Recently, I have been in contact with a lot of middle-aged and elderly women, and I didn't expect to find some very striking similarities in them.
I don't know if you have noticed it? Once a woman is over 50 years old, she will basically have the following points!
No matter how hard you try, your income is still quite limited, and some of the conditions that are a little more relaxed are already waiting for retirement.
With a population of 1.4 billion, the actual labor force of the mainland, excluding the elderly and children, is actually hundreds of millions, and today there are about 10 million college graduates every year.
Therefore, even if we lack anything at this stage, it is impossible to lack labor. It is precisely because there is a large number of cheap labor around us that many industries have seen a relatively strong involution.
Many people only come out of school in their 20s to step into the workplace, but they don't expect that some positions are over 35 years old, so they are not welcomed, let alone middle-aged and elderly women in their 50s.
At this age, only a very small part of the women at the top of the pyramid are doing well. And most ordinary women, at this age, basically do security guards, cleaners, waiters, dishwashing aunts, sanitation aunts, and other relatively ordinary jobs, these jobs are not high-paying, so no matter how hard you work, the income is still relatively limited. Of course, some of the conditions are slightly better, and they will not work too hard at this age, and even choose to lie down early and sit at home and wait for retirement.
Cliff-like aging, no matter how beautiful you were when you were young, you can see at a glance that it is like a withered flower.
For women, at the age of twenty or thirty, as long as they dress up a little, they are not as beautiful as a fairy, but at least they are quite good-looking.
At the age of thirty or forty, as long as you are willing to spend money to buy a few beautiful clothes, and put on makeup, you can barely look good.
But once you reach the age of over 50, no matter how beautiful you are when you are young, and no matter how you dress up now, you can still see at a glance that it is very obvious that "it is indeed very old", the figure is seriously out of shape, and the beautiful face has become a yellow-faced woman. Once you enter the age of 60 years old, the phenomenon of aging is even more obvious, basically showing a cliff-like aging, one year at a time.
Gradually, you will enter menopause.
Although the age at which each woman enters menopause is different, in most cases, it is basically around the age of 50, some people are a little earlier, and some people are a little later.
The so-called menopause refers to the transition of a woman from a stage of childbearing to a stage of non-childbearing ability. At this stage, because of the fluctuation or decrease in the secretion of sex hormones, it is easy to cause some problems.
In other words, at this stage, some women will become particularly irritable, and if they don't pay attention to it, they are likely to lose their temper.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this reason that in some families, the husband and wife did not have so many conflicts when they were young, but when they reached the stage of middle and old age, they quarreled at every turn.
began to resist married life, and some people even didn't let their husbands touch it.
Because after the age of 50, some women have entered menopause, and some have menopause, due to the decrease in sex hormone secretion, so there is no desire for that aspect. Plus there are some things that have been done countless times over the years. I have long become accustomed to it, and even become disgusted with these things.
The habit of spending lavishly is gradually gone, and I am not so keen on dressing up.
For young girls, it costs hundreds of dollars to buy clothes every month, and hundreds or thousands of dollars to buy cosmetics and skin care products every month, and the total amount of money spent on themselves is already one or two thousand yuan a month. Of course, this does not include the cost of food, housing, and other aspects.
In addition, many girls love beauty when they are young, and girls do not need to prepare a bride price or buy a wedding house, so even if they only have a salary of four or five thousand yuan a month, it is easy for them to develop the habit of spending lavishly.
Even if many women are married, they still haven't gotten rid of this bad problem, and if they really quit the habit of spending lavishly, they basically start to quit when they are over 50 years old.
Because when you are over 50 years old, no matter how much you dress up, you won't have much effect, and there is no need to dress up beautifully for anyone at that age.
In addition, women in their 50s have begun to gradually face the problem of retirement, some people do not have a pension because they have not paid social security, and some people have a small amount of money, so even if they receive a pension at that time, it will not be too much.