In this materialistic society where human feelings are warm and cold, the word "friend" seems to have become a luxury. People can't live without friends, but they can't live without friends.
Friends is a magical word that connects with the good times and expectations we once had.
"All your friends are phased. He Jiong's words are like a needle, poking at the pain points in the hearts of many people. Indeed, when we look back at the past and look at the smiling faces frozen in the photos on our phones, we can't help but feel that this friendship is short-lived.
In our youth, our friends will accompany us all the way. The original determination and naivety have been transformed into the helplessness and rationality of reality under the tempering of time.
We begin to understand that a friend may be just a passerby on the road of life, destined to say goodbye.
Man is a creature that changes, and the environment is also changing, and the souls that smelled the same at the beginning may gradually drift away. But we can still choose to be grateful and grateful. Because, once had, is the happiest thing.
The appearance of friends adds color to our lives, and our hearts feel warm. And their departure should not end with a sad end. As long as we cherish the present moment and live in front of us, every encounter on the road of life will turn into a flash of light and become the driving force for us to move forward.
Xiao Lu and her best friend Lin Na are high school classmates and inseparable best friends. They talked about everything, and they shared joy and sorrow. Lin Na is Xiao Lu's closest confidant, giving her a lot of encouragement and support, and is her spiritual support.
In the last year of high school, in the face of the anxiety of leaving home alone to study in college, it was Lin Na who accompanied Xiaolu's back and gave her a solid hug. "It's okay, you can.
Lin Na told Xiao Lu. Xiao Lu also believes that in the future, they will definitely walk side by side.
It wasn't until the moment of real separation that Xiao Lu and Lin Na suddenly realized that this stage was coming to an end. Seven years of friendship from elementary school to high school will be broken by the new beginning of college.
Sure enough, the university gave Xiao Lu a whole new world. There are more like-minded new friends here. Xiao Lu began to frequently post photos of himself and his new friends in the circle of friends, but rarely mentioned Lin Na again.
One day, Lin Na asked Xiao Lu: "I've always gone south to look for you all these years, why don't you come to see me?" Xiao Lu suddenly realized that she and Lin Na were no longer so close.
The friendship of girls seems to have faded in the years of rushing, and they are drifting apart.
Netizen Li Fang shared a warm friendship story. Li Fang is studying in college in City A, and her home is in City B, a small city in the south. At the beginning of her freshman year, her classmate Wang Yan often came to visit Li Fang with handmade snacks and accompanied her to go shopping.
Wang Yan's friendship is completely free of charge. She knew that it was not easy for Li Fang to live alone in a foreign land, and she tried everything to make her feel cared for. Li Fang often joked that Wang Yan was closer to her than her sister.
In her sophomore year, Wang Yan took the train for more than ten hours, just to cross half of China to visit Li Fang. In the following three years, Wang Yan visited Li Fang five more times by plane or train.
Li Fang is sincerely grateful to Wang Yan for her dedication.
However, when Wang Yan's parents were both sick and bedridden, it was Li Fang's turn to repay the friendship. She took leave to go home and took care of Wang Yan's parents day and night, helping Wang Yan through the most difficult moments.
Wang Yan is getting married this year, and Li Fang has also become her bridesmaid.
This friendship that transcends distance and time is worth remembering. Maybe friends won't be with you forever, but it's a friend's responsibility to take on the time when the other person needs it most.
"Friends are all phases", this sentence breaks the confusion of many people. Indeed, when we look back on our lives, we will find that most of our friends are actually companions for a certain period of time, and eventually they say goodbye and leave.
Some data show that there are only 2-3 core confidants in a person's life on average. Other friends are mostly temporary partners on our way to growth. They show up at a certain age, spend a good time with us, and then go our separate ways.
Elementary, secondary and university make friends who are inseparable. But when the environment changes and everyone sets foot in society, can these friendships still be maintained? The answer is no.
Everyone has their own ambitions, and it is the norm for the road to drift away.
In fact, there is no need to be sad. Life is a practice, and each of us walks on our own path. Passers-by show up to add a little color to the journey, then say goodbye and move on to their own devices.
"Don't regret it because it's over, be grateful for it happened. We can't predict when separation will be, so it's important to be fully committed to the present moment and cherish the people in front of us.
Farewell should not be the end of life, but the process of accumulating good memories and preparing for the next encounter.
When a close friend leaves suddenly, I'm sure everyone will feel sad and reluctant. This sudden sadness can last a long time.
I remember that Lily, my best friend when I was in school, went to college in another city after my junior year of high school. The first time I was really separated, I was sad for months and always felt like something was missing from my life.
Later, I gradually realized that the loss of my friend is also inevitable in life. We all pursue our dreams on different paths, which creates disagreements and distances.
I can't live in mourning for Lily's loss. Continuing to move forward is the best blessing for her. I believe that Lily will also do her best to live her life to the fullest.
Now that I think about it, those three years of high school classmates were so beautiful, and they deserve to be remembered and grateful for the rest of my life. Although Lily is gone, the condensed friendship she gave me will forever be etched in my heart.
I often think of the long nights we had talking, the school where we played, and the bits and pieces of crying and laughing together. Life is so colorful because of her. This is Lily's most precious gift to me.
Since friendship is staged, how should we view and manage the friendship in life?
I think the most important thing is to live in the moment and cherish the people in front of you. We have no control over the future, and we can't predict when our friends will leave. So instead of being on guard and on guard, we should devote ourselves to today's bits and pieces.
Second, understand that change is the norm. Gatherings are luxuries, and dispersions are inevitable. The friends in front of us may just be passers-by, but they can be unforgettable landscapes.
This broad-mindedness allows us to better enjoy the beauty of friendship.
Finally, when parting comes, we can bless each other and bless ourselves. I believe that every encounter has its meaning, and it is a guiding light on the road of our growth, leading us forward.
As long as you are grateful, everything in front of you will turn into beauty.
On the road of life, we will meet all kinds of friends. Some of them are just passers-by, while others become confidants.
My childhood sweetheart, Xiaofang, has been my closest playmate since childhood. She listened to me more seriously than her teachers, and spent my carefree childhood with me.
But when I went to high school, Xiaofang moved her family away. Since then, our connection has faded. I was reluctant to give up, but I knew it was just one stage of our friendship.
When I went to college, my roommate Jack became my new confidant. We would talk until dawn in the dormitory, sharing each other's worries and dreams. This fateful friendship is an unforgettable treasure in my life.
In life, the happiest thing is to meet a close friend. They may be gone, but they will remain alive in our hearts. These good things have become the driving force for us to move forward, and we will definitely become a better version of ourselves.