this.
Even if you have no knowledge and no culture, as long as you rely on your hard-working hands, this era will not be destitute.
And the wife can buy this simple wardrobe for more than 100 yuan. Unexpectedly, after the husband found out, he was furious, accusing his wife of spending money indiscriminately and smashing things at home in anger.
This man can't open the pot in his own home, but he slaps his swollen face and becomes fat outside. So there was a scene of two people arguing at the beginning.
This man is really the dragon and phoenix among the people, the daughter-in-law can't buy a thing that is being used for a few days, but he doesn't say that he is taking out a loan to find a young lady outside, it is really a double standard, saying that the double standard has lifted him.
It's just nonsense, unreasonable, and completely irresponsible towards the family.
The woman cried and said that she didn't ask for a bride price at the beginning, but she felt that she didn't want a bride price, and hoped that her husband would be kind to her.
But she never expected that even if she didn't ask for a bride price, her husband still scolded her.
Some netizens said that it is because you have no bride price that you have today's situation.
After watching this video, I felt very heavy, this woman is so pitiful, at the beginning of her marriage, she hoped to gain her husband's love by not having a bride price. However, the result was a great disappointment to him.
In their married life, there is no trace of their husband and wife's affection for each other. Even if the husband was at fault first, he was still full of disgust for his wife and scolded him.
Even if her husband took out a loan to go to KTV to find a young lady, she didn't make a big fuss and didn't get divorced. And the reason for this quarrel was because of the purchase of a cabinet. But in the face of a few complaints from his wife, the husband actually drove his wife away.
But the woman can only say aggrievedly: "I have a marriage certificate, I don't have a house, where do I go?"
I want to say, it's just that this woman is too humble and has no absolute relationship with whether she wants a bride price or not?
On the one hand, the reason is that she is unladylike and meets a scumbag, and this man is also the best in the world.
On the other hand, women are not financially independent and are too dependent on men, so much so that they use the method of not paying a bride price to curry favor with men.
Therefore, I advise those girls, it is no longer the era of marrying chickens and dogs, women should also hold up half of the sky, rely on mountains and mountains, rely on trees, rely on others, rely on themselves, economic independence, personality independence is what every girl should pursue.
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