I think everyone has more or less said hello to strangers.
I'm different, I'm almost none, I basically don't dare to talk to strangers.
Recently, I saw a video on an Internet platform, which can be said to be two "embarrassing people saying embarrassing things"
Netizens saw a person riding a shared bicycle on the road, because the other party's saddle was too high and her legs couldn't touch the ground, she felt that she was very tired like this, so she cautiously stepped forward to remind her.
via.@ Sponge Stars
I guess before this, netizens must have done the following psychological activities:
"Well?!!Why is her bike-sharing seat so high?Is she tired of supporting her legs like this? Maybe she is doing this on purpose? Shall I tell her that this seat can be adjusted? Wouldn't this be a little offensive to her? But she's really tired like this! Forget it, I'm sorry......."
Netizens bravely stepped forward to remind: "I'm sorry, your seat can be lowered." You don't have to step on it like this."
via.@ Sponge Stars
After not expecting to be reminded, the first sentence on the other side was "I'm sorry, I've been riding for so long and haven't found out, I'm sorry." “
As a bystander, I couldn't help but feel a little confused.
What is she embarrassed about? Riding such a high seat, you have been riding for so long, and you are embarrassed to get on with others?
After an introvert gets corrected, her inner activity should be like this: "I'm sorry, I'm stupid to you, thank you for the correction." When simplified, it's "I'm sorry"
What surprised me even more was that netizens replied to her "thank you, thank you" after hearing the other party say sorry
Hmm?Hmm?You remind her that the seat can be lowered, what do you thank?
"Thank you", "I'm sorry" and "I'm sorry" are the mantra trio of introverts, and they really live up to their name.
In short, the sudden social interaction made the two people confused, that is, the mouth was faster than the brain, and the two introverts were frantically using honorifics.
Politeness in place, grammar is not at all.
It's really a conversation that makes the parties sweat and the onlookers laugh heartily.
It's already embarrassing to talk to strangers, and it's even more embarrassing to accidentally say the wrong honorific, and even when the two of them are waiting for the traffic light together, they still have time to pick out a three-bedroom living room.
When I go to bed at night, I will be embarrassed to scratch the sheets.
But then again, it's so embarrassing, you haven't told her how to adjust this chair!
Laughing and laughing, making trouble, some people watching fun, some looking in the mirror.
I suddenly remembered that when I was in school, I would say thank you to the students who received the homework when I handed in the homework, and I would say thank you to the students who handed in the homework when I received the homework.
Many introverts sometimes react after saying embarrassed/thank you outside, obviously they are the ones who lend a hand?
via.@ Yuyi_lanyee
Sometimes when someone returns something to you, you will say thank you;
Even when you take someone else's flyer, you will say thank you;
via.@Dawn_ house
When someone mistakenly steps on it, the first reaction is that the other party says sorry, and when he finds something wrong, he quickly says it's okay.
In that case, I have to let the other party say "it's okay".
Introverts, even when they encounter problems, the first sentence is "embarrassed"
It's always the mouth that's faster than the brain, and it's always the embarrassment after the fact.
Embarrassing is embarrassing, it's hard enough for an introvert to muster up the courage to talk to strangers!
Let's talk nonsense! Etiquette is not strange!